I've been dating this girl for two weeks now and it's become apparent that we both like each other and that we're also together. She's a great girl, she's understanding, sweet and smart. She's a senior in high school graduating, and so am I.

The main thing that's been bugging me is that my friend keeps telling me to be careful, because he said that she sleeps around and that she had sex with a 22 year old while sober. He knows this because his girlfriend is her friend and they talk about things like this. My girlfriend tells me that she's had rumors going around like that and she tells me it's not true.

So... I really don't know what to do. If I didn't hear my friend's story, then I'd be able to trust her completely. But it's difficult like that with rumors going around and I don't know whether or not to approach her about it.

She fucked the 22 year old while you were going out?

If not.. then why does it matter to you?

Seconded. Who cares what/who she did while she wasn't with you?

If I was her, I'd lie about it to if my boyfriend were a little bitch that can't leave the past well enough alone. The only time it matters who a woman fucked is if they had a disease, and you two don't use condoms.

And also, be glad she did it while sober if she even did: at least she exercises enough judgment to not get wasted around people well older and more capable of manipulating her.

And never base trust/doubt on rumors...they're usually 5% truth, 95% exaggeration for entertainment.

Your just pissed she's not a virgin, and some other guy has cum in her. Can you picture her swallowing his cum? And liking it? mmmmm... mabey she's done it with two guys at once.

Get over yourself, and lose your sexist ideas.

She's a person, your a person, and you both like sex. Until theres a ring on that finger, she can do what she wants, when she wants, as often as she wants, and most importantly, with whoever she wants. Sure if your together she shouldn't, but if she does, your hardly in a "love you forever, wanna have your kids" relationship. Once either one of you realises this, you'll start looking for more outside your relationship.

And shit dude - what she did before you is irrelevant. If you have a problem with it, YOU have a problem, not her.

Great for you if she settles on you, but I doubt she would given your attitude... Hell, you'd be lucky to get near her goodies, I rekon.

The rumor is that she had sex with a 22-year old, but not while she was with me. But yeah... even if it was true I should just leave it behind.

Set yourself some boundaries mate.

Don't let yourself get too attached right now until you can be absolutely certain she isn't going to fuck you around.

Do you have any reason to not believe what she says?

Your case against her is "your friends girlfriend heard rumours"...is that correct?

If you're having doubts because of that sounds like you don't trust her enough to be serious with her. Is there any reason or do you just have trust issues?

Nah, it's not a trust issue. It's just sometimes difficult to hear it from my friend. I shouldn't judge her based on her past, and that's what I'm leaning towards from now on. I'll only based my trust on everything that happens in between us. Thanks guys. :)

Good man...you'll be better off for that even if this relationship doesn't work out.