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Old 2007-04-28, 06:22
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Default What do guys look for in girls?

Ok, so I've probably seen a billion posts in S&A about what girls want in guys (the final conclusion always being 'confidence') so since a majority of you are guys, humour my curiosity.

I see a lot of girls that are 'attractively challenged' and they're with pretty good looking guys. Some of these people are even my friends, and I know them inside out. They're annoying, they whine a lot, they eat too much junkfood and they wear too much make up. But these guys, who could do a whole lot better still stick around even though they're not getting any.

My final conclusion, I suppose is that it probably has something to do with their personality.

So, list what you look for in a girls personality.
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:27
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Big tits.
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:30
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Um... Alright.
  • I like black/italian girls more than white girls due to the dark complexion.
  • I like conversationalists. A girl that can keep up with me in a conversation is a must have.
  • I like her to be slutty. I like a girl who loves sex. I could care less if she's been around the block as long as she wont give me herp-aids.
  • I like athletic girls. The more athletic the better.
  • No skinny bitches. I like my women thick-ish (thick, not fat, though I have been there...)
  • Good sense of humor.
  • Bitchy, only enough for a good twang. Bitchiness is kind of like hot sauce, good in moderation. It gives everything a twang.

There's lots more. Usually it depends on the girl, though. I like it when all of her features work together. You know: An attractive girl with a good mind that's developed a bit of an attitude due to knowing she can get what she wants. I just like it when everything falls into place. I prefer black/italian women.

EDIT: And big fat fuckin juggs.
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:36
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Default Re: What do guys look for in girls?

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Big tits.
That's not a personality trait
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:39
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That's not a personality trait
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Men are physical, you should know this by now. Sure, I like personality, but that means jack shit if they don't look good enough. I'll be honest: I'll fuck a hot stupid bitch before I fuck an ugly girl with a wonderful personality. Do you know anyone who would do otherwise?
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:49
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Default Re: What do guys look for in girls?

im pretty sure for most of us there has to be a sexual attraction or its a deal breaker.. for some of us we need big tits..

i like a pretty face..

i also like a girl that can talk to me on the level.. at the same time i want a girl that is comfortable with being in her body if that at all makes any sense.. (im sure it does to many of you) i live in a place and go to a college where it seems everybody is still immature.. i like a girl who wants actual things from life apart from attention and popularity. (edit 2) also feeling superior is a trip many girls seem to like (turnoff) and its even worse when its obvious that even tho they're obviously feeling superior they aren't..

edit: also fat = BAD as far as im concerned..
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:51
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Men are physical, you should know this by now. Sure, I like personality, but that means jack shit if they don't look good enough. I'll be honest: I'll fuck a hot stupid bitch before I fuck an ugly girl with a wonderful personality. Do you know anyone who would do otherwise?
I already know that much, most women are attracted to hot guys rather than smart ones. I was more or less wondering why there were so many guys with significantly less attractive girls who wouldn't put out.
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:58
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Default Re: What do guys look for in girls?

its a mystery to other guys too trust me.. i have buddies who go after chicks who im not attracted to at all and theyre quite happy.. fuckin baffled i am. we all have our tastes tho.. so its really useless.

i think it may be that they are highly sexual and that supersedes all else.. even if theyre ugly.. a girl can be pretty sexual and not put out.. also there may be shit you dont know..
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Old 2007-04-28, 06:58
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Thin, or at least not fat.
good curves; decent boobs, nice legs/ass
pretty

not a bitch, easy to get along with
will give me space when I need some
not always having to be around me
willing to put out and fuck whenever im horny
low maintenance
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Old 2007-04-28, 07:02
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Default Re: What do guys look for in girls?

also you appear to be pretty azalie or whatever..

guys like girls that want to put out.. also you may make people feel inferior even if you arent trying to..
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Old 2007-04-28, 07:14
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also you appear to be pretty azalie or whatever..

guys like girls that want to put out.. also you may make people feel inferior even if you arent trying to..


O this isn't for me, I'm just trying to find out why there are all these mismatched couples around me. Thanks for the compliment though :D
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Old 2007-04-28, 07:25
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well you earned it i guess haha.. i actually theorize that overall looks have something to do with attitude starting from a young age.. im gonna grow up to be an old crackpot.. at least ill have fun..

yeah i guess i cant answere your queston really because i dont know.. maybe we are experiencing a shift of values (paradigm shift). Im pretty old school traditional (predictable) with my own needs + wants and i cant relate to my peers really at all so i guess that might be whats going on.. good luck in figuring things out.
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Old 2007-04-28, 07:43
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It is a puzzle, innit?

