Is it normal to completely loose it for months? Not talking about getting drunk - hell, even the bar stool looks good when you're wasted. But of not being whatsoever interested of sex otherwise. Is it the winter time? Something that just happens when you get married? It doesn't make sense how you can love someone and think they are damned good looking, but not to have any interest in getting it on.

<waves hand> any ideas? Or any ideas how to get it back? And no suggestions about sex itself, please. BTDT, wore the T-shirt. Just the emotional side is a problem.

You're probably homosexual!

PMT!.........Adds extra characters cos the &totse god says I must.

I wish I knew, my girlfriend seems to have very little sex drive, whereas I'm always up for it. Which is annoying, considering so far this year, I've seen her for less than twenty days, and although we've missed each other very much things always end up with cuddling.

I'll never understand her :)