So I'm bringing this chick that I've like for about a year to a Modest Mouse concert next week. Past week or two I've been more touchy-feely with her than I ever have been in an attempt to show that I want to fuck the shit out of her without actually saying it. Nothing too extreme, just quick touching and arm around the shoulder thing (she later responded that it was 'very sexual', but didn't care that I did it... just noticed it).

My plan is to be like that again when we're at the concert, have a beer or two or twelve (we're in high school, so thats actually worth mentioning...), and when Modest Mouse is playing Im just gonna sorta go behind her and wrap my arms around her stomach and hold tight, maybe rub down on her stomach and boobs, and then after a badass song (DUKES UP :D) turn her face to the side and go for a kiss, and then right afterwards whisper TASTE THE RAINBOW :)

So what do you think? Would touching her boobs (through shirt) and stomach be too much for first time lovin'? What other shit can I do to show affection without coming off as too creepy (playful sexy stuff would be AWESOME, but I have no imagination).
I know I'm planning this out too thoroughly and that I should just go with the flow, but thats never worked in the past... So yeah.

And to the girls: Is a kiss at the end of a date expected by you, or would you think it cliche?

don't start attacking her chest before you've even kissed her- that is creepy.
why don't youjust make a bit more a of a move during the next week?

Point taken. But Ive talked to this chick about sex and pretty much every kinky little thing you can think of, she seems pretty comfortable with the topic, its not like if I touched her she'd scream rape or anything... the only reason I haven't done anything with her yet is because I haven't gotten a chance to be with her outside of school and make a move

So basically I need some help initiation the first move, on what to do, what the limits are, etc

wow.
just...wow.

It's not as scary or such a rocket-science as you would make it seem. Just don't be freaking creepy.

Too much thinking...Your night will not pan out that way and your plan will have been thought up for nothing.

Don't start rubbing boobs and crap before you've even done anything remotely sexual with her. Go for a kiss, see if she's up for it and take it from there. Rubbing her up before you've done anything with her is pervy dude.

Also note that she may be just going there with you as a friendly thing...She may flirt with you but there's a big difference between flirting and actually wanting your man juice all up in her! Take it easy.

wow.
just...wow.

Hahaha okayokayokay. I get it, I'm getting ahead of myself, I'm planning this out too thoroughly, I'm expecting too much, I'm being a creepy hormone-driven teen. Whatever. Apparently I'm going over to her house this sunday to watch movies so yeah... I'll just go in for a kiss when the timings right, but I dont know if I want to wait for the END to plant one on her. We'll see.

We're going to be watching movies and shit, so what would be the best time? End of the movie? Go for the it during the lame makeout scene?

turn her face to the side and go for a kiss, and then right afterwards whisper TASTE THE RAINBOW :)

Holy fuck. I would pay to see some guy use that line in all seriousness. Like, where do you come up with something like that? I am laughing so hard in real life at you. Like...fuck. Taste the fucking rainbow? Use that line, and here is the only rainbows your going to be tasting:

http://img216.imageshack.us/img216/3581/iowa713705lv3.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

Holy fuck. I would pay to see some guy use that line in all seriousness. Like, where do you come up with something like that? I am laughing so hard in real life at you. Like...fuck. Taste the fucking rainbow? Use that line, and here is the only rainbows your going to be tasting:

Haha I can imagine it would sound fucked up from your point of view. Its from a Dane Cook standup reutine... sorta inside joke between me and her :D

So pay up bitch.

Things seem to be going good between you and her, when you're at her place sunday and you feel the moment is right just kiss her, it's not that hard. And believe me you'll know when it's right... you just feel it. Doesn't matter if it's when you're leaving, during the movie or right when she opens the door to let you in.

Bad advice? Maybe
But it's the truth

Haha, oh fuck.

Holy shit, batman! (http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2001325)
Your story = my story.
Well, same band, at least.

Sounds ok, except reverse the order of the kiss and the boob touchage, and scrap the skittles thing ("taste the rainbow").

Godspeed.

Yeah I know.. I saw that. What could be cooler than seeing Modest Mouse with Man Man? :D

But uh yeah. I actually went over there today to watch the movie, but I didn't kiss her... just a hug on the way out which kinda sucked. There just wasn't really a time to go for it, maybe there will next week at the concert?

