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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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2007-04-27, 08:16
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Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
I have a serious fucking problem.
When I was 12, my dad told me I have HIV. I got it from my mom, and my dad has it as well of course. Let me tell you, that was a awkward fucking car trip  .
It was agreed that when I got a girlfriend, I'd tell her about it right away, and leave weather to even have sex or not up to her. I did this in my first relationship, which turned to shit within a month.
The next girl I met (current GF) I decided not to tell. I just let my parents assume I had, and no one discusses it. Not very nice dinner conversation anyway as you can imagine.
So I had sex with (lets call her "A") always wearing a condom, being careful ect.
However last night we where at a party, and when I was putting the condom on, it broke. I ran over to the pub, got a condom, and came back. I put it on, and it was slightly big but fit ok. Long story shot, we did it, and when I pulled out it wasn't on. She didn't think it a big deal, she got it out, and she had the morning after pill at her house. I didn't have the courage to tell her.
So you think she has HIV now?....I don't know what to do, this is starting to worry me.....
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# 2
2007-04-27, 08:22
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Re: Help
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Originally Posted by Molosh
I have a serious fucking problem.
When I was 12, my dad told me I have HIV. I got it from my mom, and my dad has it as well of course. Let me tell you, that was a awkward fucking car trip .
It was agreed that when I got a girlfriend, I'd tell her about it right away, and leave weather to even have sex or not up to her. I did this in my first relationship, which turned to shit within a month.
The next girl I met (current GF) I decided not to tell. I just let my parents assume I had, and no one discusses it. Not very nice dinner conversation anyway as you can imagine.
So I had sex with (lets call her "A") always wearing a condom, being careful ect.
However last night we where at a party, and when I was putting the condom on, it broke. I ran over to the pub, got a condom, and came back. I put it on, and it was slightly big but fit ok. Long story shot, we did it, and when I pulled out it wasn't on. She didn't think it a big deal, she got it out, and she had the morning after pill at her house. I didn't have the courage to tell her.
So you think she has HIV now?....I don't know what to do, this is starting to worry me..... |
You HAVE to tell her. TODAY
Ain't no way round it.
And you have morally (and legally some places) no choice but to inform a girl before having even protected intercourse.
I am editing your thread title because we don't like one word titles.
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# 3
2007-04-27, 08:33
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Re: Help
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Originally Posted by jackketch
You HAVE to tell her.TODAY
Ain't no way round it.
And you have morally (and legally some places) no choice but to inform a girl before having even protected intercourse.
I am editing your thread title because we don't like one word titles.
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Thanks for the title, but I don't think I can tell her yet, shes going to fucking hate me and even though its pretty justified I can't bring myself to do it and I just can't think of what to say, how to start the conversation and how to explain why I didn't tell her...
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# 4
2007-04-27, 08:38
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Aids
Seriously
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# 5
2007-04-27, 08:38
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
That's fucked up. Everyone's gonna hate you now.
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# 6
2007-04-27, 08:44
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Look at the bright side. No point in using condoms now.
But for real. Fuck you and fuck how you feel. You decided not to tell her you had the shit when you first starting dating. Ok, I can see that, you wanted arelationship, gotcha. You decided to still not tell her when you started having sex. That is about some bullshit. And now, after your infected jizz is up her snapper, you still don't want to tell her. You possibly cut this girl's life short. Yeah she can live a long time with it, or her life can be cut short as fuck from what it should have been. So it isn't about YOU and YOUR discomfort anymore if it ever was, Now it's about her. Be a man and fucking tell her.
Shit like this makes me think sometimes that someone should start an AIDS/HIV dating service.
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2007-04-27, 08:49
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
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Originally Posted by The God Damn Devil
Look at the bright side. No point in using condoms now.
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Err... she can still get pregnant, can't she? Having an AIDS infected baby don't sound so fun either.
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# 8
2007-04-27, 08:54
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
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Originally Posted by Piggy
Err... she can still get pregnant, can't she? Having an AIDS infected baby don't sound so fun either.
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That's why I immediately followed that with "But for real...."
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# 9
2007-04-27, 08:57
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
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Originally Posted by Molosh
So you think she has HIV now?....I don't know what to do, this is starting to worry me.....
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Unprotected Male / Female
Equal transmission m>f and f>m
Average: 1 transmission per 600 events
Related to “viral load”
Unprotected Male / Male
Average: 1 transmission per 200 events
Unprotected Female / Female
Very few reported cases without other risk factors…
thought to be rare
CDC studies started prospectively in 2000.. Still underway.
