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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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2007-04-29, 09:42
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beverly hills california united states
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Fingering etiquette
Ok, so i don't think i'm very good at this lol. can anyone shed some light on it?
My gf usually doesn't get that wet when shes horny. is it ok to use spit as lubricant or is that considered to be kinda gross?
Also earlier tonight i was fingering her on the hamock (2 fingers) and it started fine and she seemed to be enjoying it but as i was exploring around she started to act as if she was hurting and after she left when i went into the bathroom i can see small traces of maybe dried blood around my two finger nails....
any insight?
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# 2

2007-04-29, 09:46
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Candy Land <3
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Re: Fingering etiquette
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# 3

2007-04-29, 09:46
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Re: Fingering etiquette
First off, trim your fingernails.
It's ok to use spit as lube, but maybe lick your fingers rather than spitting on her.
For some women it's pleasurable to put pressure on the g-spot, a sieries of ridges or a bump about an inch up the vaginal canal on the wall closest to you.
Most importantly, don't neglect the clit in all of this.
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# 4

2007-04-29, 09:54
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Re: Fingering etiquette
ok, my nails are actually trimmed very short. I though the g-spot was in different places depending on the girl.
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# 5

2007-04-29, 09:56
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Re: Fingering etiquette
Nah that's the A-spot and it's difficult to find a girl with one.
*hunts down ex-girlfriend*
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# 6

2007-04-29, 10:07
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beverly hills california united states
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Re: Fingering etiquette
yeah my nails are actually short too...
i guess i just have to be more careful with them... are there any special techniques involved?
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# 7

2007-04-29, 10:35
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Re: Fingering etiquette
use the come hither motion to start off with
then you can improvise and get fancy
fingering is fun.
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# 8

2007-04-29, 10:54
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Re: Fingering etiquette
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Originally Posted by CatharticWeek
First off, trim your fingernails.
It's ok to use spit as lube, but maybe lick your fingers rather than spitting on her.
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Seriously, I know this is obvious, but just in case, do not spit on the girl. Fingers yes, girl no. A friend of mine neglected this advice and the girl got up and left without another word.
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# 9

2007-04-29, 13:36
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Re: Fingering etiquette
It's not that hard, it should all come to you if you do a bit of research on the female anatomy. I think just turn her on so she gets wet it would put me off if i was just about to get a hand job and they spat on their hand first.
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# 10

2007-04-29, 14:08
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Re: Fingering etiquette
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Originally Posted by Kyoki
Seriously, I know this is obvious, but just in case, do not spit on the girl. Fingers yes, girl no. A friend of mine neglected this advice and the girl got up and left without another word.
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Whore alert! Whore alert! Danger! Danger Will Robinson, Danger!
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#11
 2007-04-29, 14:13
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WorBlux 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
Seriously, I know this is obvious, but just in case, do not spit on the girl. Fingers yes, girl no. A friend of mine neglected this advice and the girl got up and left without another word.
Better yet have her lick your fingers to get them slimy and shit
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#12
 2007-04-29, 18:59
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Taquito 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
Go down on her....
The best way to get saliva on her cooch!
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#13
 2007-04-29, 20:06
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QuestionMan 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
that seems too intimidating!
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#14
 2007-04-29, 20:37
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o0ostonedo0o 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
If your worried about fingering...you should probably be more concerned about who's actually fucking her...
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#15
 2007-04-29, 21:57
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chumpion 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
If she asks you to stimulate her prostate..... run like fuck....
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#16
 2007-04-29, 22:07
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mehowee_1 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
jesus christ, when i started doing it i thought i was shit. Just let it go with the flow. Fumble about with the gooch and slip your scond finger in her ass.
There are worser problems.
The spit, yeh just do it as nicely as possible, so it satisfies you and her, duh
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#17
 2007-04-29, 22:15
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Re: Fingering etiquette
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Originally Posted by chumpion
If she asks you to stimulate her prostate..... run like fuck....
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I hate it when girls ask you to stimulate their prostate.
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#18
 2007-04-29, 22:36
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chumpion 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
I hate it when girls ask you to stimulate their prostate.
It just sucks all the love and emotion out of the moment, doesn't it?
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#19
 2007-04-30, 02:36
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GHS ANARCHIST 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
Fumble about with the gooch and slip your scond finger in her ass.
http://www.tshirthell.com/store/product.php?productid=749
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#20
 2007-04-30, 02:38
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willfly4f00d 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
My g/f had a bleeding problem to. There are a bunch of nerve endings down there and the bleeding stopped after a few times. Spit away if she is horney enough it wont matter. As for you doing something hit her g-spot its much easier with the fingers than a dick but then again my dick is only an inch long so that could be my problem.
Happy Fingering!
~WiLLfLy4f00D~
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#21
 2007-04-30, 02:42
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woopsueypigs77 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
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Originally Posted by willfly4f00d
My g/f had a bleeding problem to. There are a bunch of nerve endings down there and the bleeding stopped after a few times. Spit away if she is horney enough it wont matter. As for you doing something hit her g-spot its much easier with the fingers than a dick but then again my dick is only an inch long so that could be my problem.
Happy Fingering!
~WiLLfLy4f00D~
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...self pwn?
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#22
 2007-04-30, 06:30
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A cave, because I'm a hermit.
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Re: Fingering etiquette
Usually don't dive right in, take some time to get the outside lips and such.
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#23
 2007-04-30, 20:45
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Dream of the iris 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
When your fingering, make sure you kiss her. The lips, neck, breasts, stomach all over. Suck her fingers, too. Get really into it and she'll get into it.
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#24
 2007-04-30, 22:28
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Re: Fingering etiquette
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Originally Posted by Dream of the iris
When your fingering, make sure you kiss her. The lips, neck, breasts, stomach all over. Suck her fingers, too. Get really into it and she'll get into it.
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das what i do...
and i usually ease into fingering by tickling around the thighs and legs for a while
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#25
 2007-05-01, 00:39
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nau06248 
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Re: Fingering etiquette
Explore her body, find where she is most sensitive. Ask her what she likes, communication is key. Just go down on her, it is fun. I love making my girlfriend orgasm, it is great!
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