I called my girlfriend yesturday, We've been together for 16 months. and she turns 18 in september. She is planning on moving in with me in sept.

anyways, she tells me that she told her aunts that we had sex. And now the aunts are pissed, and she isn't ever aloud to go away from her house with me again. We were gonna get "engaged" this summer, and stuff.

I told her yesturday I was getting her an Ipod, cuz she wanted one. She said " Well don't rush into things" << What the hell does that mean?

I guess you've been together for a while, but moving in together at 18 seems a little premature.

You need to seriously think about it before you commit to anything. I'm not saying you've just blindly rushed into it, but it isn't something I'd want to do.

Anyways, aren't ambiguous thread titles like that supposedly against the "rules"? I thought the title was supposed to contain at least some indicator of what the thread is about.

There is a long story of my GF. I posted about it before, here is the short version:

Her mom was murdered by her moms BF when my GF was 9years old. She lives with 2 aunts and an uncle who are controlling/over protective. blah blah blah...

Basically she has a shit life.

pwned...

But yeh, I suppose that explains it. Sort of...

I suppose I don't need to tell you this, but you are taking on a huge deadweight of emotional baggage there. I hope she's worth it.

I had this situation when I was 18. If she trusted her aunts enough to tell them you had sex, she is either scared of them , or scared to be without them.

She will choose the aunts over you in the long run. If you end up fucking her over, she will have nowhere to go, because she is scared the aunts won't let her go back if she defies them.

The only options are:

1) Ditch the girl, gently, she will get over it. Look for a new girl asap.

2) Stick it out, but give her some space. Wait for her phone calls etc. Just look for obvious signs, and ask her what she thinks about stuff. Dont try to pressure her into moving in, thats not cool.

3) Try to make the aunts like you. If they like you and trust you, everything will probably work out. Right now they see you as trouble, trying to steal her innocence, or use her and lose her, or steal her from them. They need to love you.

whats with all these immature kids who think theyre in love.

'omg im gonna buy u an ipod!! oh gee wizz!'
whats true love without an ipod...

gimme a break man, grow the fuck up and just chill before you consider getting "engaged" to a 17 year old.