Mother to child:
15-25 % untreated
< 2% with aggressive treatment
[source = info.med.yale.edu/therarad/summers/wgss355b%20lecture%2013.ppt]
So roughly a 1/600 chance (0.00167%) that you gave it to her, depending on amount of HIV in you, and amount of semen in her.
Get her tested, but you have more chance getting her pregnant than giving her HIV.
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2007-04-27, 09:08
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
There are aantivirals that could prevent it taking hold on her system. They can only work if started immediately. TELL HER NOW!!!
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2007-04-27, 09:12 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
That's why I immediately followed that with "But for real...."
Touche, pussycat!
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#12
2007-04-27, 10:28 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Thanks for the title, but I don't think I can tell her yet, shes going to fucking hate me and even though its pretty justified I can't bring myself to do it and I just can't think of what to say, how to start the conversation and how to explain why I didn't tell her...
Of course she's going to hate you, and with justification, What you did was so wrong that words fail me.
But no matter what she will think of you , you have to man up and do it.
You are going to get slapped. Or her brother(s)/dad/cousins are going to put you on crutches.
What do you say?
Simply tell her the truth. "Babe, I have HIV. I got it off my mom as a kid. I should have told you and didn't. You need to go see a doctor today. NO I am NOT joking"
Or if you're really that much of a coward write a note and get someone to give it to her. Her getting the information she needs, and deserves, is more important than politeness right now.
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#13
2007-04-27, 11:14 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
My god, if i was her father i would be right round to beat the FUCK out of you.
Seriously, that is a real asshole move. You must have known this would happen but you still decided not to tell her?
FUCK YOU
Unless it's a troll, then good troll.
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#14
2007-04-27, 12:21 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
1. Send letter to her telling her about the HIV Aids.
2. Buy plane tickets to Bel-Air.
3. ????
4. Profit!
Letter should include this:
Now this is the story all about how
Your life got flipped, turned upside down
And I’d like to take a minute just sit right there
I’ll tell you how I gave you HIV aids, and left to a town called bel-air.
In <insert your birth place> born and raised
On the playground is where I spent most of my days
Chilling out, sexin', relaxing all cool
And all shooting my HIV infect sperm outside of the school
When the girl's parents who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighborhood
I gave one girl HIV aids, and my mom got scared
And she said "you’re moving to Bel-Air".
Follow with a picture of Will Smith.
I also possibly call Bullshits.
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2007-04-27, 12:27 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Why don't you get a blood test taken yourself first? A CBC will test for a ton of things including white and red blood cell count.
Don't you have to be on meds and shit? Even if it IS latent?
I dunno, I guess I'm still betting on the fact that you might not have it. And, yeah, if I were you I'd be freakin' out too. You know what you did wasn't right. As someone not involved I can totally empathize with you, but if I was on the receiving end of all this mess I'd be paranoid for the rest of my life and I'd have to leave you.
Dude, that's like, the BIGGEST breach of trust. Oh my god, what with the act of sex involved with something so deadly. When you tell her she's going to replay that scene in her head, you're both going to cry, and jack's right - you could get in serious legal trouble about this.
Hopefully, you'll learn from this and tell your girlfriends BEFORE it gets sexual. Otherwise, you take it out of their hands, and make it your choice to put them at risk. And that's not fair.
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2007-04-27, 12:30 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
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Originally Posted by MrMojoRisin
Why don't you get a blood test taken yourself first? A CBC will test for a ton of things including white and red blood cell count.
Don't you have to be on meds and shit? Even if it IS latent?
I dunno, I guess I'm still betting on the fact that you might not have it. And, yeah, if I were you I'd be freakin' out too. You know what you did wasn't right. As someone not involved I can totally empathize with you, but if I was on the receiving end of all this mess I'd be paranoid for the rest of my life and I'd have to leave you.
Dude, that's like, the BIGGEST breach of trust. Oh my god, what with the act of sex involved with something so deadly. When you tell her she's going to replay that scene in her head, you're both going to cry, and jack's right - you could get in serious legal trouble about this.
Hopefully, you'll learn from this and tell your girlfriends BEFORE it gets sexual. Otherwise, you take it out of their hands, and make it your choice to put them at risk. And that's not fair.
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Good point about the test.
Don't some US-States class it as 'deadly assault' now ? |
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2007-04-27, 12:32 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
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Originally Posted by Spanish Castle Magic
My god, if i was her father i would be right round to beat the FUCK out of you.
Seriously, that is a real asshole move. You must have known this would happen but you still decided not to tell her?
FUCK YOU
Unless it's a troll, then good troll.
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With you there 100%.
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#18
2007-04-27, 12:32 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Not too sure what the law is where you are, but....
