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Old 2007-04-29, 09:42
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Ok, so i don't think i'm very good at this lol. can anyone shed some light on it?

My gf usually doesn't get that wet when shes horny. is it ok to use spit as lubricant or is that considered to be kinda gross?

Also earlier tonight i was fingering her on the hamock (2 fingers) and it started fine and she seemed to be enjoying it but as i was exploring around she started to act as if she was hurting and after she left when i went into the bathroom i can see small traces of maybe dried blood around my two finger nails....

any insight?
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Old 2007-04-29, 09:46
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Cut your nails?
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Old 2007-04-29, 09:46
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

First off, trim your fingernails.
It's ok to use spit as lube, but maybe lick your fingers rather than spitting on her.
For some women it's pleasurable to put pressure on the g-spot, a sieries of ridges or a bump about an inch up the vaginal canal on the wall closest to you.
Most importantly, don't neglect the clit in all of this.
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Old 2007-04-29, 09:54
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ok, my nails are actually trimmed very short. I though the g-spot was in different places depending on the girl.
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Old 2007-04-29, 09:56
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Nah that's the A-spot and it's difficult to find a girl with one.

*hunts down ex-girlfriend*
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Old 2007-04-29, 10:07
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yeah my nails are actually short too...

i guess i just have to be more careful with them... are there any special techniques involved?
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Old 2007-04-29, 10:35
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use the come hither motion to start off with

then you can improvise and get fancy

fingering is fun.
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Old 2007-04-29, 10:54
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First off, trim your fingernails.
It's ok to use spit as lube, but maybe lick your fingers rather than spitting on her.
Seriously, I know this is obvious, but just in case, do not spit on the girl. Fingers yes, girl no. A friend of mine neglected this advice and the girl got up and left without another word.
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Old 2007-04-29, 13:36
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

It's not that hard, it should all come to you if you do a bit of research on the female anatomy. I think just turn her on so she gets wet it would put me off if i was just about to get a hand job and they spat on their hand first.
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Old 2007-04-29, 14:08
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Seriously, I know this is obvious, but just in case, do not spit on the girl. Fingers yes, girl no. A friend of mine neglected this advice and the girl got up and left without another word.
Whore alert! Whore alert! Danger! Danger Will Robinson, Danger!
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Old 2007-04-29, 14:13
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Seriously, I know this is obvious, but just in case, do not spit on the girl. Fingers yes, girl no. A friend of mine neglected this advice and the girl got up and left without another word.


Better yet have her lick your fingers to get them slimy and shit
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Old 2007-04-29, 18:59
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Go down on her....
The best way to get saliva on her cooch!
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Old 2007-04-29, 20:06
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that seems too intimidating!
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Old 2007-04-29, 20:37
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

If your worried about fingering...you should probably be more concerned about who's actually fucking her...
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Old 2007-04-29, 21:57
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

If she asks you to stimulate her prostate..... run like fuck....
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Old 2007-04-29, 22:07
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

jesus christ, when i started doing it i thought i was shit. Just let it go with the flow. Fumble about with the gooch and slip your scond finger in her ass.

There are worser problems.

The spit, yeh just do it as nicely as possible, so it satisfies you and her, duh
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Old 2007-04-29, 22:15
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If she asks you to stimulate her prostate..... run like fuck....


I hate it when girls ask you to stimulate their prostate.
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Old 2007-04-29, 22:36
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I hate it when girls ask you to stimulate their prostate.

It just sucks all the love and emotion out of the moment, doesn't it?
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Old 2007-04-30, 02:36
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Fumble about with the gooch and slip your scond finger in her ass.


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Old 2007-04-30, 02:38
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

My g/f had a bleeding problem to. There are a bunch of nerve endings down there and the bleeding stopped after a few times. Spit away if she is horney enough it wont matter. As for you doing something hit her g-spot its much easier with the fingers than a dick but then again my dick is only an inch long so that could be my problem.

Happy Fingering!

~WiLLfLy4f00D~
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Old 2007-04-30, 02:42
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My g/f had a bleeding problem to. There are a bunch of nerve endings down there and the bleeding stopped after a few times. Spit away if she is horney enough it wont matter. As for you doing something hit her g-spot its much easier with the fingers than a dick but then again my dick is only an inch long so that could be my problem.

Happy Fingering!

~WiLLfLy4f00D~


...self pwn?
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Old 2007-04-30, 06:30
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

Usually don't dive right in, take some time to get the outside lips and such.
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Old 2007-04-30, 20:45
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

When your fingering, make sure you kiss her. The lips, neck, breasts, stomach all over. Suck her fingers, too. Get really into it and she'll get into it.
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Old 2007-04-30, 22:28
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When your fingering, make sure you kiss her. The lips, neck, breasts, stomach all over. Suck her fingers, too. Get really into it and she'll get into it.


das what i do...

and i usually ease into fingering by tickling around the thighs and legs for a while
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Old 2007-05-01, 00:39
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Default Re: Fingering etiquette

Explore her body, find where she is most sensitive. Ask her what she likes, communication is key. Just go down on her, it is fun. I love making my girlfriend orgasm, it is great!
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