If you figure it out? You can become famous telling folks. I know that just from reading that Manichi WaiWai? The Japanese don't seem to have anymore idea of what makes for good couples than anyone else?

At least with unattractive people...you don't have to worry that someone's going to steal them away!

One has got to be pretty sure of oneself to go with someone considered popular & attractive, to not get eaten up with jealousy. To not worry than just about anyone else will steal them away. :)
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Old 2007-04-28, 07:48
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Someone who isn't assuming, ignorant, or extremely biased. Intelligence and energy, while retaining a calm state. Someone who I get along with, and could see every day, or once a week. Loyal enough not to cheat, or even use jealousy to get my attention. Someone understanding. Committed, without being overly clingy. I think you get the picture.
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Old 2007-04-28, 08:34
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I already know that much, most women are attracted to hot guys rather than smart ones. I was more or less wondering why there were so many guys with significantly less attractive girls who wouldn't put out.
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Because sometimes we have no fucking choice. If I posted my class picture, I bet you wouldn't even have asked.
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Old 2007-04-28, 09:41
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Big tits.

My first thought after I read the title of the thread :D
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Old 2007-04-28, 09:42
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I'm not pretentious enough to speak for all men.
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Old 2007-04-28, 09:52
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A vagina.

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Old 2007-04-28, 10:28
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It's all about the tits.
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Old 2007-04-28, 14:13
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A warm hole.
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Old 2007-04-28, 14:33
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When it comes to personality, I like things in common.. I like chemistry without drama

And if a girl can make me laugh, she does something that few other girls do.
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Old 2007-04-28, 15:00
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Well, she has to be pretty. She has to be intelligent, even if she doesn't know it. She has to be strong, but willing to let me take the lead. She must be passionate in bed, but tender as well. Most of all, she has to be fun to be with.

Really, what I'm looking for in a girl is what most girls look for in guys. It's sort-of androgynous.

Oh, and the hot guys dating below them, that's an indication of their true confidence level.
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Old 2007-04-28, 20:54
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Men are really physical so your not gonna get much personality traits.

I'm not to picky.
I just like a nice girl with good looks thats not blonde.
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Old 2007-04-28, 21:10
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Funny, Easy to get along with, Smart, Attractive,

Wait this sounds familiar.........
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Old 2007-04-28, 21:25
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I want a woman who will surprise me every once in awhile...maybe put a knife to my throat and tell me that if I don't fuck her, RIGHT NOW, she's going to kill me.

That right there alone carries all the traits I look for: confidence, insanity, and a wild fucking sex drive.
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Old 2007-04-28, 21:38
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- Ability to make me laugh.
- Healthy body. Little fat.
- As far as faces, eyes, lips and jawline are priorities. That's just me I guess.
- Some common interests.

As far as girlfriend material is concerned. If it's just a fuck, then it'd be purely on probability of putting out and looks. But disposable girls aren't something I like.
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Old 2007-04-28, 21:53
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i just want someone who has a good sense of humor and is fun to be with, but most of all i want someone who will love me back.
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Old 2007-04-28, 22:17
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Warm,wet, and still breathing. Well me personally, this is totse so we can nix most of those.
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Old 2007-04-28, 22:35
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All a girl needs to get laid is a willingness to let other guys fuck her. No matter how ugly or bitchy ANY girl can get laid.
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Old 2007-04-28, 22:44
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I like my girl to be sweet and caring, to have that sort of "little girl innocence" (not in a creepy way) and be fucking wild in bed. I like girls who nurture, but won't treat me like i'm someone who can't take care of himself. I like someone who's content to just lie in my arms for hours. I like someone who can deal with all my bullshit. Someone who i can trust not to fuck someone else.
As far as appearnce, curves are a must, and a nice ass. Tits come secondary. Her eyes have to at least catch my interest, nice lips are really a plus. I can't say I'm usually attracted to black women at all, though.

My current girlfriend is pretty close to that.
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Old 2007-04-28, 23:33
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It goes with my screen name. It's all about her eyes. Not how pretty they are or what color they are, but what they are.

You can tell alot by looking someone in the eyes...


But for a superficial relationship.

Her not being a bitch.
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Old 2007-04-29, 00:32
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It goes with my screen name. It's all about her eyes. Not how pretty they are or what color they are, but what they are.

You can tell alot by looking someone in the eyes...


