Getting down to the nitty gritty here............I might be taking this girl out for the first time...of course i will be picking her up and taking her(text book).Then dropping her off after the date is finished. Now the question is what do I do when taking her home, obviously i get out and walk her to her house/door......Then besides the usual closing remarks...should i try for a smack on the cheek or what? Cause i kno everyone has that usual pause/stuttering at the end trying to see whos going to make the first move on the action.

Other dates you kno, I kno the chick, and its natural to drop a quick one on them then leave.But this date is different i really dont know the girl A-lot, just getting to know her, and i dont want to be put in the position that im a just a friend to be taken advantage of when shes bored.....but then i dont want to force anything..or knock off some ackward Bulshit(which ive done before, resulting in a neutral/shocked response).

Going to be doing a lot of feeling around thats all i kno....any suggestions?

Whip out your dick.

Whip out your dick.

I couldn't agree more.

There is no text book answer man, you'll have to wing it. Just keep an eye on her reactions and go from there.

Give her a hug and say see you next time.

That also depends on how well the date goes. If she ends up being a stupid bitch, kick her out of your car naked 10 kilometers from home, go home, jerk off and go to bed.

Do walk her to her door.

Don't expect a kiss, unless she's easy.

Perhaps make a joke about the fallacy of first date conclusions?

Yea like i said im going to have do a lot of feeling around.......I aint expecting anything unless I can pick up on something she says or does.....

Feel her out during the date, and if you think you feel a connection, then make a move.

But, if you do decide to make a move, be fluent with it. Don't pause half way through, don't begin then back away.

You go 90%, she goes 10% in to the kiss... (This rule does, in fact, work.)

Now, if you do make a move and it becomes awkward, don't show that it bothered you. Just look at her, chuckle a bit, and tell her good night like nothing happened. You can atleast come away from that mistake with something, by showing her you're confident in every situation.

And, after all of this... It really doesn't matter. That one kiss at the end of that one date won't matter in the long run. If you two continue dating, it'll be shadowed by many other awkward and fun situations, and ultimately shared for a good laugh.

If you don't go on another date with her, then oh well, there's more important things for you to worry about.

Do this before you even get in the car to go on the date. take her hands in yours, look straight at her and tell her how beautiful she looks and before she can do anything, kiss her but don't go full on. Make it a kiss where most of your lips will be kissing her cheek but some of them will be on her lips. And just tell her alot of people stress about the possible kiss at the end of it, so you just wanted to get it out of the way and now we can concentrate on having a good time.

This will either work and you get cuteness points with her or it wont and you will still have time to find something else to get into and you just saved 40-50 bucks. Good luck man.

Now, if you do make a move and it becomes awkward, don't show that it bothered you. Just look at her, chuckle a bit, and tell her good night like nothing happened. You can atleast come away from that mistake with something, by showing her you're confident in every situation.

Good advice. Confidence is more important than everything.

Im not going hardcore on telling her shes beautiful/hot, She already knows that, why should i tell her......just to remind her? She knows what i think after i lay eyes on her and give her a quick scan....plus ive already made a few smooth compliments....

The confident thing is good, thats always shadowing my every move, ive been known to make bold moves out of no where...probably will see a couple during this date.....HA

Ill be sure to try to cop a victory pic, if i can manage to take one.....that is if we even go...

Now, if you do make a move and it becomes awkward, don't show that it bothered you. Just look at her, chuckle a bit, and tell her good night like nothing happened. You can atleast come away from that mistake with something, by showing her you're confident in every situation.


word, word, word, word, WORD.

seriously, just be sure of yourself and treat everything like it's no big deal either way. laugh at shit.

the trick is to know you're superior. remember, she's only a woman. :p

ask her if you can kiss her and if she says "yes" tell her "i'll keep that in mind" then walk away.

Stick it in her butt.

Just exactly what is a "date" in Americana?

Over here in the UK if a girl agree's to go out with you there's a strong possibility that she actually fancies you and the chance's of a snog and a grope is most definatley on the cards...........or is that too complicated for you?

HAHA ^^^ well we dont play by the UK rules over here........

No its similar, hahaha i believe if you DO WORK..anything u want can be on the cards...its not predetermined....

In the USA its basically the same, except the girl has about half the date to decide if you're a dumbass.

a lot of times it takes less than half.

Whip out your dick.


I love it when that sort of comment gets the first reply! It is so good reading some sort of pointless problem and having the first reply be something like 'whip out your dick'.

Do what ever feels right...

Throughout the date you should be slowly building physical contact, outside arm touching, to hand holding, to arm around shoulders, etcetera. If you're building touch well, then you should easily be able to kiss the girl during your date. Kissing at the door is so fucking cliche and builds up the moment FAR more than it needs to be. It's just a fucking kiss, for God's sake.

Chances are, if she lets you touch her hair... erm... hard to explain, you sorta lightly brush the hair from her temple area and run your fingers through it lightly back behind her ear... if you're allowed to do that, you're allowed to kiss her. The whole 'I just saw Hitch and I'm going to close 90% then let her complete it!', thing is fucking juvenile.

^^^ agreeable...fucking forgot all about that....


see alot of the random BS......i dont even know about..but when it comes down to it...like im subconsciously aware of this shit....without thinking....

Ill lay it out real simple for you.

Step 1: Sit down with her on a couch or something
Step 2: Arm around her
Step 3: Talk about random shit making alot of eye contact
Step 4: Stop Talking
Step 5: Maintain eye contact for a few seconds
Step 6: Kiss her

and since this is totse

Step 7: Profit

Step 1: Sit down with her on a couch or something
Step 2: Arm around her
Step 3: Talk about random shit making alot of eye contact
Step 4: Stop Talking
Step 5: Maintain eye contact for a few seconds
Step 6: Kiss her
Step 7: Anally rape her, her dog, and her sister.
Step 8: Get it on tape.
Step 9: Post said tape on totse.
Step 10: ???
Step 11: Profit!!
Fixed.

and since this is totse

Step 7: nekkid pixx

Fixed.