Nobody wants to hang out with me anymore. There's only one dude who ever lets me come hang out, and it's usually just us sitting there, with whoever else might want to hang out. This is usually left up to him to find, nobody answers my calls anymore. This kind of puts me in a rut, because with nobody to hang out with, there's nothing to do, and nobody wants to do hang out and do nothing...But that dude and another that comes around sometimes seem to have taken an interest in my abnormally low sex drive. They tell me about how if I really want to, I can get with whoever, there are plenty of freaks out there, etc etc. But all it ever seems to do is lower my sex drive even more. I want to get laid, but I don't seem to be able to get myself to close(or really open) any deals.

Any thoughts? Advice? Anything you'd like to say.

Maybe it's your low self-esteem that women find is a turn-off. Actually, maybe it's what everyone finds a turn-off?

I'll hang out with you....wait, you are a chick, right?

But my self-esteem isn't even that low. It's just when I get reminded these things it's a real damper.


No, Im not a chick. Sorry.

No, Im not a chick. Sorry.

well, that's your problem right there.

Wow, I never thought of it that way.

What should I do?

Post your address and gimme 30 minutes to shower and get changed.

I'll hang with you. Do you play MTG? Couner strike? C&C?

Or do you atleast like guinea pigs?

My computer sucks balls, I used to play CS but now it can't handle it.

Besides, I hate the computer. I'm so tired of looking at this screen.

Maybe you're really boring, or have some kind of annoying personality trait.

I know a lot of people that I never call because of either of the above reasons.

Now, if it's because you're boring, you have a chance for salvation. Just be more adventurous. Be willing to try new things. Just act crazy once in a while.

You just need to develop a more likable personality.

Thankfully, I was born with a likable personality, and I have a problem where I have too many people that want to hang out with me. It actually kinda sucks. Constantly having to sell out one group of friends to chill with the other, etc.

Having to make up excuses 3 times a day to keep my friends from calling me if I have other plans.

It's actually more of a burden than you would think.

So look at it on the bright side, you have freedom to do what you want, while I'm stuck constantly having to find ways out of doing things.

My guess would be that I'm boring. I have those times where I can be crazy and talk and shit, but it's hard for me to constantly be like that if I'm with people I don't know very well.

Look at the bright side? Easy for you to say, you always have somebody that'll want to at least join you in what you 're doing, if not invite you to do somethin. Sure, I have freedom to do what I want, but what fun is doing whatever you want alone?

totse and america's army: special forces are the only friends i have now. i'd smoke you out but you'd have to come to my place.

get a hooker to raise your sex drive

My guess would be that I'm boring. I have those times where I can be crazy and talk and shit, but it's hard for me to constantly be like that if I'm with people I don't know very well.

I'm the same way, unless I drink. And I drink often.

When I'm sober, and with people I don't know, I'm probably a lot like you.

So you're not alone in that aspect.

Look at the bright side? Easy for you to say, you always have somebody that'll want to at least join you in what you 're doing, if not invite you to do somethin. Sure, I have freedom to do what I want, but what fun is doing whatever you want alone?

I'll admit that I probably came off sounding like I'm bragging or like I'm full of myself, and for that I apologize.

But really, the grass is always greener on the other side.

I guess I wouldn't want to be completely friend-less. But I hate having the pressure of having to go out with my friends every single day, when I have so much to do to get my life on track. It's hard to say no for me, especially when I have to say it several times a day.

If you’re under 18 join the band at your high school. You'll find people like you there. If you don't play an instrument pick one you think you'd like then go to your school's band director and tell him that you want to meet people and be part of a group. If you’re over 18 go to college and take classes that require in class discussion. When people say things that you agree with go talk to them about it after class. Hell if you’re in high school that would work too. If that doesn't work get a job washing dishes at a restaurant. Make it a chain restaurant like an Olive Garden, Outback Steakhouse or Applebees. Some place that’s not fast food. Check out the girls who work there before you start, make sure there are some good looking one’s there. After you get some time in at the job you’ll have some time in at the job the people in the kitchen will talk to you and you can make friends with them. Be nice to the waitresses and help them out if they’re moving something heavy and eventually they’ll start talking to you too. Restaurant people know how to party and have a good time. If you want to drink, do drugs and have sex then get a restaurant job. If you’re under 18 and sometimes under 21 you have to be careful how you talk to people or their just going to treat you like a kid. If you older that 18 it’s a good place to loose your virginity, some of the chicks like taking cherries. It’s important to get a job as a dishwasher because you get time to talk to servers and cooks.

You must really love guinea pigs. I think that almost every post of yours that I've seen has mentioned them.

Haha, I'm already a dishwasher.

well if you have a low sex drive try and stop masturbating.
and if you have a bad attitude or bad trait about you thats another thing. and try not to be sad all the time. and when you are out with friends instead of just sitting there try to get a convo going about whatever.

I'll be your friend and you can come to my place to chill.

I've been very bored lately and I actually havn't been picking up for my buddies in weeks now. They are boring people themselves. And because they are in teh age frame of 18-24 all they ever do for fun is drink. WHich is fun sometimes but not everytime! I try and entertain myself. Shopping, buying new games to keep busy. Fishing, beaches, whatever i can think of when im bored. Luckily for me I have 1 really good friend and the rest of the peopl i know i could care less about. I need new friends.

Maybe people stop hanging out with you becasue there's something they don't like about you? My other group of friends aren't fond of my best friend because she's too quiet and emo.

You should try to make some new friends. Get your friend who still hangs out with you and go to the pub. Get pretty drunk but not wasted and just talk to anyone who doesn't seem to be a dickhead.