But for a superficial relationship.

Her not being a bitch.


You may think that... but it's not true.
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Old 2007-04-29, 00:49
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I look for nothing, i'll only be dissappointed when she dosent have that "one" quality

The best surprises are unexpected
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Old 2007-04-29, 02:33
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You may think that... but it's not true.

Depends on how you look at the idea? Women are very good at the 'smiley-faced' fronting. Maybe it comes from spending so much time looking in the mirror.

Looking at you, she might be awful sweet if she wants you or something from you? That's why you might learn stuff from how she looks at her friends/family. How does she deal with waiters or cashiers. What expression does she put on her face when she's turned away from you?

Does she turn hotter eyes on your wallet when she she's it? :p
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Old 2007-04-29, 04:13
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Hm. Lets see.

I want someone who can think, someone with a brain that I won't need to constantly explain shit to. I'd like her to be political to some extent, but somewhat along the same lines as me (rather obviously, I suppose.)

I dont' care that much about appearance. I generally like girls to dress differently/uniquely, but its not a big issue either. I totally see where people are getting with the eyes.

I would also say I prefer blonds. But only natural blonds, people who dye their hair are the ultimate of posers.
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Old 2007-04-29, 06:13
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Well...I'm not much on 'shiny' blondes. Dirty blondes are more 'human' & uncheap seeming.
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Old 2007-04-29, 06:30
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What do I look for in a girl?

1. She can't be Aussie (new rule).

2. Must be a TOTAL FUCKING BITCH, but nice to me. I love it when every one thinks they're cold hearted she-devils but to you they're just legless, blind puppy dogs: completely defenseless.

3. Sexual appetite that matches mine. Meaning sex before we go to sleep, sex when we wake up and sex when I get home: at the least.

4. Articulate.

5. Knows how to spell and use grammar.

6. Can't dance for shit, but still loves to do it.

7. Loves clubbing, but hates clubbing when not with me.

8. Jealous.

9. Loyal.

10. Looks after her appearance.

11. Is lost and needs some direction.

12. Is a trysexual; she'll try anything once.


That, my dear totse, is what I look for in a woman. If I found a girl who matched that, I'd never let go.
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Old 2007-04-29, 06:36
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What do I look for in a girl?

1. She can't be Aussie (new rule).

2. Must be a TOTAL FUCKING BITCH, but nice to me. I love it when every one thinks they're cold hearted she-devils but to you they're just legless, blind puppy dogs: completely defenseless.

3. Sexual appetite that matches mine. Meaning sex before we go to sleep, sex when we wake up and sex when I get home: at the least.

4. Articulate.

5. Knows how to spell and use grammar.

6. Can't dance for shit, but still loves to do it.

7. Loves clubbing, but hates clubbing when not with me.

8. Jealous.

9. Loyal.

10. Looks after her appearance.

11. Is lost and needs some direction.

12. Is a trysexual; she'll try anything once.


That, my dear totse, is what I look for in a woman. If I found a girl who matched that, I'd never let go.


Oh, and I'd like her to fly and have lazer beams come out her eyes.
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Old 2007-04-29, 06:50
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O this isn't for me, I'm just trying to find out why there are all these mismatched couples around me. Thanks for the compliment though :D
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I know what you mean...I'll go out to a restaurant, or anywhere in public, and I'll see these couples and I'm just like
"WTF!? why the hell is she/he with him/her?"

Its wierd when you see some fat/ugly dude that is with a girl that looks way out of his league...just makes you wonder, how he got her.... I mean I'm a pretty good looking guy, I've been told....and Ive seen some guys that I know i'm better looking than....and just thinking, why isn't she with me??
well at least used to think like that.....now I have a hot girlfriend and am happy with her....
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Old 2007-04-29, 07:08
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I know what you mean...I'll go out to a restaurant, or anywhere in public, and I'll see these couples and I'm just like
"WTF!? why the hell is she/he with him/her?"

Its wierd when you see some fat/ugly dude that is with a girl that looks way out of his league...just makes you wonder, how he got her.... I mean I'm a pretty good looking guy, I've been told....and Ive seen some guys that I know i'm better looking than....and just thinking, why isn't she with me??
well at least used to think like that.....now I have a hot girlfriend and am happy with her....

It's not only wierd, it's disturbing. It makes me wonder if there's something wrong with these people. Confused

I don't want to sound superficial but if you're going to be with someone, wouldn't you choose a person who's good looking than someone who's not? Well, this thread proves a fair bit, just not anything that can be applied.

