Ive come to find that theres quiet a few females around my school that are VERY attractive that have a thing for me... the thing is.. NONE of them even showed the slightest sign.. i had to make the first move on each one of them! Never even caught them glimpsing at me, smiling at me, anything like that! Why are bitches so complicated?

You're pissed because the girls don't make the move, or inform you that they're interested? Why would that surprise you at all? When have you ever known hott girls to put themselves out there for any guy on a day to day basis?
They expect to be persued, for guys to vie for their attention, not the other way around. This is very common among girls (especially younger ones ie. highschoolers).

When I got out of highschool, it wasn't until a couple years later that I found out that some really good looking girls had the hots for me....god damnit. It's not that I'm shy, it's just that if I don't like you then I'm not going to give you the time of day.

gay..

LOL @ thread title

Because they're evil whores who love to watch you squirm.

Either that, or they don't want to set themselves up for rejection, as due to societal norms, a girl getting rejected is much worse than a guy getting rejected.

I prefer to think it's the former.

Girls make it so hard cause they can, basically.

They have guys chasing them round all the time, so they can be snooty and hard to approach as much as they want. The better looking the girl, the worse the problem.

All you need to do is change your mindset. Go from the pursuer to some prize stud that girls have to impress before you'll talk to them. If you can convince girls that you don't think they are worth your time, they will clamber over each other to see why you are so good. The hard part is convincing them.

True players are judged by the pussy they knock back, not the pussy they get....

maybe you are ugly as fuck and they are repulsed by the sight of your face, or maybe you are just a nerd.

Are you in any way 'kinda dumb'? A lot of us guys just totally miss clues from the laaaay-deeees... Or are you the kinda stud who picks up on every clue?

Are you missing girl tricks? Are you oblivious?

Did these girls ever happen to stop very near where you were standing? Ever stop where you would have to look at them while you were where you were?

If they did....did they do it often? Have you ever actually seen girls do this or other tricks for you or others? Are you just used to girls who are a lot louder/flashier....even crass?

<<<GIRLS??? You do do those kind of subtle things don't you? I mean the ones of you who's idear of subltey is NOT talking about sex as soon as you meet someone you fancy? :p

Either that, or they don't want to set themselves up for rejection, as due to societal norms, a girl getting rejected is much worse than a guy getting rejected.



QFT.

I got rejected soooo much in junior high and the beginning of high school that I just gave up by the end.

So it's either the fear of rejection, or just lame high school playing hard to get bull shit.

QFT.

I got rejected soooo much in junior high and the beginning of high school that I just gave up by the end.

So it's either the fear of rejection, or just lame high school playing hard to get bull shit.

Do you mean hang out with you a bit & then not anymore?

Do you mean you approached people & they said no?

Did you ever flirt with those who wanted to flirt with you? It didn't lead anywhere or wha'?

I've always thought that people who just asked me to do something with them, when I had just or never met them, were either hustlers or even more effed up than me? Kids are kinda wacky?

You can tell by all the wacky a-dull-ts.

You're an idiot. If I was ugly as fuck and they repulse me, why would they like me?


Are you in any way 'kinda dumb'? A lot of us guys just totally miss clues from the laaaay-deeees... Or are you the kinda stud who picks up on every clue?

Are you missing girl tricks? Are you oblivious?

Did these girls ever happen to stop very near where you were standing? Ever stop where you would have to look at them while you were where you were?

If they did....did they do it often? Have you ever actually seen girls do this or other tricks for you or others? Are you just used to girls who are a lot louder/flashier....even crass?

<<<GIRLS??? You do do those kind of subtle things don't you? I mean the ones of you who's idear of subltey is NOT talking about sex as soon as you meet someone you fancy? :p

Im very well at picking up clues. So its not me.

You're an idiot. If I was ugly as fuck and they repulse me, why would they like me?




Im very well at picking up clues. So its not me.

So? None of those girls did such silent things near you at all? I just wonder when folks make a point & don't come right out & say nope never, even stood near me regular?

It's funny. When folks don't even approach giving a few extra words in giving their answer? I figure that such an answer is somehow fake...even if it's not. Just 5,6,7 words can make more sense.

So? None of those girls did such silent things near you at all? I just wonder when folks make a point & don't come right out & say nope never, even stood near me regular?

It's funny. When folks don't even approach giving a few extra words in giving their answer? I figure that such an answer is somehow fake...even if it's not. Just 5,6,7 words can make more sense.

You want me to write you an essay or something? I told you that they didnt give out any hints, if they did I would pick up on them, and I wouldnt waste both our time with this thread. Think what you want douchebag.

- No they never stood near me
- No they never said anything to me

These are only a FEW girls (3 to be exact). They are rich, look amazing, and know it. Whoever said "They make it hard because they can" nailed it on the head. They act like you dont exist. They could be obsessed with you, but would never show a sign. Thats all I was trying to get at with this thread; asking why chicks do this crap.

I think it has something to do with the way they grind up against you. :p

I remeber one time.. You posted a picture of your penis with your piercing.. then I sent it to everybody on your myspace buddy list... twaz phunny :D

Well...dudezor maybe you & they would have made the beautiful musics? I mean....

You want us to read your mind, the way you say they wanted you to read theirs? Sounds like it would have been a lot of fun? Long...looooooonnnnng silences, with the two of you trying to read each other's minds.... :)

I can see your teachers now...totally impressed with your essays! "Well, little Johnny 37 words! You are really trying! Up 50% in wordcount! Since the beginning of the year!"

How are you so sure they are interested in you? How do we know you're not some dweezly dweeb who's not being led on in some BS? We don't expect some 75 line lower case screed? You could just go to B&M if that is all you want to do?

Who knows perhaps they were always surrounded by legions of admirers & hangers-on & you could never have even accidently stood near them & showed off or made some small pretense? "Is that clock right?"

What it is is. Schools, as always are filled with loons.

I asked you if youd like me to write you an essay. I didnt write one. And I found out by a girl friend of mine that these girls have a thing for me. I dont know what you are trying to get at...

That people often make up stuff. They are not beyond projecting their fantasies or misinterpreting words & actions.

If she is truly your friend & 'knows' how these girls 'felt'? She went to school with you? Then she must of thought it was not in your best interests to have ever mentioned such things. You should thank her for not helping you get hooked up with these heartless & brazen hussy-heartbreakers! :)

It's a power trip.

Ever stop to think they're not doing things like making eye contact and smiling because they're not interested and you're an ugly prick?

*dosn't read thread*

Because they can.