"Recent court cases in England, Wales and Scotland have seen criminal prosecutions of people for giving their sexual partners HIV..." (http://www.tht.org.uk/informationresources/prosecutions/whatthelawsays/)
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2007-04-27, 12:38 |
Mindless Xyzzyean
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Thanks for the title, but I don't think I can tell her yet, shes going to fucking hate me and even though its pretty justified I can't bring myself to do it and I just can't think of what to say, how to start the conversation and how to explain why I didn't tell her...
Hey, you've already been selfish enough to accidently pass this onto her, but knowing she could be at immediate risk, and only thinking about yourself in this situation. That just seems a little bit too much. You need to sit her down and tell her this. If you and her were really that serious with each other, she should have accepted you for what is happening. If not, she wouldn't have been / isn't worth your time.
Man, you need to tell her this as soon as you possibly can, sit her down and talk to her.
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#20
2007-04-27, 12:53 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Thanks for the title, but I don't think I can tell her yet, shes going to fucking hate me and even though its pretty justified I can't bring myself to do it and I just can't think of what to say, how to start the conversation and how to explain why I didn't tell her...
Well, I question for you. When your dad told you, you had HIV
did you go get tested. If not them what i think you should do is ask your girl friend to come with you and get a STI test. If she questions you as to why just explain to her that your dad told you this but never actually got tested and needed to know and wanted to make sure that she was safe too. if she asks why you didn't tell her just explain that you didn't think what happened would have happened and that your last relationship went to crap.
I hope that this advice could help you out man
~gecko~ Good Luck
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2007-04-27, 12:53 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Let's see, having sex puts you at about 14+, right? How the hell did you live this long (a good life too, no less) without dying? Those kids in Africa die before age 10 most likely, and you'd have to take pills costing 70K or so for life. How are your parents not dead yet?
Anyway, if you're too much of a coward, tell her you might have some other disease (syphilis or something, and urge her to get tested for EVERYTHING). It will tell if she has HIV and you won't have to tell her directly.
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#22
2007-04-27, 13:20 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
So roughly a 1/600 chance (0.00167%)
That's some raggedy maths you're trying to pull there.
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#23
2007-04-27, 13:24 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
That's some raggedy maths you're trying to pull there.
No. The source indicates average 1 transmission from 600 events. That is a 1/600 chance.
1 divided by 600 = 0.001667
Taking 1 as 100% chance, 0.001667 becomes 0.001667% chance. Pretty simple probability and decimal/fraction converting. Did someone skip primary education?
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2007-04-27, 13:30 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
1. Send letter to her telling her about the HIV Aids.
2. Buy plane tickets to Bel-Air.
3. ????
4. Profit!
Letter should include this:
Now this is the story all about how
Your life got flipped, turned upside down
And Id like to take a minute just sit right there
Ill tell you how I gave you HIV aids, and left to a town called bel-air.
In <insert your birth place> born and raised
On the playground is where I spent most of my days
Chilling out, sexin', relaxing all cool
And all shooting my HIV infect sperm outside of the school
When the girl's parents who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighborhood
I gave one girl HIV aids, and my mom got scared
And she said "youre moving to Bel-Air".
Follow with a picture of Will Smith.
I also possibly call Bullshits.
qft.1
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#25
2007-04-27, 13:56 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Don't fucking do that again.
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#26
2007-04-27, 14:14 |
ViVe CUERVO
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Be a fucking man and tell her.
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#27
2007-04-27, 14:21 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
READ THIS NOW !!!
She has 72 hours to take tri therapy meds in order to lower the chances she'll get infected. The sooner she get them the better it is. It does work, it reduces the risk ALOT. Do it NOW !!!
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2007-04-27, 14:50 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
No. The source indicates average 1 transmission from 600 events. That is a 1/600 chance.
1 divided by 600 = 0.001667
Taking 1 as 100% chance, 0.001667 becomes 0.001667% chance. Pretty simple probability and decimal/fraction converting. Did someone skip primary education?
For some reason I was thinking 100/600
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2007-04-27, 15:08 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
You know, if you hadnt been a selfish prick and had gotten her to a hospital IMMEDIATELY, instead of being a cowardly pathetic little shit, you could have prevented this happening to her. Possibly.
I forget what it's called, but there's a drug you can take after exposure to HIV, and it severely fucks up your immune system for a few months and if taken soon enough can prevent the infection.
But no. You had to protect your own shitty little skin.
I think possibly you should kill yourself. Not for having HIV, that's no sin. But fucking someone else, truly trusting that a tiny piece of rubber would protect that person.. and not even telling that person what you had..
