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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-05-03, 21:22
Fazed Fazed is offline
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Default In love with a 13 year old girl...

Ok I know im gonna get flamed for this but whatever, atm im 15 and will be 16 in a few months. Problem is i've been getting really close to this girl in my school called , I like her but I can't stop thinking about her age.
We always scive together and she will usually give me fags or food, were really close and recently shes been hinting at me, my friend even told us to pack it in and go out already when we were fighting (lol don't ask)
She's actually really beautifull for her age, with long brown hair and peircing green eyes. Ive never been out with anyone younger or the same age as me, there always older.
I don't care if you flame me but what would you do in my position?
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Old 2007-05-03, 21:26
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

If you don't care about others ridiculing you and giving you shit, and you can rationalize it with yourself that age is a mere number, then by all means go for it.

If you can't see yourself getting over her age, and are weak with stuff like age, then it would only end badly.
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Old 2007-05-03, 21:26
SensoryOssuary SensoryOssuary is offline
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

go for it
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Old 2007-05-03, 21:27
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Pics or GTFO.
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Old 2007-05-03, 21:27
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

Tread carefully, if you must at all.
Meet her parent(s) before getting too involved.
:)
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Old 2007-05-03, 21:32
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

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Originally Posted by Flock
Tread carefully, if you must at all.
Meet her parent(s) before getting too involved.
:)


I know most of her family already from being good friends with her sister, ive even been up her house a couple of times.
And Rykosheet, why the fuck would i post pics of someone i know (not mentioning that shes 13) just so you can have your fuckin pleasure over them? Get a fucking life or you gtfo
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Old 2007-05-03, 23:02
woopsueypigs77 woopsueypigs77 is offline
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

Haha, well, I can see where you're coming from. One of my buddies went on a ski trip with his cousin. Well we were talking on MSN while they were in Colorado, and I saw a picture of her and she was quite attractive. Long story short, I found out she's only 14. I'll be 18 in September, and she'll be 15, so I decided it's probably not in my best interest to date a person 3 years my younger.
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Old 2007-05-03, 23:27
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

Dude - your both pretty young.

Mabey keep the flirting going, and get to know her a bit better. Go on a couple of dates even. Then have a good long hard think about why you like her, and if you will still like her in 6 months time.

I know it's hard, but try not to think with your dick.
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Old 2007-05-03, 23:34
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

Lolita. It was a Kubrick film. Not really a comedy.
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Old 2007-05-03, 23:57
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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Just don't be bedding her until a more suitable age and it's all good in the hood.
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Old 2007-05-04, 00:30
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Pictures of you and the girl in question, for the purpose of deciding if you're a pedo or not.
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Old 2007-05-04, 00:38
ContemplatingChaos ContemplatingChaos is offline
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

Not long ago, I would've said it was a bad idea.
Now, I know a 23-24 year old guy dating a 16 year old. It's sort of changed my perspective.
A couple of years aren't going to matter in the long run if you truely have feelings for her and it's not just some creepy, pedophile situation.
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Old 2007-05-04, 01:15
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13 is a little young for a 15 year old. You probably arent in love with her, but the age difference isnt that insane that you couldnt make it work if you really tried at it. And the longer you're together, the less difference it'll make.
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Old 2007-05-04, 01:56
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If you decide to go for it be prepared for all the shit you will take from your peers.
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Old 2007-05-04, 02:03
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by any chance is her name amber? lol
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Old 2007-05-04, 02:15
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

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Originally Posted by ZeroMalarki
Just don't be bedding her until a more suitable age and it's all good in the hood.


Word.

I felt the same way when I started dating a younger girl, you get over it, that's a pretty big age difference though.
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Old 2007-05-04, 02:21
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Pics or GTFO.

For once I agree with this. if she looks like a fuckin baby then screw it. but if she looks mature or whatever, dude go for it.
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Old 2007-05-04, 03:11
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

girls love older guys. its just a fact of life and its gonna be a long time till you can do anything legally anyway. well thats assuming that you live in the US but i say go for it. nothing like a little statutory rape
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Old 2007-05-04, 05:04
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Get em before the hair does, I rekon.....
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Old 2007-05-04, 11:51
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What the fuck does it matter? You probably wont fuck her and im pretty damn sure you wont be dating her long enough for it to be serious... Middle school relationships are a joke...

Grow up or GTFO
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Old 2007-05-04, 14:26
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Wait, she's 13 and gives you fags? I find that somewhat odd, but back to the topic a year difference really isnt that big of a deal. If you still know her by the time she's 20 and your 22 your going to be kicking yourself in the face for not tapping that when she use to give you fags in the playground.

Even though you may be having the time of your life, think twice , thats my final advice.

Lobo
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Old 2007-05-04, 17:37
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Default Re: In love with a 13 year old girl...

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Originally Posted by Sevn
What the fuck does it matter? You probably wont fuck her and im pretty damn sure you wont be dating her long enough for it to be serious... Middle school relationships are a joke...

Grow up or GTFO


Fuck you, im in middle school anyway so how the fuck am I ment to have an 'adult' relationship anyway? Stop thinking with your fucking dick you dont have to fuck someone just to prove that you love them. Im sorry I dont mind people flaming me, but this is a fucking joke your just trying to look cool on some online forum where nobody gives half a flying fuck about you.

And sorry but I really dont want pics of me or someone I know flying around the internet. She looks slightly older, and she acts more mature for her age, i guess thats why im attracted to her.
 
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