so yesterday im talking to her on the phone and things are finally going good again, when BAM

"hey this guy says he noes you"

me- " who"

"he wont tell me his name"

me- "ok then"

"OMG you fuckin asshole, hes tellin me all the shit you said about me!!!!"

and then we argued for 2 hours and i yelled at her cuz she doesnt believe me. she said she loves me but she doesnt wnna noe me anymore becuz of what i said. but then i met up with her today to say bye, and we ended up sitting on the floor of a bus station for 4 hours. She doesnt believe me even though i've stuck to my story that i never said anythin(which is the truth). And its so fucked that she believes a random guy who added her on msn over me just because he knows where we chill( but the guys who i know did this have seen her there)

totse what do i do now

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Troll?

If not *insert typical &t answer* 'dumb bitch shulda believed u...etc etc...relationships r liek based on trust...etc...etc...dump her...etc..'

<3

no im not a troll this is actually happenin to me
she says she never wants to see me again yet she keeps callin me everyday

I'm going to give you a serious answer, but only because no one else is. Call her and say "You're about to believe a complete stranger over me? You're gonna let this guy end us?" Just bash it into her head that you're her boyfriend and this guy is a complete stranger. If she doesn't come around it's for the best.

Dude, get rid of the chick. For real. I only know her from your posts and I can't fucking stand her. Block her number, change yours, keep track of calling times and go for a restraining order or protection order or what the fuck ever it's called.

From the posts I read, it seems like the chick digs drama and that's why this shit keeps happening. So if you cotinue to feed her need for the shit, you obviously get off on it too and there fore need no advice. That just might be the answer, you both are just a little or alot screwed up and belong together. Either way good luck bud

its fucked
im not a drama seeker
i hate that shit
i put out two cigs on my arm and the chick still dont believe me
maybe i shud get rid of her
but on the other hand shes smokin hot
plus wen things are normal we talk for hours on the phone
and wen wer together she cant keep herself off me
i noe shes crazy
but im a lil bit crazy too
in all honesty i jus need a gurl i cn depend on
and i noe i cant depend on her

That was deep, man...

3-Some?

But seriously, is she worth the trouble?

ye man i think she is

My eyes.. :(

If she really doesn't beleive you, than I wouldn't tell you to stay with her. But you obviously want to, so I would just try to make her understnad that SHE is choosing to believe someone else over you.

ye man i think she is

Well, relationships are built on trust.

That said, it has to go both ways, so either she's in-experienced at relationships, or she's sending you a message.

Best advice would be to tell her straight up how you think about this situation.

weedman, are you 12?

3 major keys to having a successful relationship (besides physical attraction and personal trivial b/s)...

1) Honesty

2) Trust

3) Communication


But thats in the foreground of a healthy relationship.


The rational answer to this problem would be... DUMP HER.

Question)Why?

Answer)Obviously if she takes another guy's word over your word then she should be going out with the informant instead. Secondly, if she takes belief to a claim from a 3rd party and refuses to justify the claim or even name the source, then she is either a dumb girl who doesn't need to involve herself in relationships until she successfully achieves an intelligence quotient including 3 digits/ OR she is a lame ass and has a hidden agenda.

SUMMARY = DUMP HER

qft, couldn't have said it better.

Find this so called guy and put him in the ground. then punch the ex mrs in the face.

i put out two cigs on my arm and the chick still dont believe me
DUDE... why did you even need to do this, she says she cares alot???.. why would she watch you do that and not stop you. If shes not going to listen to you then theres no use hoping for a lasting relationship with her, what are you gonna do?... beg untill she comes around only to have her up and leave again over some trivial shit?...

Like GermanAmerican said, if shes not willing to at least inform you of the person who told her you have been talking shit about her then she must be very stupid or not care about you like she says she does. Who the fuck is he to her?, honestly look out for yourself and walk away.

Btw, how old are you?