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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-05-03, 17:06
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sexy_fiend 
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first date today w/ girl (very anxious)
so two days ago i was on valium and feelin groovy and confident, and ended up sitting down next to this fat chick and made small talk, then boom i got a date. problem is i'm all out of artificial confidense (valium) and i have several disorders, including: SAD (social anxiety disorder), ADD (shouldnt be an issue), and tourettes disorder (not screaming or anything but some minor physical tics). I'll call her today and ask if she wants to do something. i plan on telling her i'm an anxious person right off the bat, but im not sure if i should just outwrite say i have tourettes. please give advice on how to handle this situation, thanks
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#2
 2007-05-03, 17:12
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sexy_fiend 
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Re: first date today w/ girl (very anxious)
i also need shit to talk about, when im shy and on the spot my mind draws a blank
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#3
 2007-05-03, 17:24
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Re: first date today w/ girl (very anxious)
Just talk. Let it flow. Keep in mind that a conversation is between two people. You shouldn't have to prop it up.
It's just a date, not a big deal. Don't think of it as something big and special. You're just going out with someone.
If your disorders come up, then feel free to talk about them. I wouldn't bring them up and make an issue of them, unless they become an issue.
What are you two going to be doing?
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