Like, I can kinda understand slipping up once, and letting your emotions get the best of you, and getting caught up in the heat of the moment. But the people that actually actively pursue others to fuck while they are in a relationship...

Why do so many of the people that I know do this? Yet nobody on totse will ever admit to being a chronic cheater. Am I just hanging out with the wrong crowd, or what?

I swear like half of my friends actually brag about their side conquests. PATHETIC.

Stop ranting and raving about the crowd you hang with getting more pussy than you. If you don't like then find some new friends. It's human, albeit immoral, to search for and fuck multiple people.

You are in support of it!?

Wow, I'm surprised the first post was actually pro-cheating.

Oh, and I really could care less that they get more 'pussy' than me. I'd rather have my integrity and pride than pussy...

Whilst dishonesty is a very nasty thing, that is just how some people behave.. there's way too many to list..

There's no way of fixing this imo.. I don't think I'm like that myself, I could very well end up like that. I will not be hypocritical and those that act like that.

Sure, it'd be great to move them to a different breeding pool, so that all habitual cheaters behave only with each other though.

Yeah I guess the title is a bit harsh, especially since I'm referring to some of my friends here.

But seriously though, what is wrong with them!? How do they not feel any remorse for what they do? And how the fuck are they so stupid to go around bragging about it? What if someone were to tell their significant other... they'd be fucked!

Don't get me wrong... I love having sex, especially with hot girls, multiple times. But, I really can't understand cheating at all.

I wouldn't forgive someone for any kind of slip-up, alcohol-inspired or not. I don't feel like someone could have cared much in the first place to let alcohol have that kind of influence over them.

Don't get me wrong... I love having sex, especially with hot girls, multiple times. But, I really can't understand cheating at all.

That is EXACTLY what I'm saying!!!

I wouldn't forgive someone for any kind of slip-up, alcohol-inspired or not. I don't feel like someone could have cared much in the first place to let alcohol have that kind of influence over them.

I don't mean forgive them as a partner. I mean like, forgive them as a human being, they made a mistake, don't start the public executions YET....

But yeah, I don't think any cheating should be tolerated in a relationship.

It's these serial cheaters that REALLY boggle my mind though... They just don't care AT ALL about the person they're with... What's the point of even being in a relationship if that is the case!?

I'm not a cheater... all I'm sayin is if I can't get steak at the Fondue Hut then I'm going to Outback.

That's not an excuse!! If some chick isn't giving you what you want, then you talk to her about it. If she still denies you what you want, then you either do without, or find someone else....

RIGHT@!?

Exactly, I found someone else. I consider myself an improvement expert! If having three/four women is cheating, I don't want to not cheat.

Omg lol.. No... I mean find someone else in the sense that you are replacing them...

Omg lol.. No... I mean find someone else in the sense that you are replacing them...

Naah, there's no need to replace anyone. I know a lot of people out there are against cheaters, but I find people to fill my needs that others aren't. No one person can fill your life. It needs to be a web of people to fall back on.

I'm not a bad person. Hell, after I get outta the military I'm going to be dedicating my life to the study of degenerative brain disease. Right now I'm looking into internships at the local fire department. I regularly volunteer at the animal rescue league. I also play the game worse than anyone else you know.

I cheated. I was drunk, high, on cocaine, and had popped some vicodin. That's the only reason my girlfriend forgave me... Perhaps also 'cuz it wasn't sex, just making out. But you know, i don't want to fuck or hold anyone than my girl. I honestly don't need myself needing anyone else. Also, at the time, we hadn't been having sex. That's how i validate myself--sexual frustration. It doesn't change the fact that I was overcome with guilt.

See... That is somewhat understandable. In fact, I don't hold anything against you, as the exact same thing happened to me once. I got REALLY drunk (shots of tequila on an empty stomach are NOT a good idea), and apparently I kissed this chick at the party.

I felt HORRIBLE. Still do in fact. That day I soiled my perfect reputation for never cheating.

But what I'm referring to, are the ones who have sex, not just kiss, and who do it on a regular basis, with no regret whatsoever.

They even plan on it, when they're completely sober.

chill out! if i had a girl that would be cheating on me i would stand in front of her and say...

"Lord I pray for the soul of this bitch. And guide my pimp hand and make it strong, Lord. So that she might learn a ho's place. Amen" - A Pimp Name Slickback

...then I would backhand her into the next millenium

Keep ya pimp hand strong.

This thread makes me wish I had a girlfriend, just so I could cheat on her.

