About 4 months ago (January 9 to be exact) I met a a girl (i'm a guy) who is 1 year younger than me at school. She is a sophomore and I am a junior. She is in a behavioral disorder program at my school and is in special classes.

It was the beginning of 2nd semester and the beginning of PE for me. We were bored and talked to each other, waiting for people who where signing up for classes. We soon became friends and it was all great for about 3 weeks. I went to her house a couple of times and we also went to the movies and the mall once or twice. Then she started talking about how I am her only friend and about how she can't find any good guys to go out with. She also told me that at the beginning of our friendship, she had a crush on me (I am not interested in her physically at all, and she knows this). She began to get really really clingy. I would see her at school during the last period and she would always invite me over to her house or want me to hang out with her and I would usually decline and give a legitimate excuse. Even so, every day after school she would call me or txt me and want me to hang out with her.

It got to the point were this would happen every single day. I would only hang out with her MAYBE on the weekend, but not normally. She was txting me about 10-15x a day, calling me about 6+ times a day(I NEVER answer) and always complained that she couldn't find a guy(boyfriend) that liked her. Throughout our friendship, she has gone out with about 3 guys, usually for only about a week and always with somebody older than her. After the guys would break up with her, she would be miserable and complain 24/7. Her parents even bought her a puppy after one guy dumped her.

A week or two ago, she txted me on a Friday saying she was really upset and she needed to see me. She told me that guys just lead her on and that she is "just a pretty face with nothing to offer." I told her I couldn't, so she sent me a picture of her crying, saying that I made her cry. I told her that she was being immature and she needed to realise that just because she wants something, I am not going to drop what I'm doing just for her. The next day she sent me a picture of her hand that had a bunch of scratches on it. It looked like a fucking cat scratched her (not deep, no blood). She said she did it to herself because she was upset. All she wanted from that was attention, and for her to sound like she is a cutter.

If I don't hang out with her, she threatens to kill herself and says that the one person that she thought was her friend (me) hates her. I have become cold and insincere to her lately, but that does nothing. How can I stop this? I don't want her to kill herself or to hurt her badly (she has depression, and was hospitalized a few times for attempting suicide), but she is a stupid spoiled brat who is used to getting her way all the time. I can't go on like this. She needs serious help and I can't be the person to help her: I have my own issues. What should I do?

farting on her... would probably do the trick

Either be an asshole, not cold like you've been, I mean, be mean or nasty to or, arrogant.

If that doesn't work, at least get some free sex out of it. If she wants you that bad, it sounds like an asshole thing to do, but make her give you free blow jobs ALL the time. Every time you see her, make her give you a blow job in the bathroom, or something. You don't have to cum (she probably wouldn't be that good anyways), but after a while, she'll get sick of it, and after the crush wears off (they all do...) she'll realize you're using her for sex, and break it off.

Or you can plain out say you don't want to hang out with her anymore.

Child Behavior Disorders

Also called: Conduct disorders

All kids misbehave some times, but behavior disorders go beyond mischief and rebellion. With behavior disorders, your child or teen has a pattern of hostile, aggressive or disruptive behaviors for more than 6 months.

Warning signs can include

* Harming or threatening themselves, other people or pets
* Damaging or destroying property
* Lying or stealing
* Not doing well in school, skipping school
* Early smoking, drinking or drug use
* Early sexual activity
* Frequent tantrums and arguments
* Consistent hostility towards authority figures

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/childbehaviordisorders.html

I'm afraid that if I have any kind of sex with her (I would be her first) she will become even more clingy and think that we have more than we actually have together.

That's true, girls tend think more on the emotional side of things...

Hm. I'll get back to you if I think of anything else. To be honest, I wish I had your problem.

She needs to be pimp slapped across the face until she realizes what a spoiled bitch she is.

Ooh, this is a tough situation. But I must say, I really appreciate the fact that you are trying to be considerate to this girl.

Anyway, maybe just try and be honest with her. Maybe tell her that you have your own problems and that you can't be the person to solve hers. And say that you guys can still be friends, but only if she stops being clingy and sorts her shit out.

Be ten hundred times more clingy back to her. She'll freak out and soon back off.

Trust me, it works.

find out her pet peeves and start making it a habit to do that shit when she is around. Be selfish and arrogant. She will grow to hate you.

Trust this guy.
As weird as it sounds it seriously works.

Trust this guy.
As weird as it sounds it seriously works.

True, not only does it weird the girl out, it also lets her see how damn annoying it is to have someone being clingy.

In all honesty i'd still fuck her, but oh well, each to their own.

How come every guy except me has girls willing to kill themselves over them?
It's fucking bullshit is what it is... :(

just be straight-up with her and if she threatens to kill herself tell her parents (s childish as it is) and tell them to get her help, or tell her to get help herself

About 4 months ago (January 9 to be exact) I met a a girl (i'm a guy) who is 1 year younger than me at school. She is a sophomore and I am a junior.

Contrary to popular belief not everyone on the internet is an American. How old are you and how old is she?

I told her I couldn't, so she sent me a picture of her crying...

lmao. funniest mental image ever. I would keep her around for the lulz.

But before I can give you my sage advice I need ages. thx.

Sophomore would be about 14/15 wouldn't it? Unless you Yanks start school later than us.

I like Yoyobek's advice, but it sounds impossible to be MORE clingy than she already is.

Six simple words, "I'm not gay, but I'll try"

Show her parents the pics she sent you and they'll send her away to some correctional facility.

She'll be out of your hands and she'll be getting treated for her depression.

Problem solved.

Heh, I had the same problem. I totally found up fucking the girl again and again. Instead of pushing her away, I started calling her backa lot. The sex got really, really nasty. I just kept on twisting my perversions more and more. Eventually she backed off in disgust (after, of course, the repeated gangbangs and masochism)

Just fuck her, but do it realy badly. Think "can't find the hole - at all" or "shit baby - I came all over your shirt - sorry" or "suck it, baby, suck it **fart** sorry baby. **faaarrrrrt** - damn girl - must be those eggs I had last night".

Or just before you fuck her, pull out a fake penis thats like 24inches long, but make it look real. Get her to lie back, and say "this is gunna hurt you a lot more than me - you want some leather to bite down on?". She'll probably run.

Or get her naked, and just run off with all her clothes. Then bust in with a camera.

Start some rumors that she sucks in bed, she's got a stinky cunny, or that she has some infection.

She'll soon get sick of you.....

If she isn't fat, just fuck the living shit out of her.

Odds are, unfortunatly, that she is fat. In that case, be a complete asshole, and let her off herself.

Dude....your my hero...i wish i had thought of that....