So, my girlfriend is starting to like the idea of anal sex, but I'm a bit lost as how to prepare for it. I remember seeing a really great, detailed guide here before in the.. what was it called? the archives? There was a place where all really great topics were saved and there was one for sex and affection. My problem is I can't seem to find it, I've been away from totse for awhile, did they take that away?

If anyone's got that saved I'd really appreciate it, or if anyone has some other general tips that would be great.

Thanks!

get some lube, fool around a bit first. dont just shove it in there right away. use somthing smaller, like fingers. then when shes ready slowly ease it in there. and just make sure you communicate with her, let her decide when shes ready.:D have fun!

Just get her to greese up the old dildo with some KY gel, take a deep breath and you will be fine!

It only bleeds for a few weeks afterwards so don't worry too much, just smile for her and tell her how wonderful it was for you!

^ignore that

If she doesn't enjoy it she doesn't love you. Facts are facts.

Now, to actually get it in there, use lots of her cum or an artificial lubrication, and tell her to start fingering it her asshole.

While this is happening, lick her tits/cunt w/e you generally to for foreplay. Keep her excited and pleasured while she is loosening her asshole.

If you do in fact have a dildo, then you may now pass it to her, and she can go at her own pace inserting it up her rectum. If you dont, you should take over the fingers, and go slowly in and out, until she tells you to go faster or add more fingers.

When you can slide 2 manly fingers in and out of her anus, and she actually enjoys it without any pain, you can now line your cock up, covered in lubrication, and attempt to push it inside. It probably will not fit easily. With lube, she shouldn't be in any real pain or discomfort, but make sure she tells you if she is.

Do not think your whole cock is going into her asshole, unless you are on the smaller size. A big (7"+ width to match) cock is only going to fit a very small amount inside the first few times.

It is like sex. The first few times, its nothing great for either of you, but when she can take a decent amount going in and out without any discomfort for either of you, it could be enjoyable.

Just keep fingering her ass every chance you get, eventually a cock will be able to go in.

Post # 10 on this thread is my response to someone that posted a similar question just 4 or 5 days ago......

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=1999904

Good luck!

Just make sure she don't have fuckin diorhea on your dick.

What's more important than the obvious common sense stuff like water-based lube and loosening her up is the POSITION. Do no try doggy style her first time, it will hurt and it will be a long time before she wants to try. If she likes it the first time, she'll get addicted to it. The secret? Spooning. She can full relax in this position, her muscles are stretched in weird ways and you both have equal control.

Also, have her keep in mind the state of her digestive system. I've circumvented shit-dick so far by just being mindful. No smell, no poo, all hottness. If she wants to be really careful, have her eat light for a day or two. And make sure she pooped that day, at least 4 hours before. That way, her body will have time to "clean" itself (it really does). AND of course, have her clean with soap and water. Enemas aren't necessary.

What's more important than the obvious common sense stuff like lube and loosening her up is the POSITION. Do no try doggy style her first time, it will hurt and it will be a long time before she wants to try. If she likes it the first time, she'll get addicted to it. The secret? Spooning. She can full relax in this position, her muscles are stretched in weird ways and you both have equal control.

It is the same position they put me in when doctors insert cameras/fingers into my rectum to examine my colon, so I guess it makes sense. "Just lay on your side, take deep breaths, and relax." And when they lube me up, and take like a fucking fist full, and just throw it on my asshole. It goes in disturbingly easy.

Also, for lube, it feels like Petroleum Jelly (vaseline), but I can't be sure.

just smile for her and tell her how wonderful it was for you!

I'm not very interested in this thread, but this reply kicked ass