So, next question guys. Body or face?
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Old 2007-04-29, 07:16
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Oh, and I'd like her to fly and have lazer beams come out her eyes.

You need a skinny German to take a shit on your face. Pronto.
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Old 2007-04-29, 07:31
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So, next question guys. Body or face?
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Body. thats usually the deciding factor for me, over face.... I can deal with a girl whose face isn't all that great, they really have no control over that....as long as they have a hot body, which they can control. If a girl with a not so hot face has a banging body, it means she cares about her appearance and is making an effort....that aside, I just go for a girl with nice curves anyways....I think theres nothing hotter than a girl with a thin waist, decent boobs, nice legs and ass....

I'd definately go for a chick with a not so hot face and banging body, rather than a girl with a really pretty face but not nice body.

I've seen some chicks with really pretty faces, but are just too skinny with no curves at all, or are a bit chubby...and im just not really that attracted to them....
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Old 2007-04-29, 07:55
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So, next question guys. Body or face?
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Usually face. It's all about the expression. Beauty is more often the aspect of eye and mouth than bone structure. Likewise, sexy is at least 50% movement so girls with fairly mundane bodies can still leave a wake as they walk through a room. I've watched a kinda chubby ex girlfriend draw a crowd of guys around her just by dancing for a few minutes. Every one of them was doing his best to hook up with her. That night was great for my ego :D
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Old 2007-04-29, 08:04
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I know what you mean...I'll go out to a restaurant, or anywhere in public, and I'll see these couples and I'm just like
"WTF!? why the hell is she/he with him/her?"

Its wierd when you see some fat/ugly dude that is with a girl that looks way out of his league...just makes you wonder, how he got her.... I mean I'm a pretty good looking guy, I've been told....and Ive seen some guys that I know i'm better looking than....and just thinking, why isn't she with me??
well at least used to think like that.....now I have a hot girlfriend and am happy with her....

What the fuck, OP and chicken poop, are you really that ignorant? Beauty is not universal. It's a very subjective term. I like skinny girls with chubby cheeks. My friend says "That girl has too much baby fat" but he loves incredibly pale Asian chicks (imagine a Geisha), I say they need to work in some rice patties, or die, what ever. My other friend, didn't find his girlfriends attractive at first, so I asked him why he went for her, and he said "Because I know other people find her attractive, so there's gotta be something there".

I'm thin/athletic built, some girls wouldn't go for a guy who isn't significantly bigger than them, but then there are girls who fucking love skinny boys. My whole point is what you find attractive is your personal preference. No one gives a fuck about you, that's why the whole world doesn't adopt your perception of beauty. Every one forms their own opinion.

So stop being dumb cunts, open your eyes, and more importantly, open your mind.
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Old 2007-04-29, 08:17
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What the fuck, OP and chicken poop, are you really that ignorant? Beauty is not universal. It's a very subjective term. I like skinny girls with chubby cheeks. My friend says "That girl has too much baby fat" but he loves incredibly pale Asian chicks (imagine a Geisha), I say they need to work in some rice patties, or die, what ever. My other friend, didn't find his girlfriends attractive at first, so I asked him why he went for her, and he said "Because I know other people find her attractive, so there's gotta be something there".

I'm thin/athletic built, some girls wouldn't go for a guy who isn't significantly bigger than them, but then there are girls who fucking love skinny boys. My whole point is what you find attractive is your personal preference. No one gives a fuck about you, that's why the whole world doesn't adopt your perception of beauty. Every one forms their own opinion.

So stop being dumb cunts, open your eyes, and more importantly, open your mind.

No, you've misread what we're talking about.

We're not talking about unique preferences, we're talking about attractively oposed couples where there's quite a significant difference. This isn't an issue of closed minds, we're simply curious about things we don't know, hence why we're discussing this.

I come across your posts all the time, you like to shoot others down in flames. So if all you're going to do is swear at me for asking a few questions that might seem trivial to you, instead of giving me actual insight then don't bother replying.
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Old 2007-04-29, 08:36
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What the fuck, OP and chicken poop, are you really that ignorant? Beauty is not universal. It's a very subjective term. I like skinny girls with chubby cheeks. My friend says "That girl has too much baby fat" but he loves incredibly pale Asian chicks (imagine a Geisha), I say they need to work in some rice patties, or die, what ever. My other friend, didn't find his girlfriends attractive at first, so I asked him why he went for her, and he said "Because I know other people find her attractive, so there's gotta be something there".

