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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1

2007-04-27, 19:16
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Acolyte
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Well i did it
Long Version:
So TOTSE a while back ( 1 month ago) i posted a thread about a girl which i liked and knew that she had some sort of feelings for me. We became pretty good friends throughout that time and i literally just asked her out right now. Mind you this is a pretty big step for me as I have always wanted to rely on myself and have not been in a relationship before. I am soooo fucking happy. she said quote " I would love to."
Short Version:I asked out friend she said yes.
Now heres my question... where do I take her out on a date? We are both 16 with walking/bus as our transportation.
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# 2

2007-04-27, 21:27
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Re: Well i did it
dont make too big a deal out of it... you're 16. always remember theres plenty of fish in the sea, and always be fishing. you dont gotta fillet and eat the shit, know what im sayin?
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# 3

2007-04-28, 00:07
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Acolyte
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Re: Well i did it
Thanks for that tip I will keep it in mind. And from what I have read movies as a first date are not such a good idea... right?
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# 4

2007-04-28, 00:30
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Re: Well i did it
Movies are really boring, they really aren't suited for a date at all. I'd suggest going to some sort of public gardens or something, then go buy lunch together and just walk around, talking, spending time with each other. My personal suggestion would be, dont go to the movies, avoid them pretty much, they cost far too much for what you get out of them.
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# 5

2007-04-28, 00:37
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Acolyte
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Re: Well i did it
So would something like the zoo be a good idea. And then like you said get some chow? I live in Oregon if that matters. We also have stuff like the Japanese/Chinese gardens.
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# 6

2007-04-28, 01:02
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Re: Well i did it
Take her back to your house and show her your weenie. If she stays, shes yours. If she goes, she'll be walking to my house to get some.
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# 7

2007-04-28, 01:49
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The bend Indiana...
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Re: Well i did it
shitttt...well do work with her, take her out somewhere you can talk some business to her and have some fun, if your not ready for that take her to a movie.....my advice would be, not to get too attached or thinking too much about her, cause at that age...Dating/relationships are meaningless bulshit unless you really have a straight girl....which is probably slim to none chance....
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# 8

2007-04-28, 01:56
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Acolyte
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Re: Well i did it
Nitrous you are right about the whole highschool relationship thing, though we are both doing an advanced program in which we attend college full time and earn dual credit, but this one feels "different". And like I stated before I have never been in a relationship before for the previously stated reason. Shit, I mean usually no-one can get that close to me. Even friends I have know for 7+ years or my parents.
Keep the advice coming.
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# 9

2007-04-28, 02:28
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Re: Well i did it
Hey wanna go to the movies?
"sure, what time?"
8pm
"ok"
*5 mins later*
They canceled the movie, so wanna come over my house and watch a move?
"sure!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhzKWMk3kow
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# 10

2007-04-28, 04:02
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Re: Well i did it
If you dont have a ride anywhere that kinda sucks. But if you liker her alot and you want her to feel the same do somthing cute and make a picnic or something.
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#11
 2007-04-28, 20:02
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escape_reality 
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Re: Well i did it
what the hell is colt 45?
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#12
 2007-04-28, 20:33
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Re: Well i did it
It's cheap and terrible malt liquor.
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#13
 2007-04-30, 00:40
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Re: Well i did it
So uh... yeah. We decided that we would go out this Monday and get some Chinese and then watch The invisible/spend some time together. Is that a good plan? She also asked me what took me so long to finally ask her out???
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#14
 2007-04-30, 00:49
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Re: Well i did it
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Originally Posted by ROSTOV
So uh... yeah. We decided that we would go out this Monday and get some Chinese and then watch The invisible/spend some time together. Is that a good plan? She also asked me what took me so long to finally ask her out???
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Sounds good! Good luck :)
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#15
 2007-04-30, 01:46
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Re: Well i did it
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Originally Posted by ROSTOV
So would something like the zoo be a good idea. And then like you said get some chow? I live in Oregon if that matters. We also have stuff like the Japanese/Chinese gardens.
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What part of Oregon?
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#16
 2007-04-30, 01:49
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ROSTOV 
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Re: Well i did it
Portland metro area.. Beaverton
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#17
 2007-04-30, 01:53
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ROSTOV 
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Re: Well i did it
Oh another problem so to speak. As 'friends' we kissed and cuddled before. Thing is I know that affection will be expected and like I said before, this is my first attempt at a relationship and I can't/do not know how to insitgate.
She was the one who first started being affectionate towards me. And yeah I know this sounds pathetic. But I can't fuck up tomorrow.
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#18
 2007-04-30, 04:19
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Jojoman 
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Re: Well i did it
You like sit close to her. Then get her attention, and give her the coked eyebrow look accompanied by a puffing of the lips. She will laugh and throw herself onto you.
Works every fucking time for meh.
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#19
 2007-04-30, 04:28
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Re: Well i did it
tl/dr
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