The last couple times i've had sex with my girlfriend (which has been delightful) i haven't been able to cum. We always switch up positions, we've used warming lotion, yet i don't cum. Help! Btw i'm on zoloft. And xanax when i can get my hands on it.

Are you sure you like girls?

maybe you aren't doing it good try letting her suck and jack him off if you can come that way then it ain't you.

Those drugs must be doing it. I used to be on Paxil and that stuff made it damn near impossible.

Sorry dude.

You jack off alot?

I've never had sex (Saving it for Marriage) so I can't tell you how it would feel, but I do know that Paxil, among other various SSRI's make it damn near impossible to cum. How long have you been on the Paxil? I know, for me personally, I eventually was able to cum after about 5 months or so of taking it, when I guess my body had fully adapted to the medication. I suggest getting of Paxil anyways, it fucking sucks when you try to quit after getting too deep into it.

Fortunately I got off of it a long time back (took it from 2001~2003) and it was really low dose, but still withdrawl sucked horribly. God knows what other lasting side effects it had on me.

What's the problem? Cumming is really the low point of sex for me. Do you lose your erection? Does your girl feel like she isn't pleasing you? Are you getting any pleasure from the sex? If all you want is to ejaculate, then your reasons for sex are all wrong, and I refuse to help you.

dude get off zoloft now! that's your problem.

xanax is the devil's drug, jesus get another benzo. but it is a without a shadow of a doubt the Zoloft. It is infamous for this very issue, its the one reputed to have the most sexual dysfunction out of all the ssri medication.

Girls get this problem all the time!

Its called premature ejaculation, followed by "wow baby was that as good for you?"

zoloft sucks real bad
i was on a high dose level same fucking thing
dont quit cold turkey though if you do you will get the sensation of a cattle prod zappen you in the back of the brain
thats no fun either

Some anti-depressants have a side effect of post-mature ejaculation, and are sometimes even prescribed to treat pre-mature ejaculation.

Sertraline can have adverse effects, including: sleep disorder (both insomnia and increased sleep time), asthenia, gastrointestinal complaints, tremors, weight gain, confusion, dizziness, anorgasmia, nausea/vomiting, bruxism, mild depersonalization, and decreased libido.

Get off the Zoloft. Xanax is cool though.

So let me get this straight.

You have sex for ages, I assume your girl cums, yet you don't.

I'm guessing your girl isn't complaining too loudly....

Seriously, those drugs can screw up your sexual urges quite a bit. At least you can get hard - be thankful for that!

Get off yo zoloft.