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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-05-07, 20:07
Navicalist Navicalist is offline
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Default When does stop mean STOP?

It happens all the time.

"Stop"

Just a little comment, being girly.

"Stop"

Still going on, no problem.

"Stop.."

Still complying.

"STOP!"

Runs out of the room.
 #2 
Old 2007-05-07, 20:11
Rocko Rocko is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

When she screams it hard enough that your balls hurt.
 #3 
Old 2007-05-07, 20:44
scorpio2121 scorpio2121 is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Once should be enough.
 #4 
Old 2007-05-07, 20:45
Max Klinger Max Klinger is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

when it has a .. after it, then you actually stop.
 #5 
Old 2007-05-07, 23:53
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Moving soon.. :p
Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Once should be enough.

Agreed..

That's when we know we should stop.. we may not want to stop.. but we know we should..

Listen the first time before we get scared..:P
 #6 
Old 2007-05-08, 00:22
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Usually, if you get a broken nose afterwards, that was the one where you were meant to stop.
 #7 
Old 2007-05-08, 00:36
chumpion chumpion is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Depends on the person and situation.

If you are just starting to make out, it generally means stop.

If you are mid way through, it could mean stop, or it could mean back up a step or two.

If you are just about to enter her, and she says stop, it normally means you are going too fast, and need to back off. Or it could mean stop. Or it could mean she wants to go get a condom.

If you are fucking her good, and she says stop, you could be hurting her (and she wants to change positions), you could be in the wrong hole, or the drugs may be starting to wear off.......

Just don't have sex before you are comfortable communicating with a girl, and you should be fine. Sex without communication could get real scary real quick.
 #8 
Old 2007-05-08, 00:54
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Legally speaking, once is enough or you're gonna get nicked!

Women say stop all the time and, usually, if you keep going she'll smack you one.
If a guy says stop to a gil she'll keep going because she knows you won't hit her.

Damn sexist! :p
 #9 
Old 2007-05-08, 01:12
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

If a guy says stop to a gil she'll keep going because she knows you won't hit her.


Bitches need to read Socrates.
 #10 
Old 2007-05-08, 01:28
Drox Drox is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Depends on the tone.
 #11 
Old 2007-05-08, 01:45
CatharticWeek CatharticWeek is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

If she says stop, just leave.
Teach her that though you have to respect her decision doesn't mean you have to like it.

Certainly either partner has the full right to say 'stop' and have that as final. But before that there should be some consideration for the partner. A little give and take.
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Old 2007-05-08, 01:53
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Quote:
Originally Posted by CatharticWeek
If she says stop, just leave.
Teach her that though you have to respect her decision doesn't mean you have to like it.

Certainly either partner has the full right to say 'stop' and have that as final. But before that there should be some consideration for the partner. A little give and take.


Wow.

Anyway, stop means stop. Then have a talk about why.
 #13 
Old 2007-05-08, 02:02
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Quote:
Originally Posted by yoyobek
Usually, if you get a broken nose afterwards, that was the one where you were meant to stop.


Well said.
 #14 
Old 2007-05-08, 02:14
Taquito Taquito is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Stop doesn't means stop. Hephalump means stop.

Seriously safe words are good for more than just S&M relationships.
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Old 2007-05-08, 02:52
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

If she is serious, then once should be enough.

Although I know some girls who will say "stop" just to see if you will take charge of the situation instead of them making you their bitch. If I actually stopped with some of them they would probably be mad, or confused as to why you actually stopped just because they said it.

It all depends on the girl I guess.
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Old 2007-05-08, 03:10
Navicalist Navicalist is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

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Originally Posted by cronic5
If she is serious, then once should be enough.

Although I know some girls who will say "stop" just to see if you will take charge of the situation instead of them making you their bitch. If I actually stopped with some of them they would probably be mad, or confused as to why you actually stopped just because they said it.

It all depends on the girl I guess.


This is the problem.

It's always like that for me, makes me confused.
 #17 
Old 2007-05-08, 03:20
Puscifer Puscifer is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

sooo.. am i the only one wondering what you did to make her run out of the room?

*go on and spread your legs hunny*
'NO STOP!'
*here let me help you*
'STOP!!'
*you dont need to play hard to get with me baby*
'runs out of the room'
 #18 
Old 2007-05-08, 20:36
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Moving soon.. :p
Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Quote:
Originally Posted by psycho_8b
Legally speaking, once is enough or you're gonna get nicked!

Women say stop all the time and, usually, if you keep going she'll smack you one.
If a guy says stop to a gil she'll keep going because she knows you won't hit her.

Damn sexist! :p


More like because we know that you really don't want us to stop..
 #19 
Old 2007-05-08, 21:09
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bangor northern ireland
Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

is this thread about rape...
 #20 
Old 2007-05-08, 22:09
Harde Harde is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

When you actually think it means stop. If you don't think it means stop then it doesn't. If you think it means stop then it does. The reason you ask this question is that you want to justify not stopping when you should. We all know the answer, some just want to show why it could be acceptable when it is never acceptible. Grow up, and STOP! ha now that's some fucked up shit right here.
 #21 
Old 2007-05-08, 22:29
Ozzy Bot Ozzy Bot is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Depends on the tone.

This man speaks the truth.
 #22 
Old 2007-05-08, 23:12
stiletto stiletto is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

The only way i can see "stop" as not meaning stop is when you and a girl are play fighting, and she says it with that high pitched "girly voice". When you're fooling around, if she whispers it, it could mean you are going too fast. If you're not sure,move alot slower, and see if she says it again to be sure. By this i mean if you're fingering her, and she whispers it go a bit slower and wait for her to say it again. It could be, like someone said before, her seeing if you can take control of a situation.

Other than thoat, it should be pretty obvoius what "stop" means, especially if it's accompanied by punches.
 #23 
Old 2007-05-08, 23:33
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Assfuck Pennsylvania.
Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

That's why you use a safeword.
 #24 
Old 2007-05-09, 03:46
doornob_lightbulb doornob_lightbulb is offline
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Default Re: When does stop mean STOP?

Only stop if theres blood everywhere.

Nah just kidding, if she says stop you probably should.
 
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