You deserve to die.
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#30
2007-04-27, 15:45 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
OK, first of all, if you're serious, you should get your head bashed in.
But I really don't see how you'd be at a sex-having age if you were born with HIV.
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#31
2007-04-27, 15:51 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Pwned.
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2007-04-27, 16:03 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
1. Send letter to her telling her about the HIV Aids.
2. Buy plane tickets to Bel-Air.
3. ????
4. Profit!
Letter should include this:
Now this is the story all about how
Your life got flipped, turned upside down
And Id like to take a minute just sit right there
Ill tell you how I gave you HIV aids, and left to a town called bel-air.
In <insert your birth place> born and raised
On the playground is where I spent most of my days
Chilling out, sexin', relaxing all cool
And all shooting my HIV infect sperm outside of the school
When the girl's parents who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighborhood
I gave one girl HIV aids, and my mom got scared
And she said "youre moving to Bel-Air".
Follow with a picture of Will Smith.
I also possibly call Bullshits.
motherFUCKER
you stole my idea
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2007-04-27, 20:39 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
You deserve to die.
my thoughts exactly
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2007-04-27, 20:47 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
No. The source indicates average 1 transmission from 600 events. That is a 1/600 chance.
1 divided by 600 = 0.001667
Taking 1 as 100% chance, 0.001667 becomes 0.001667% chance. Pretty simple probability and decimal/fraction converting. Did someone skip primary education?
Bwahaha! Dumbfuck.
1/600 = 0.001667 ...got that right.
But when you make it a percentage you multiply it by 100 so it's actually 0.1667%.
A more common example in case you didn't catch that.
We all know that three fourths of something is equivilant to 75%. 3/4 = .75 * 100 = 75%
Lulz someone forgot to do da homewrk! :p :p :p
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2007-04-27, 20:57 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
pwn3d, yeah its like saying 1/1 = 1%
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2007-04-27, 21:02 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Get yourself a PCR test to see if you really do have it, and have her get a PCR test as well.
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2007-04-27, 21:17 |
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Bwahaha! Dumbfuck.
1/600 = 0.001667 ...got that right.
But when you make it a percentage you multiply it by 100 so it's actually 0.1667%.
A more common example in case you didn't catch that.
We all know that three fourths of something is equivilant to 75%. 3/4 = .75 * 100 = 75%
Lulz someone forgot to do da homewrk! :p :p :p
Haha I forgot to convert the probability (in terms of 1) into percentages. Oh well, still a relatively small percentage. More chance getting her pregnant.
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2007-04-27, 21:47 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
i try not to associate myself with trash so i dont get it. but in your case it's really not your fault. but if i were you i'd give it to as many people as possible. i'd make sure my lips were always like chapped and cracked when i smoked with people and stuff like that lol. i dont see why you have to tell her. tell her your name is really ron mexico lmao
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#39
2007-04-27, 22:16 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
You could send her this thread...
Sex. Serious business.
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2007-04-27, 22:52 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Fuck, if i had HIV i'd end my life.
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2007-04-27, 22:59 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Btw, you have just played russian roulette with your girlfriend, if what you say is true, you're a horrible person.
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#42
2007-04-27, 23:28 |
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While what the OP did is inexcusable, I doubt most of you can understand how it must be for him, having been born with HIV.
That must be one hell of a burden.
I'm not saying what he did was right, but I can kinda see how it would be a difficult situation. How would you like to have to tell every person you're about to have sex with that you have HIV? Talk about a way to kill the mood...
And to those saying "lol, y u not dead yet?"... He may be HIV positive, but that does not mean that he has AIDS.
Jeez.
And to the OP, the chances are quite slim that you passed it onto her, but don't use that as an excuse from now on.
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#43
2007-04-27, 23:42 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
You can go to prison for this, for a VERY long time, in some places life.
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2007-04-27, 23:44 |
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Wow, ya know, id like to tell you not to worry about it, and that you can get away with not telling her. But i cant. You SHOULD worry about it, and you HAVE TO TELL HER.
Best of luck.
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2007-04-28, 00:52 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Break up with her before you have more sex and find another bitch...
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2007-04-28, 00:52 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Damn. You've damn well dug yourself to the bottom of the fuck damn well.
I dunno man. If you care about her, then tell her and expect the relationship to be over.
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2007-04-28, 00:52 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Unprotected Male / Female
Equal transmission m>f and f>m
Average: 1 transmission per 600 events
Related to viral load
Unprotected Male / Male
Average: 1 transmission per 200 events
Unprotected Female / Female
Very few reported cases without other risk factors
thought to be rare
CDC studies started prospectively in 2000.. Still underway.
