What things have people done and found effective when they're trying to 'let someone inside their head'? There's so much stuff that I have in my mind that I've tried to explain to my ex, but so far none of it seems to make any sense to her. To me, I can see how painfully obvious the things are that would make our relationship amazing if it were given a second chance, but I can't seem to express them in any way that lets her understand them. Anyone?

Let yourself inside your head before you let anyone else in, or neither of you will ever understand anything.

"Actions speak louder then words"

Hmm my balls are itchy i wonder what scratching them says?

That you're on the right track.