Does anyone else live a double life? The reason this is sex/affection related, is because I am specifically asking about double lives involving relationships.

I am 21 years old, and depending on how I dress, I usually appear to be between the ages of 14 and 19. For the last year, I have been living a life as a 17 year old, who graduated early from High School, aswell as my normal 21 year old self when needed.

Now, just for background info, I am not great looking, but decent, and I am fairly skinny. 5'8", around 130 pounds.

When I go out to bars/clubs as myself, girls are complete bitches. I am ignored most of the time, and when they do speak to me, its telling me I am in their way. The guys at the bars/clubs however, are completely cool. They will chill, play some pool, point out hot chicks, high five etc, even if we don't know each other.

When I go to High School hang outs/parties as a 17 year old, the girls are much more open to me. They will start random conversations, and many very attractive ones will flirt/hit on me. The guys again, are the opposite. Most of them are still trying to be the bad boys, starting fights with everyone. Total Wangstas.

In the 1 year I have been doing this, I have had 2 girlfriends as a 17 year old, had many makeout sessions with hot 15-17 year old girls, and made tons of friends.

As myself, I have been completely shut out.

I realize, after a few years, people will catch on I am not 17 anymore, so my plan is go move to a different city when that time comes, and start all over again.

Thats my story, anyone else have a double life they live, or have lived?

you.... disgust me, as you grow up you mature, but in your case, its the total opposite, just because life is hard as a twenty what ever year old you are doesnt mean you can act as a teenager again

I beg to differ. If you had read my story, you would see that I can.

What is it exactly that is immature about my behavior?

whats immature about it?! you think lying to fifteen-seventeen year old girls is funny? just because you cant get laid with women your own age?

That actually sounds awesome. Post pics if you think it's safe enough.

I do not lie to them. I let them assume what they will.

If I get serious with them, they do know I am "quite a bit older" than themselves.

I don't think it is funny, and I don't know why you would assume I do. I think it is interesting.

Why would I even WANT girls my own age, when the younger ones are much hotter?

if your not telling them your twenty-whatever, its pretty much lying, and if i were you i would feel like a failure..

Do you specify your age to every person you meet? What a ridiculous thing to worry about. What is it you think I am failing at?

Won't post any specific pics, but think emo/myspace attention whores. Cute ones.

Thats my story, anyone else have a double life they live, or have lived?

Heh. Welcome to the world of immortality, I guess..


Eventually you'll want to settle down.Scrabble frantically to keep a job and a home. You'll want to live with someone. And you can watch the grey hair come through and the skin start to sag.

no i dont go around telling everyone my age, but if they ask i tell them, and i look older than what i am, not younger, manipulating fifteen year olds when your twenty one is just flat out wrong, and i dont know how you dont see that

*pity lol*

Eventually you'll want to settle down.Scrabble frantically to keep a job and a home. You'll want to live with someone. And you can watch the grey hair come through and the skin start to sag.

I have tried that, and it didn't work out. I suppose someday I will want it again, but right now I am happy going from minimum wage shit job to shit job.

If my boss pisses me off, I can just quit. No real responsibility.

At the bar, all of the 28-35 year old guys were hooting and hollering at the 19 year old topless chicks as much as me, so I expect I will enjoy this lifestyle for at least a few more years.

How am I manipulating them? Were you never 15? What is the difference between them dating/making out with me, and them making out with a teenager?

You think they start making out with me, and go wait, your 17 right? No. They don't care. They assume what they want, and of the few people who have found out my real age, the only response is "cool, can you buy me beer?"

i highly doubt the girls your are messing around with know your real age, and if they found out they would probably be a little creeped out, unless your messing around with sluts... and actually im fifteen right now

But like I said, what does it matter if they know my real age or not? What does that change? You said I was manipulating them, so please, tell me how.

You are 15, and you are trying to talk about ages which you haven't even experienced yet. If an 18 year old girl started flirting with you (assuming you are a guy), and she was smokin hot, everything you could want in a girl, would you stop and say "Hey, you are great, but I have to tell you, I am 15, and this is wrong."

I wish I could pull this off. I never had much of a chance to be a teen, and wish I could have a do-over.

But like I said, what does it matter if they know my real age or not? What does that change? You said I was manipulating them, so please, tell me how.

You are 15, and you are trying to talk about ages which you haven't even experienced yet. If an 18 year old girl started flirting with you (assuming you are a guy), and she was smokin hot, everything you could want in a girl, would you stop and say "Hey, you are great, but I have to tell you, I am 15, and this is wrong."



well if she was twenty-one like in your case, no i wouldnt fuck around with her, you are lying to them, whether they ask your age or not

blah dont listen to this chick. ^^^

rock on if its workin for you.

well if she was twenty-one like in your case, no i wouldnt fuck around with her, you are lying to them, whether they ask your age or not

A 15 year old, who wouldn't make out with Scarlett Johansson, simply because she is too old, has no place on Totse. I would tell Scarlett ANYTHING to get her into bed, I am not gonna lie, and every other man should feel the same way.

im male btw

Do you specify your age to every person you meet? What a ridiculous thing to worry about. What is it you think I am failing at?

So true.. I didn't know how old my girlfriend was til almost 2 months after I met her.