I'm thin/athletic built, some girls wouldn't go for a guy who isn't significantly bigger than them, but then there are girls who fucking love skinny boys. My whole point is what you find attractive is your personal preference. No one gives a fuck about you, that's why the whole world doesn't adopt your perception of beauty. Every one forms their own opinion.

So stop being dumb cunts, open your eyes, and more importantly, open your mind.

Yes, I'm well aware that everyones perception of beauty differs. It varies from person to person, also the common idea of what is 'beauty' changes with time. For instance, in the past (various times in the 18th/19th century, and early 20th) thick girls were generally considered 'hot' by society at large...today, society seems to say that the twig thin girls are hot; im basing that on pop culture and the media, as well as studies ive read throughout college...

what I'm talking about (and what I think azalie is talking about) is when you see an obviously beautiful girl, by just about anyones standards who is dating an obviously unattractive guy, and by that I mean someone who is 60+ pounds overweight, with a double chin; the types of guys hot girls generally don't go for (ex: the tv show "king of queens", the really hot woman with a banging body married to the fat guy with a nothing job; i know its just TV, but i see it in real life all the time.). I know there are so many people out there with weird fetishes and are attracted to different looks, but fat guys usually don't get the hot women...

sometimes you just see a couple and go "WTF".
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Old 2007-04-29, 09:03
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No, you've misread what we're talking about.

We're not talking about unique preferences, we're talking about attractively oposed couples where there's quite a significant difference. This isn't an issue of closed minds, we're simply curious about things we don't know, hence why we're discussing this.

I come across your posts all the time, you like to shoot others down in flames. So if all you're going to do is swear at me for asking a few questions that might seem trivial to you, instead of giving me actual insight then don't bother replying.

SHUT THE FUCK UP BITCH. FUCK. DIE. Haha, I just looked at your photo, sorry, you're a pale Asian. I kind of said pale Asians needed to get in the sun...or die, so ummm? Haha that wasn't a personal attack, merely a coincidence.

That aside. YOU FUCKING CUNT. You're an idiot. Unless you're bisexual you can't completely appreciate the same sex's beaut, now can you? You may think the guy is ugly, but he might be average. You may think he's hot, but he may be hideous. Couple this with personal preference and you've got a pretty large room for error there.

It still comes down to beauty being subjective.

To further elaborate on the extent of the errors you're making, look at this example:

Average looking dude, has a big nose.

Girl A: Hates big noses. So he thinks 'average looking dude' is not so average, but rather quite ugly.

Girl B: Loves big noses. So she thinks 'average looking dude' is actually quite attractive. Girl B can be sick_boy (since sickboy likes weird noses), she's quite attractive.

Girl B starts dating Average dude.

Girl A is confused as to why an attractive girl would date an ugly guy.


Then there's the other reason: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A person's flaws can quite readily become the things you enjoy most about them.
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Old 2007-04-29, 09:06
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(ex: the tv show "king of queens", the really hot woman with a banging body married to the fat guy with a nothing job; i know its just TV, but i see it in real life all the time.)

No you don't.
 #49 
Old 2007-04-29, 09:07
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Obviously none of the qualities I have.





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 #50 
Old 2007-04-29, 09:18
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Quote:
Originally Posted by kAtE-
Obviously none of the qualities I have.





:(


Isn't it about time you were gettin' along to bed msssy? Mad

...Just let me finish this shower 'n towel off & I'll be right along...don't fall asleep now, 'k? :p
 #51 
Old 2007-04-29, 09:25
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Isn't it about time you were gettin' along to bed msssy? Mad

...Just let me finish this shower 'n towel off & I'll be right along...don't fall asleep now, 'k? :p

It's only 9.30 hunny, its not time for sleep... yet....ohhhhhhh :D


Ok then ;)
 #52 
Old 2007-04-29, 09:43
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No you don't.

Ya, I do....it's because I leave my computer quite often to go out into society, unlike you, loser. It might not see it THAT often, but I see it.
 #53 
Old 2007-04-29, 11:52
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Healthy minded shallow people:
Men want:
90% reproductive
10% survival

Women want:
90% survival
10% reproduction

The thing is, both would rather have one 100% of each. Infidelity is breed in to us. Getting your partner 100% committed, and having someone on the side that fulfills your other half is easier than finding the perfect one that will fill both 100%

So, the chubby chasers are getting some skinny pussy on the side if they are normal.



