Ok so a girl that I really like found out that I like to run the other day. We were talking about running and she mentioned that she ran on a lot of the trails by my house so she asked if I would like to meet her someday and run with her. Then after that she said mabye when we're done we can go out and get something to drink or eat.

This girl and I are by no means friends but closer. A lot of flirting and touching has taken place before this, so I know this is not more of a friendly thing to do and more of an early kind of date.

So Ive been getting her attention with my jokes and cocky attitude and sarcasm, now should I tell her how I actually feel on this date or continue to play of the "act" of and joke around with her?

Go straight for teh buttsecks.

On a more serious note: I actually have no idea. This is a good question. I seem to fuck up at this stage quite often.

Step 1: Run
Step 2: Get food
Step 3: Go to someone house
Step 4: Say your sore from all the running
Step 5: Get Massage
Step 6: ??????
Step 7: Profit

Just go ahead and do the run and the eating thing. Offer to pay for her afterwards, but don't force it. If you think she had a good time, suggest you do it again sometime, and ask for her phone number if you don't have it already.

EDIT: I fucking suck at girls and this was fairly obvious to me.

Step 6: Have buttsecks, record it and sell it on the internet

All the best plans end in profit.

Seriously though, good luck man.

i was thinking buttsecks as soon as i read the title... totse minds think alike

So Ive been getting her attention with my jokes and cocky attitude and sarcasm, now should I tell her how I actually feel on this date or continue to play of the "act" of and joke around with her?


Just keep doing what worked.

I seem to fuck up at this stage quite often.

Yep, it's that more than friend but less than girlfriend stage that gets most of us most of the time.
Follow what's been said I guess, just go with it, hang out with her and take it from there. In due time it will become more clear what path your relationship with her is taking. If it's right it will all just sort of unfold nicely and you will be happy. Or it might not. I don't know.

Chairman Mao's Guide to a Successful First Date

Step 1) Look good, for your sake.

What most girls look for in a potential mate is confidence; the easiest way to gain confidence is to have something to be confident about. Brush your hair, brush your teeth, pick a nice outfit (don’t forget to have shoes that go well) and put on a LITTLE BIT of nice cologne. If you think that you look good it will do wonders for your confidence, which, in turn, will come across on your impending date.

Step 2) Pick a location that is conducive to chemistry.
A common mistake made by amateurs and dating gurus alike is that they pick a first date location that interferes with chemistry. Movies are a common but poor first date location as it is very difficult to get to know each other over explosions and whatnot. Many also choose a meal at an expensive restaurant in attempts to impress their date. Although a nice sentiment, this may make your date intimidated or uncomfortable, especially if said date is underdressed. I always recommend going to a nice coffee shop for a relaxing cup of something warm before perhaps taking a romantic walk. This allows for the parties involved to get to know each other while in a comfortable setting. After you have settled on an appropriate venue let your date know where you are going so she will know how to dress and feel comfortable in the setting.

Step 3) Be confident, funny and interesting.

I have found that these traits put together in the correct ratios will lead to a memorable date for all parties involved and increase your chances of obtaining that elusive second date. Try to be confident without being overbearing and coming off as an asshole. Be funny but don’t spend the entire time being a goofball; you will come off as immature. Be talkative, don’t allow any uncomfortable lulls (I mean lull as in quiet and not the misspelling of lol) in the conversation, but keep in mind that it takes two to perpetuate one (unless you are schizophrenic). Remember to stay relaxed and enjoy yourself, if you are uncomfortable and lack confidence it will come across in your body language.

If you follow these steps and remember to remain confident, you should find yourself having more dating success in the future.

As for your question, never tell a girl, especially this early that you like her. Like guys, girls also enjoy the thrill of the hunt. If you keep joking around and making her work for your affection the results can be surprising. If you shoot your wad right off the bat it takes away that "does he really like me" feeling that might give you an advantage.

Take things slow.. don't be going nuts on telling her how you feel.. it's first date, you take time.

Let her know you like her though without saying it, continue the flirting and when you're given the oppurtunity try and kiss.

don't be going nuts on telling her how you feel.. it's first date, you take time.

Lolz I used to do that all the time. I was such a clueless fuck.

As for your question, never tell a girl, especially this early that you like her. Like guys, girls also enjoy the thrill of the hunt. If you keep joking around and making her work for your affection the results can be surprising. If you shoot your wad right off the bat it takes away that "does he really like me" feeling that might give you an advantage.

Yeah... I learned that the hard way. :(

my first thought too...

just put out your hard cock and start pulling it up and down till it gets hard and then say to her sit on this or suck on this ehtwr way everybod ygo home happy LOL

I can't stand this type of post.

1) The only capital letters are in "LOL"
2) There is not even a semblance of grammar.
3) The word that turned out as "ehtwr" is so badly misspelled that I don't even have a clue what it was supposed to be.
4) Even if this post was written in flawless English it's content would still not even approach being funny.
5) Post ends with "LOL" so not only did he laugh at something not funny, he laughed at his own "joke".

Clearly the only joke here is "Highly Evolved".

Chairman Mao - your pretty up tight for a Communist....

Anyway, to the OP - don't change what you are doing. If it working now, just keep ramping it up!

I realize that tirade was uncalled for but that was about the fourth idiotic post I had read from him. My personal favorite is the one about how he thought that women couldn't be stalkers. He was ripped to shreds by other posters before he informed them that now that he has done his research on the subject he realized that women could be stalkers because of their "emotions and periods and stuff".

In reality I am really quite easy going but in the case of the real Chairman Mao I think he was probably pretty high strung.

I realize that tirade was uncalled for but that was about the fourth idiotic post I had read from him. My personal favorite is the one about how he thought that women couldn't be stalkers. He was ripped to shreds by other posters before he informed them that now that he has done his research on the subject he realized that women could be stalkers because of their "emotions and periods and stuff".

It's true, I was there. I actually made the post.

But no one responded to it. I think it's an interesting and origional subject that I don't see in S+A very often.

Anyways, the first date is either for sex or getting to know one another. I usually chose sex.