the girl i'm dating wants to have sex, and last night we sort of tried, and simply put: there was no way in hell it was going to fit. i don't think i've ever seen or heard of a girl being this tight... when she was laying out with her legs spread, just slowly inserting my index finger 3/4 of the way in had her convulsing and on the edge of an orgasm. if i do it fast or use more than just that finger, she said its unmanageably painful (while still pleasureful (-: of course). i know that just taking it slow and steady will get her there, but do you guys have any specific tips or tricks for making the process quicker and less painful?

tell her to finger herself... A LOT, and then try again in a few weeks

take your penis

lube it up well

lay on your back

tell her to climb on top

at this point she will protest, but tell her you are trying something different

when she climbs up, bend your knees so they point up, have her put her knees on your thighs

when she is up hold the base of your cock, navigate it to the vaginal opening, then when its in enough to be stable without holding...

move your knees rapidly down and thrust upwards, forcing your cock in

its not the prettiest or most gentle method but it'll loosen shit up and once you get it in fuck away

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sorry
durnks

Dude - try fucking a teenage girl, not a 4 year old. They won't be so tight......

But that's BOOOORRRRIIIINNNNGGGG..........

Punch her in the kooter. Get your fist stuck.

The important part is get her on top and guide the dick.

I hear rape really loosens them up...

thanks for the helpful responses. i told her if she wants it to work shes gonna have to finger herself a lot. she's kinda unenthusiastic about the idea, but i think she'll go with it if she needs to. i'll also try being on the bottom like someone also mentioned.

to the rest, she's 18, not 4. and i actually care about her, so brute force isn't really an option i want to pursue.