Mentally ill people look for co-dependant matches that fit their personality well.

Body or face? Both... A deformed face is fucked genetics, and a bad body is fucked genetics and shitty for babies.

I'd rather stick a bag over a skinny chicks head than close my eyes for a fat chick...



I think the real issue isn't what do guys want. It's why are you asking? You keep bringing up personality. You're fat aren't you? You think you have a pretty face but a shitty body is why you bring up the body or face. A pretty face is only a pretty face if it's a skinny face.

If men don't want you, you're either fat, or skinny and shy and clingy. I know you're not shy and clingy based on the nature of the question.

Men are evolved to be shallow. And you'd rather have Blood Diamond: Leonardo Decaprio, than Titanic: Leonardo Decaprio.

Actually, you want both. You want to fuck Blood Diamond Leo, and you want Titanic Leo to pay for the child support/buy you expensive dinners and jewelry.

Men DON'T care about personality when choosing a woman. It's just a factor in deciding whether or not to dump them. If you're fat, you have to either compliment a pretty nutcase's mental disorder perfectly, or find a lazy drug dealer. You might be able to pull an insecure guy by being a bitch if you are only slightly chubby. Bitchiness, ups hotness by half a point, but it only works on guys who are settling for a girl slightly less attractive than them. If the difference is big, you're just going to scare off the guys who want to use you.

Here's an even better solution: Loose the damned weight. You're disgusting. You're not big boned. You're fat. You're not even pretty until you loose the face jello. Short chicks are the only ones who lose weight off their face before anything else from what I can tell.

Stop eating, start eating healthy. Carrots, green tea, and running. Run a mile a day at least. You're eating to fill an emotional void. Guess what? Food doesn't fill it. It makes it deeper. Excercise fills it in.

If you can't do this, I suggest you buy a really expensive dildo, get REALLY RICH, and find yourself a K-Fed.

Well, I don't dislike you from some of your other posts I've read but I'm not going to retract anything because I don't believe pulling punches is doing favors but I will say that I'm sick as a dog so I might not even be batting 1000 today on my reads. If the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it, and you seem smart, likeable, and upbeat. EVERYONE is fuckable to someone, and if I saw a picture I could probably give you a rough estimate on the number of someones. So, draw what you will from this post.
 #54 
Old 2007-04-29, 14:03
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This is what guys look for in girls.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qpQSvlPDZw8
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Old 2007-04-29, 14:06
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:D my turn lawl.

Firstly I look for girls that have a fair ammount of intelligence. That's more important than looks, but I won't go for an ugly girl. I like girls that aren't bitchy, like to go with things. I hate it when girls listen to shitty music. They can't be stupid either, like they only think about clothes and make-up and stupid girl stuff. I like adventurous girls, the ones that are fucking hardcore and like to play paintball. Shit like that.

As far as looks go she HAS to be somewhat fit. I can't stand chubby girls that don't take care of themselves. I'd pick an okay looking healthy girl over an attractive crack whore anyday.

I guess that's just me. The whole sex thing really isn't a big deal. I'd like a girl that wants sex, but I see it as more than 'putting out for me when I demand' I like girls that are independant but still want to be around me, and my opinion matters to them.

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 #56 
Old 2007-04-29, 14:17
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honesty is always nice

also, a supply of drugs and a good dose of generosity would be wonderful.
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Old 2007-04-29, 14:17
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Pretty
Reasonably tall
Not fat but not anorexicly skinny
Longish hair (not short or uber long)
Any hair colour except ginger or crazy dyed colours.
Must have a reasonable self esteem (No emos, cutters or moaners)
Must be intelligent
Have common sense (rare in females)
Must be open to new oppinions
High tollerance to drugs and alcohol (I hate looking after lightweights)
Must not try to tell me what to do
Must be prepared to put up with my many insane hobbies, drug and alcohol abuse
Must be happy
Able to hold a conversation
Good in bed
Faithful
Honest
Speaks her mind
Hygenic
No STIs
Not selfish
Low maintainance
Not paranoid, psycotic or insane
Very open mindedYeah its never going to happen!
 #58 
Old 2007-04-29, 17:31
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my friends are ugly but guys are always ZOMGSOOO HOTTT.
flabby, bad fake tan, dry peroxide hair, stupid, shallow, boring, whiney, spoilt.


i see girls dating down loads too, it's odd. when they're not like 16, i like to assume they've been together for a few years and love has blinded them to how ugly one has gotten.
 #59 
Old 2007-04-29, 17:44
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my friends are ugly but guys are always ZOMGSOOO HOTTT.
flabby, bad fake tan, dry peroxide hair, stupid, shallow, boring, whiney, spoilt.

