When i was with my gf tonight, she was squeezing my penis and rubbing it at usual, almost exactly like i do when i masturbate (with her hand in my pants), and when i was about 3/4 to orgasm, my erection failed. This isn't the first time this has happened either, but like the third out of 3 times to try to get me to orgasm. We live at a live in high school and getting caught is kind of a problem, so she has to stop every 5 minutes or so because someone will be coming. but i stay hard through this interruption, only to go soft when no one is coming. i would say that this may be erectile dysfunction, except for that i am 16! it is really bothering her and me. Please help me totse, you are my last hope.

Your dick will go limp when you are not aroused.

She needs to work out something to keep you aroused. Try fingering her, or getting her to sit so you can see her pussy.

I find a tongue in my wifes pussy keeps me aroused for ages, no matter what she is doing to me.

Just gotta find your thing, I guess....

this would make more sense if i didnt stay rock hard through everything that we do that isnt her directly messing with my dick. if she's doing something else or we're making out or something, then im hard with no problem and never stop, but its when she's doing stuff to it that i lose my erection.

Kegel exercises.

i do that too. funny story, i actually discovered kegal exercises on my own around a year or two ago and ive been doing them every time i masturbate ever since (almost every single day). so yeah, im already doing those.

Maybe it's your diet. Garlic helps men with erectile dysfunction and strengthens your sex drive and your performance. I eat fuckloads of garlic. Also fish is good too. Apparently.

Or maybe you're nervous about something. Try having sex drunk and see if it still happens. If it doesn't happen, chances are the alcohol has made you more relaxed and you can carry on without losing your stiffie.

You're nervous have a few beers before or pop some viagra just for the first time.

first off, i dont drink and neither does my gf, and second of all, where the hell would a 16 year old kid get viagra. is there anything else i could possibly do to keep it up until i orgasm.

also, for frinkmakesyouthink, this isnt about me going soft during sex, we dont even have sex, its just her giving me pseudo-handjobs.

It's called "performance anxiety".

When your not thinking about it, or when it doesn't matter if it's hard or soft, it'll get hard easy.

When you need it to be hard, your thinking too much about it being hard, and that leads to sub-conscious questions like "what happens if I don't stay hard?", "what will she think of me if I go soft?", and "gees - I have to stay hard now!".

All you can do is go with the flow. Try making it stay soft while she gives you head - you'll find you won't be able to keep it soft for long. Alcohol helps, cause your attitude will go from anxious to I don't give a fuck".

Just stop worrying.....

Where, oh where did I see that "sucks to be you!" picture.......

Seriously though...Relax mate...And find somewhere you can be alone.
I know it's not romantic but a toilet works well!

From what I've heard, you get right near shooting and your mind goes causing (in
your situation at least) your fears of getting caught to flop you. I think.

Relax....Maybe have a few beers before...Or a joint if you smoke the cheeba.

And please try to be alone with her somewhere you won't get caught!

one word viagra and weed to make you both horney and then just relax and let your pants and her hands get cover in cum LOL(Cums) LOL

Viagra. Use it.

Hah well if you smoke weed and then chug some DXM, it's feel like 2x as good and you'll maintain a boner but you wont be able to orgasm, take it from the guy that attempted like fuckin 30 minute masturbating session while high out of his mind

I cant maintain my erection

Homosexuality.