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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-04-28, 19:43
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Default Fuckin rumours!!!

Anyway, I'm tryin to get with this girl. I was planning on hanging out with her last night and kissing her to. We'd been friends for a while, but the friendship was laced with sexual tension, good right?

Some dickwad spreads a rumor about her blowing me. She thinks I started it and just want to be more 'popular' by people thinking I'm getting with her. The thing is, if it wasnt for this dumbass rumor, I'm positive I coulda gotten with her.

How the fuck do I fix this?

edit: shits awkward as fuck between us now
 #2 
Old 2007-04-28, 20:00
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Default Re: Fuckin rumours!!!

Give it time and realize that she feels awkward being seen with you at the moment. If she's feeling particularly offended, the it may not have been a chance for something anyhow.

Yes, it's childish.
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Old 2007-04-28, 20:52
LazerViperMouth LazerViperMouth is offline
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Default Re: Fuckin rumours!!!

Happened to me before.
Just tell her you didn't start it and give her time.
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Old 2007-04-28, 22:00
Dennis_Rader Dennis_Rader is offline
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tell her the truth and if you both are as good a friends as you say she should believe you.
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Old 2007-04-28, 22:01
anarchyburger2.0 anarchyburger2.0 is offline
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Ugh, that's rough man. Just tell her, in person, that it was not you, and maybe say you are sorry that someone else had to ruin your great relationship. With time, she will get over it, and accept it as a stupid rumor. Then when all blows over you can finally get with her, and maybe actually get some of that head.
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Old 2007-04-28, 22:45
busyhands busyhands is offline
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Make her blow you, that makes the rumor true. :)
 #7 
Old 2007-04-28, 23:07
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The fine line between genius and madness
Default Re: Fuckin rumours!!!

Tell her what you told us. That you didn't start the rumor. You would have nothing to gain by doing so, since it ruins your chances with her. Make vague but angered threats towards whoever started it. Let it be known to the people spreading this rumor that you're pissed off and looking for the person who started it.

If she's the kind of person who listens to rumors, that will get back to her as well.
 
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