I'm afraid I laughed more than I probably should have there...
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Old 2007-04-29, 17:51
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Isobutane
my friends are ugly but guys are always ZOMGSOOO HOTTT.
flabby, bad fake tan, dry peroxide hair, stupid, shallow, boring, whiney, spoilt.


i see girls dating down loads too, it's odd. when they're not like 16, i like to assume they've been together for a few years and love has blinded them to how ugly one has gotten.


It's an odd sight, that. It baffles the mind.
<3
 #61 
Old 2007-04-29, 17:53
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Why do hot guys go out with attractively-challenged girls? There's a couple reasons that I can think of (just off the top of my head, of course). The first is that there's something inherent about the girl that attracted the guy (whatever that is, is unique to whoever is the "beholder"). The second could be that the guy realizes that he basically owns that chick - she will most probably do ANYTHING for him, and there's almost no chance of having his confidence destroyed by her cheating on him.

That aside ... My personal preference is the face, cuz if I can't get past the face, then the body is pointless. I can admire the body, but I wouldn't hit it.
 #62 
Old 2007-04-29, 18:52
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I would normally say face, but the girl i'm with doesn't have the greatest face... or at least, objectively she doesn't. She has an amazing body, and a cute face... but i've come to think she's absolutely beautiful. She has these amazing eyes, and cute cheeks... GORGEOUS soft lips, and amazing complexion.
 #63 
Old 2007-04-29, 19:45
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Thin, or at least not fat.
good curves; decent boobs, nice legs/ass
pretty

not a bitch, easy to get along with
will give me space when I need some
not always having to be around me
willing to put out and fuck whenever im horny
low maintenance


Haha, yea.......
 #64 
Old 2007-04-30, 03:36
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not incredibly needy
not whiny
smart, I fucking hate dumb people
can talk for long periods of time
opinionated
not incredibly feminine, but can be when needed, I really don't like girly-girls but on occasion its hawt
funny

and finally can be bitchy, I hate bitches, but if they are all servile it gets old
 #65 
Old 2007-04-30, 07:38
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It's not only wierd, it's disturbing. It makes me wonder if there's something wrong with these people. Confused

I don't want to sound superficial but if you're going to be with someone, wouldn't you choose a person who's good looking than someone who's not? Well, this thread proves a fair bit, just not anything that can be applied.

So, next question guys. Body or face?
<3

face.. the body can be helped as has been said.. err most of the time anyway.. they got to be reasonably sized.. i mean people that are heavier for way long seem to grow into it..

i am superficial too but i dont think there is anything wrong with aesthetically different people being together if they want it. im sure there is a lot two really great looking people can offer each other but some people just aint got shit going on outside of looks or using them for sex. i dont use people primarily i want somebody i can grow from in more ways than one.. get the pun?
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Old 2007-04-30, 21:07
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Any girl who sits about whinging about how "men" are kinda irritate me, I mean it's cool if they're just down, but I genuinely know girls who will tell me how guys are... well, I am a guy, and I aint like that, and tell them so... I can think like a girl if I want to, I can multi-task, I can understand fashion and shopping, I can empathise with blood and children coming out of your cunt (ok, maybe not this one!) and other stuff... it just pains me when i'm expected to act like some sweaty, ignorant fucking animal just to give a girl her primal-kicks...

I don't know really, I look for a lot I guess:

- Something that makes them stand out physically, so that they just "seem" interesting. They don't have to be conventionally hot, infact I find lots of girls guys go on about "Hotness" are just fake and plasticy looking.

- They have to be reasonably confident and secure, or even if they're not, they have to be able to deal with their issues, not sit about fucking moping about how such-and-such-a-cunt-that-they-know-or-saw-in-Hello is better looking...

- I want intellectual stimulation, upon hearing from a girl earlier "but, like, i thought Britain was Europe" I wanted to shake her kind of (well not really, she's a chum :p). I want a good general knowledge, and someone who has their own views about life, and who likes rambling and thinking and being illogical and weird and just not caring, just rollin' with the flow and seing past all the fucking crap that people try and impose on the way you think. I'm not like some guys who seem to get off on the "power" inequality of them being with really dense bints (or chicks to prentend to be, anyway), it just annoys me, especially if they're not interested in learning.

