Okay, so here's my situation in a nutshell...

I started dating this girl that a coworker introduced to me. We hit it off really well, and couldn't get enough of each other. We went out for a few weeks, until we were "officially," as she called it, boyfriend and girlfriend. The first night we spent together, we were both slightly intoxicated, and made out like there was no tomorrow. But, i didn't take it below her belt, because it was our third date, and she's a virgin.

Ever since, she has put off any attempt of mine to touch her tits or her downstairs She has literally no libido. And everytime the topic of sex came up, she dodged around the issue. I didn't care too much, i thought, she just needed time and i could break her. I liked her so much that i didn't care about sex that much. Now, three months into the relationship, she tells me that sex "isn't her department" and that she "doesn't want our relationship to be sexual." She even said that my sexual frustration was my own, so she'd try not to evoke it, and when i told her why i wanted it to be, she tells me that "if i just want a fuck, to go get a slut who'll do me on the first date and leave her alone"

My problem is that i'm completely crazy over her, and she is crazy over me. She's everything i EVER wanted in a woman, when i overlook the sexual aspect. But the urge to cheat is rising, i don't want to hurt her, and by breaking things off with her, i'd be depressed to high hell.

What should i do, oh great users of totse?

What a shame..

I would probably try and move on:

She said "doesn't want our relationship to be sexual."

Well mate, thats the end of that then I suppose.

I would go over an analysis of everything you've said she's mentioned to you but it wouldn't help anything.

Clearly your relationship is at a blockade that doesn't look like it's heading anywhere. Be satisfied with what you have, or (considering you're not) find someone else.

She's playing hard to get or some shit so you'll want it even more.

She's probably a slut so then the longer you wait the harder you'll go at it the first time you do.

bahahahahahaaa

She doesn't want to have sex. Quite frankly, you should respect her wishes. So many people can't think beyond their fucking genitals nowadays.

Even if the penis does most of your thinking, you still have to respect her wishes. Even trying to coerce or trick her is still rape in spirit if not by law.

"But we're perfect together. Sure, theres the whole not being able to have sex bit, but we dont have to have sex. We can go to the motel and listen to other people have sex."

She doesn't want to have sex. Quite frankly, you should respect her wishes. So many people can't think beyond their fucking genitals nowadays.

If you really care for her you wont be unfaithfull, you will leave her so she can find somebody who will wait it out. Whats so bad about her not wanting to have sex with you? Just give her time.

Umm... clearly the answer to this is to deny her what she wants, don't make out with her anymore and rarely kiss her, just hold hands or whatever. Enough of that shit and she'll get the picture. She plays hard to get, you play it right back.

^^Do that, or....


Tell her, that you want you want to have a meaningful love sex. Just say something about it's human nature or some bullshit you possibly can come up.

Or you could say "Fuck you bitch, I expect you to take care of me like those married people. My hand isn't helping that much, so pretty much, I need your help."




NEW IDEA! Pretend to jerk off with your dick out whenever you hear her coming in the room. Just make sure you got lotions/tissues out and wank hard as you can; do this EVERY TIME as she open the door and...just make sure your dick is in her plain view too.