Mother to child:
15-25 % untreated
< 2% with aggressive treatment
Actually...
Since his dad just "said it" and he was never actually tested, we only have to assume for sure that his dad has it.
1/600 chance dad to mom
1/4 mom to him
1/600 him to girlfriend
~0.046761352% chance. THE PROPER MATHS!1
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2007-04-28, 00:59 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
OP, I gave you some rep coz this made me lul
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2007-04-28, 01:01 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
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Originally Posted by Molosh
I have a serious fucking problem.
When I was 12, my dad told me I have HIV. I got it from my mom, and my dad has it as well of course. Let me tell you, that was a awkward fucking car trip :( .
It was agreed that when I got a girlfriend, I'd tell her about it right away, and leave weather to even have sex or not up to her. I did this in my first relationship, which turned to shit within a month.
The next girl I met (current GF) I decided not to tell. I just let my parents assume I had, and no one discusses it. Not very nice dinner conversation anyway as you can imagine.
So I had sex with (lets call her "A") always wearing a condom, being careful ect.
However last night we where at a party, and when I was putting the condom on, it broke. I ran over to the pub, got a condom, and came back. I put it on, and it was slightly big but fit ok. Long story shot, we did it, and when I pulled out it wasn't on. She didn't think it a big deal, she got it out, and she had the morning after pill at her house. I didn't have the courage to tell her.
So you think she has HIV now?....I don't know what to do, this is starting to worry me.....
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Holy fucking shit, you phail like failure has never been. Serious.
Buuut... I still love ya, bro. Like Jesus loves you, only in a more platonic way.
The chance of single-instance transmission is fairly low (read : you've been granted mercy, so quit fucking up), and prophylactic antiviral treatment can drop the chances far more (read : TELL HER NOW so she can save her fucking life).
This is going to be the most akward moment of your fucking life. So fucking what? It's what you've got to do. So do it.
...and on a side topic, I'd give you MAD props if you start using "My mom gave me HIV when I was just a little boy" as a pickup line, too... but however you do it, don't fuck up like this again. |
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#50
2007-04-28, 05:30 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
You better have given her HIV!
Oh, and don't most HIV-infected children die before the age of 5?
EDIT: Here it is:
"Researchers have observed two general patterns of illness in HIV-infected children. About 20 percent of children develop serious disease in the first year of life; most of these children die by age 4. The remaining 80 percent of infected children have a slower rate of disease progression, many not developing the most serious symptoms of AIDS until school entry or even adolescence. A report from a large European registry of HIV-infected children indicated that half of the children with perinatally acquired HIV disease were alive at age nine. Another study of 42 perinatally HIV-infected children, who survived beyond 9 years of age, found about one-quarter of the children to be asymptomatic with relatively intact immune systems."
Now, you might be one of those asymptomatic kids, but I kind of doubt it. So if you are, you phail. If you're not, then you're a troll.
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2007-04-28, 06:49 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Do what any man would, and lie.
Tell her you just went to the doctor, and you found out you had HIV. That your parents later told you that there was a small chance it was passed on to you from birth, but they didn't want to worry you...
...Are you SURE you have HIV... I mean, maybe your dad was just fucking with you on the car ride home.
Edit: Go watch the movie "Kids".
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2007-04-28, 10:44 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Have you got tested yet?
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2007-04-28, 15:07 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
Good point about the test.
Don't some US-States class it as 'deadly assault' now ?
I think that's only for intentional infection or intentionaly risky behavior, like not using a condom. I could be mistaken.
Do not listen to ANYONE who's quoting percentages at you. When the stakes are this high, do you really want that whatever % hanging over your head for the rest of your life?
You have a fucking obligation to tell her NOW. Your disease isn't your fault, an accident of biology. But if she gets infected because you didn't tell her while she still could have gotten an anti-viral regimen, that will be your fault.
You already made a mistake in not telling her before you got involved. Don't make another, bigger one.
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#54
2007-04-28, 16:07 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
lol, born with HIV? lol.
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#55
2007-04-28, 17:06 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
While what the OP did is inexcusable, I doubt most of you can understand how it must be for him, having been born with HIV.
That must be one hell of a burden.
Who gives a flying shit after what he's done? You lose all rights to any kind of empathy by doing such a thing. He should be tortured to death
Yeah it's a fucking troll but people that do this shit very much exist
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#56
2007-04-28, 19:41 |
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Re: Help, have I given my GF HIV ?(serious)
I didn't go to school today, I just sat at home and trolled totse. :) From SG thread the same day. Yeah, I am sad enough to check, but this post really fucked me off.
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