And the skittles thing... it would just make her laugh. And that'd be awesome to just have both of us geekin' up right after a kiss

Indeed it would.
Just keep your cool, and don't think about it too much. Put your arms around her from behind. And when it feels right, go for it.
I'm about to go pick her up. I'm feeling positive and this is gonna go great. Modest Mouse FTW.

Yeah I was a bit nervous at first, but she doesn't make it awkward at all... so its easy as hell to just go with it.

I wish you the best of luck, wish me the same

And if they dont play dukes up I'm gonna be pissssed.

Dude, I'm not exactly skilled with girls, but generally touching their chest before you kiss them is a bad idea.

Outstanding show. Man Man fucking rocked too.
Wasn't feeling it with the girl, though, so nothing happened, but we still had a great time.
I think it has to do with the fact that I have absolutely no sex drive. :( Oh well.
Hope your luck is better than mine!

go for the kiss first dude, and then maybe 'accidently' touch her chest, then if she don't slap you then go for it!

Dude, fuck her. If she hasnt picked up on it until now, just move on.

Take me to the modest mouse show instead. I'll totally put out.

I wasn't saying fucking molest her before a kiss. that'd just be retarded. I'm saying go up behind her and to the sorta have my arms around her for a few songs and then go for a kiss. But really, I'm just making this more complicated than it is

I coulda got one at her house though. When I was about to leave and we were walking to the door, I caught her catching her breathe really quick :D It was damn cute. But I don't want a goodbye kiss to be my first with her

But I don't want a goodbye kiss to be my first with her

Why not?

Because they're lame IMO and don't mean shit.

dumb.

EDIT: just to expand on that, a goodbye kiss can often mean much more than a makeout session.

dumb.

EDIT: just to expand on that, a goodbye kiss can often mean much more than a makeout session.

Yeah, that's what I was thinking.
It's better than nothing, right?
But, for me at least, it implies that emotion is involved, so if you don't want that, then yeah, you're right.

Don't be a coward.

But, for me at least, it implies that emotion is involved, so if you don't want that, then yeah, you're right.

The reason I didn't is because emotion WOULDN'T be involved in it. Just a /kiss 'kthxbye' and then leave. Sure, I'd leave with a kiss and something to think about and look forward to the next time I see her

Shit.

Yeah I fucked up. Whatever. It just didn't seem right at the time, but I haven't given up :D

First man, man up and make a move, girls hate wussy guys pussyfooting around BE A FUCKING MAN.

second a rainbow kiss is when you go down on a bird thats on the rag, get a nice chunky mouthful of blood and unfertilized eggs and then kiss her.

She may get the wrong impression.

Also if she is not aware of this, if you do say taste the rainbow she will assume you have no testicles and have lewd sexual fantasies about monkeys and your own father, you sick bastard.

The reason I didn't is because emotion WOULDN'T be involved in it. Just a /kiss 'kthxbye' and then leave. Sure, I'd leave with a kiss and something to think about and look forward to the next time I see her

Shit.

Yeah I fucked up. Whatever. It just didn't seem right at the time, but I haven't given up :D

Hmm. Here's the thing though. While it may not seem right to you, it may seem right to her. You just have to read her and know.
There never was a 'right moment' for me either. But honestly, my advice is shit so I should just stop suggesting things to you. Listen to the rest of totse, you'll fair better.

Come on dude - just take her into the toilet and fuck her silly. If you don't someone else will.......

IT'S A MICKEY MOUSE CONCERT - Those disney "mickey mouse club" freaks are fucking wild!

Oh, did you say modest mouse.....

Also if she is not aware of this, if you do say taste the rainbow she will assume you have no testicles and have lewd sexual fantasies about monkeys and your own father, you sick bastard.

Pretty safe assumption.

yeah bro

its like steps

1.hugging
2.kissing
3.mackin' it
4.touching
5.fingering
6.hand jobs (5 & 6 are interchangeable)
7.Bj's
8.sex
9.bukkake
10.??????
11.profit!

yeah bro

its like steps

1.hugging
2.kissing
3.mackin' it
4.touching
5.fingering


1 and 4 are interchangeable too with her...

They're not going to play Dukes Up, dumbshit.

Kiss, Poke, GOAL!

Probably not. With the new album and everything they could probably give a shit about the old...

But yeah I ended up not going because she couldnt go due to it being on a wednesday and I had nobody else to go with... it sucks not having a car.

Lame, dude. Lame.
I hope you sold your ticket, at least?