- I don't find blind fashion following or excessive make up attractive, I like chicks to look REAL but highlighted, y'know, not just dressed up like a fucking .jpg

- I want a girl who's pretty secure sexually, with a fairly high sex drive and who's up for experimenting, and wont start giving me "ewwww" kind of noises about the most minor stuff...

- I want a chick who respects me for who I am, and admires that I can be my own man; a guy who tries to be himself and sees where that takes him, rather than just fitting to some bullshit image of "what women want" (heh, like anyone knows!). Any chick bossing me about about how i dress, my hair, my smell, how I didn't say goodbye, yada fucking yada, i can't deal with that shit. Talking, communicating and suggesting, that's awesome, but being nagged... fuck that, I have a mother for that.

- I want someone romantic, but who can develop THEIR OWN kind of romance, not expect a fucking trip to the Ritz and crappy overpriced flowers. I want midnight walks, and breaking into gardens to start at a beautiful sky, and have a smoke.

- Girls who do some drugs are preferred, although it's cool if they don't, but telling me what I can do with my body is fucking ghey...

- I want someone who can take me in their arms and reasure me, cheer me up, calm me down, tell me everything is ok, and who has the confidence to scream in my face that i'm being a cunt.

- I want a girl who doesn't get off on shitty fake attention from people they pretend to be their "friends" to keep them sane, and it'd bother me if they were the "lol im gona lyk let that guy pinch mai bum coz den lyk erm my bf wil be jeluz lololol keke wut a gud idea". Fuck excessive mind games...

- I want a girl who could read a website like totse without dropping dead in horror, and who might even get some lulz out of it - i have a weird sense of humour an I like sharin' it y'know... tellin' jokes to a brick wall aint no fun! I'd love a funny girl, shit some girls are just hilarious and can make me feel so glad to know them, so many others have an insanely average sense of humour.

- I want a girl who's independent, and doesn't base their entire system of beliefs and their actions around what their friends/parents/teachers/stalker thinks they should do. It's so annoying seeing insecure chicks whoring their souls out for a bit of attention, just because they can't face the pain and time of truly developing into the person you can tell they are, deep down.

- A chick who can be humble, and genuinely touched by your words is always great, someone poetic (and decent spelling PLEASE!) who wont just go "lol, yes i know i am teh hot shit" when you tell them... and who might even totally blow my mind with their reply :D

I'm what you might call... picky... combined with having some of the flaws I find pretty irritating and unbearable about myself. :(
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Old 2007-04-30, 21:46
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Mental:
- Intelligent, but in a different way from myself. I want to learn ways of the world from her, but I'd also like her to learn from me. I think education is beautiful, and I love being in awe because someone I care about enlightened me to new ways of thinking.
- Confident in herself. I want her to KNOW that she's beautiful, and loveable.
- Playful, I hate people that are strict and conforming. I like being teased about silly little things; I like playing tag randomly in the parking lot; I like wrestling and laughing and telling bad jokes.... So do it without feeling awkward.
- Loving. I want her to love me, just like I want to love her. Theres no better feeling than looking at someone and wanting to be with them, start a family with them, and spend as long as you can just holding them, and know they want the same.

Physical:
- She has to love her body. I want every inch of her, she should be confident in that fact, and enjoy the idea that I do.
- Respect herself. I don't like people that mistreat their being.
 #68 
Old 2007-04-30, 22:12
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It's only 9.30 hunny, its not time for sleep... yet....ohhhhhhh :D


Ok then ;)

Im next
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Old 2007-04-30, 23:16
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What do I look for in a girl?

1. She can't be Aussie (new rule).

2. Must be a TOTAL FUCKING BITCH, but nice to me. I love it when every one thinks they're cold hearted she-devils but to you they're just legless, blind puppy dogs: completely defenseless.

3. Sexual appetite that matches mine. Meaning sex before we go to sleep, sex when we wake up and sex when I get home: at the least.

4. Articulate.

5. Knows how to spell and use grammar.

6. Can't dance for shit, but still loves to do it.

7. Loves clubbing, but hates clubbing when not with me.

8. Jealous.

9. Loyal.

10. Looks after her appearance.

11. Is lost and needs some direction.

12. Is a trysexual; she'll try anything once.


That, my dear totse, is what I look for in a woman. If I found a girl who matched that, I'd never let go.


Funny how that describes my girlfriend...heheh >.>
 #70 
Old 2007-04-30, 23:51
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for me, long thick hair. loves me for who i am, nice booty can live without it thogh, pretty.
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