Thread Hijack: should cheating bitches be struck physically? I vote yes. I mean, if it's a repeated or ongoing thing.

yeah and its also human nature to bash the skull in of someone who challenges you...


it's fine to fuck around, but really you can do that OUTSIDE of a relationship. I've never understood why someone would stay in a relationship if theyre fucking around. Unless you and your SO have agreed to an open relationship, i dont see much point in staying in a relationship...less you need emotional support.

hahahaha i find just cutting them off to be a better solution. at this point i make sure its said upfront in the beginning of the relationship, you fuck around no if's/no but's youre gone.

Motherfucking RIGHT !! I DESPISE that kind of people. They deserve the worst of this life. Goddamned backstabbers !!!

Never cheated, but been cheated on.

I say string 'em up.

WHAT oh fuck this thead is they cheat it means there bord of you already so don't kill them just deal with it don't be a pussy and kill what you can't control its your fault if they cheat anyways...sorry its the truth but my gf cheated on me im not sure what to think about it yet? its been four months im still noraml and confused

and yeah ok next time i will type better lool

I was cheated on recently, and I have to say it fucking hurts.

Yeah, I got a female friend who is a habitual cheater. She definitely has some psychological issues with that shit. She told me that she's cheated on every boyfriend she's ever had. I haven't fucked her, but I have hooked up and fingered her while she had a boyfriend. She's hooked in with a lot of my friends too and fucked a couple as well, all while she had a boyfriend at the time.

heh...just because you date whores, or at the very least date normal girls who you're unable to satisfy, doesn't mean that everyone that touches your woman should be publicly executed.

I agree with you.

Cheating is one of the most lowly, pathetic things you can do. And yes, it should be punishable by actual prison time.

Kind of a random bump of an old thread, but anyway...

heh...just because you date whores, or at the very least date normal girls who you're unable to satisfy, doesn't mean that everyone that touches your woman should be publicly executed.

What...?

I think you missed the point completely.

It's the CHEATER who should be publicly executed, not the person they're cheating with!! I mean... I've somewhat-mistakenly had sex with a few girls who had boyfriends. I mean, if I pick up a girl at a party, and she's alone, and I'm drunk, I'm not going to straight out ask her if she has a boyfriend. She should be telling me this before we even get anywhere near fucking.

Not only that, but (luckily), I have yet to be cheated on. I just know a lot of people (both male and female) who are cheating assholes, and seem to think that it's totally fine.

public execution, prison? haha

no, just dump their ass and tell everyone

habitual cheaters can also be a result of partners who tolerate it the first time by writing it off as "ok well I guess he/she was just really drunk at the time and would have behaved well otherwise"


are you fucking kidding me?!

SO long and goodnight!

Several months ago I would have agreed 100%, having been through it (in fact, walking in on it!).

It took me close to a year to get over her, and at times, I thought I'd be depressed forever and never let it go. With time, life gets better. Hate is baggage, it'll eat you up inside. I sound like a ramblin' hippie, but it's the truth.

I'm almost glad I went through it because I feel like I'm stronger now, and better prepared for future relationships.

It's just fucking sex. It's not that big of a deal. Why does it even matter? Open relationship FTW. Finding chicks who swing that way is kind of hard though. So just do it anyway.

Open relationship FTW. Finding chicks who swing that way is kind of hard though.
Amen.
Finding two of em is harder still.... You can always try making them though.


Because cheating is that much hotter. Really. Try it, it is. Of course, you should also not be open about whether or not you cheated, as it will follow you for a few years afterwards. Public execution? Ha. All they deserve is a reputation for what they are.

I actually hold a certain amount of pity for the habitual cheater. Being in a serious, loving and committed relationship can be the most fulfilling experience you can have. For someone who cheats often, I feel like they can't make that deep connection and that may be why they are always seeking any validation or affection from any source they can find. They are of course still responsible for their actions, I just can't help but feel bad for them on some level or another. Unless of course it's me they cheat on.. Then I'll just break out the hedge clippers.

All they deserve is a reputation for what they are.

Then they should be branded. Somewhere visible to all, like on the forehead. Then we'll see how many people go for them.

It's just fucking sex.

Actually that is an interesting point. I was contemplating just the other day whether it was possible (in theory) to have sex with someone else without losing any of the love you had for the person you were in love with.

But regardless, that would only work in theory, and it still doesn't account for the emotional pain brought on for the person who was cheated on, regardless of the intentions behind it.

And about open relationships... There is nothing wrong with that, as long as BOTH PEOPLE ARE AWARE that it is an open relationship.

But that is something completely different anyway.

no, just dump their ass and tell everyone

Well, that doesn't quite work out for this thread, because I can't just go and dump every cheater out there.

This thread isn't from a personal "I just got cheated on" perspective. This is from the perspective of someone who has to watch a bunch of innocent people get cheated on, while all they do is love the other person.

Like I said above, I have yet to be cheated on, but I'm pretty sure it's as bad as I imagine (if not worse). It can't require that powerful of an imagination just to envision how horrible it could be.