So I dated this girl for about 2 1/2 months or so, almost 2 years ago. well she broke up with me, and 10 months later we started dating again. that lasted 2 days short of 8 months. that was 3 months ago. ok, if you caught that and are still with me, this is where my question begins. Why the hell am I so caught up in this girl? I mean, we've never really done much of anything with each other. I mean sure, we've kissed and what not, but thats as far as it ever got. we only went on a few actual dates. I think she is absolutly beautiful.(no pix, sorry) I just cant get over her. she is currently dating some guy but she cant stand him, he has no sense of humor or personality. she says she wants to leave him, but wont just up and leave, because she doesnt want to be mean. she left me like there was no tomorrow, but she said that was because she was under a lot of pressure from her "friend" who doesnt like me. she said she still likes me and wants to be with me because " we balance each other out" but she is waiting until july or august when this kid goes to college before she will break up with him. I want to wait, but I dont want to at the same time. I cant find anyone else, Im a little fat and i tend to be an asshole. I just wish I could get over her and find someone, or be with her now. wtf. this is sort of a rant/question.

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She's making you wait... and driving you crazy in the process. Kind of a bitch move. Makes you second choice...

Talk to her, tell her it's bullshit. I mean, what the fuck at her succombing to peer pressure and breaking up with you? If she did it to you, she can do it to him.

...Doesn't sound worth it though.

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meh. It was late, and i wanted to get my question out there.

I told her that I didnt want to be a second choice if this guy falls through, that I didnt want to be used. she said she would never use me. I know it doesnt sound worth it, but I just cant get over her.

Why do you want to be with her.

Answer me in less than a fucking huge paragraph please.

I want to be with her because of how I feel when I am around her. It just feels like nothing can go wrong, that everything is OK. I know that at one time she truly cared about me, and thats what I want again. I've dated other girls before, but I never loved anyone like I love her

Look. I've had to get over about a dozen girls this year due to unfortunate circumstances. I know exactly how you feel. But you need to just spend time away from her, do fun things with your friends, and take a step back and consider what it really is you like about her. Then you'll realize that she's really not that special compared to the rest of the chicks out there in the world.
And the real kicker: If she liked you back, she would be with you right now. Her actions are speaking loudly. It sucks, yeah, but that's life. Girls are stupid.

I have tried taking a look at the bigger picture. I know that she doesnt really want to be with me, but for some reason, I guess I refuse to believe it. I cant really compare her to the rest of the chicks in the world because I cant get other girls. I hear people say all the time that anyone can get hot girls. not really. I think maybe only one, and I blew my chance. I just want to get over her, but I want to be in a relationship. man, im such a bitch.

Question: What the hell is my problem?
Answer: You're scared of being lonely. Stop caring and you will either end up alone and chill with it or (more likely) surrounded by adoration on every side.

Growing up will most likely resolve your problems.

Being young/sexually active etc, although the best time of your life, is the worst because you don't know how to deal with it. When you get older and look back you will think.........Jeez the oportunities I missed, the signals I missread, I must be the biggest fool in the universe!

Welcome to the club.

Your own hands would never do that kind of bullshit.

Get the hint?

Make your relationship more mysterious and sexual next time no?

Is anyone guessing rape?