the girl im currently sleeping with orgasms fairly quickly (around 10 minutes) and then usually doesn't want to keep going at it. ive been able to adapt to this so that i orgasm at the same time or slightly later (less than a minute after her) and all is well in the universe. however, i enjoy the sex act as much as the orgasm. i like to fuck, not just orgasm. i would like to do this for longer than the above mentioned time. the lady friend, although i believe she would let me continue, does not appear to be as into it after the orgasm, and this in turn affects my enjoyment of the sex. i care about this girl very much. anyway, thats a problem. anyone got any suggestions about how i might interest her more in continuing? shes only been with one other dude before. i want to be able to go for longer, but i want her to be as into it as myself.
fuck all the people that will flame.

As the answer to every S&A question: stick it in her pooper.

Ok. *serious face* Maybe it will take longer to orgasm for her that way, and you still have an orifice to stab at.

Ummm, it gets better after orgasm. What's wrong with her?

Have you noticed her pussy get really wet and then get dry after she cums? If so, lube will help her problem.

If it's not phsyical.. it could be mental. She's set up sex in her head that she comes quickly and then it's over. Sounds like something she would learn from a past partner..

Eat her out till orgasm before sex. See what happens.

I don't know, I'm throwing stones in the dark. I have no idea what you've tried or what's going on. But maybe what I've said can lead you in the right direction.

Premature ejaculation is a serious problem. She should probably use desensitising creams and think about mundane things to delay her orgasm, like any self respecting man should, right?

Of course not. When sex goes wrong, it is clearly the responsibility of the guy to do something about it.

^Hmmm, I get what you're trying to say, but each orgasm makes the successive one come so much easier.

For me at least.

Actually, I think she's a freak of nature. What girl wants to stop right after they came. Only after 10 minutes?

BOOO!

well, she doesn't want to stop right after, but i think it starts to get painful for her. in any case, it seems like she becomes less interested after cumming.
and we have done anal a few times. apparently she really likes it. she orgasms harder that way.
ive eaten her out to orgasm, but never after sex. maybe ill try that.
i think it probably is a mental thing. the last girl i was with could cum 3-4 times during sex. i have been with others that had multiple orgasms.

Aww, oc6, you always take my blunt rants so well.

<3

My body isn't like that so it's hard for to comprehend that other women are different in that sense. You need to stick around to balance my crazy ass out. :)

Many women have sex in this manner. Once they get theirs, it's over.

I wouldn't quite call it selfish.

like i said, ive learned how to know when she is coming close and i am able to get mine too, but still...
i don't know, i think ill just prolong the foreplay.

Just keep in mind that if she's happy with it, then there's no issue.

My last girl came fairly quick (not that fast...but maybe 15-20 minutes) but would want to keep going and going and going....after 6 or 7 i had to just stop...her and I almost fucked me to death (not that im complaining)



wow...that got off topic fast....

You don't have to answer, I'm just curious, but you don't prefer to orgasm from oral before sex?

Do you dislike it?

so his happiness does not matter?

so his happiness does not matter?

I'm saying that it isn't a problem, it's just something that he desires.

the interesting thing is, we were together twice today. one after another. and it was great. so maybe i haven't quite figured this out yet. both times she came pretty fast. the first i was right with her on it, the second i went a little longer, but she was cool with it.
on a side note, ive been friendly with this girl for a few years. i started sleeping with her a month ago. maybe i just need to be patient.

I agree, just take time to get to know her better in bed. Maybe explore different positions that only give shallower penentration or less G-spot stimulation? And take it slow! It might work if when you realise she's getting close, to just slow right down (or stop altogether!) and give her a chance to relax before starting again. It'll probably make her orgasm much harder when she does finally get there. Thats if she doesn't go crazy with frustration first... Fuck, though, she's kinda lucky she comes so easily through sex itself... so many women don't!