As some of you know, I have had some shitty relationships lately. My main problem isnt getting girls... Its that I am a ho magnet. I have liked this same girl on campus for 2 years and have asked her out a couple times. We are still pretty good friends but I have burned a few bridges along the way. Our mutual friends(I personally hate them but they are her main group of friends) have grown away from me. Getting over her isnt an option, no matter who I date, as soon as im single again I go ga ga for her. Any ways to help me? I know this thread has been done a number of times but please could you guys be more specific besides the general "get up the balls man". I have the balls to ask her and talk to her. Its just winning her over. She is in love with a guy that left last year (sadly to go to V. tech but hes ok). Please help me out if you can. Btw if you have any specific questions just ask.

Super lazy person version: Friend into girlfriend.

take her to prom which should be aorund the corner.. if she wont even go with you to that, forget it.. shes not special.. you will find a new bitch you will go 'ga ga' over.. whatever the fuck that means..

... um they dont have prom in college.

If you value the friendship you guys have at all, then don't fucking do it. I did the same thing a while back. Even if she still wants to be your friend afterward, it will never be the same. It's always going to be awkward when you hang out.

if she doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend, and knows you like her, why will she suddenyl change her mind if you ask her out again?

I dont know how it will work but I need to "win her over" some how. I cant stop thinking about her. I would do anything. (not rape) to be with her. Whats odd is I dont dream about having sex with her. I dream of just dating her holding her in my arms. Just her being mine. If you cant help me win her over then help me get over it somehow.

...the obvious answer here is, fart on her.

It seems like you just have a crush on her. I still love my friend...but if being with someone else makes her happy, then I'll be ok with it :(

If you really love her and the feeling isn't mutual, then you just need to let her go. Just don't burn any bridges.

You call yourself a man.

If you wont even rape her to be with her then obviously you dont like her that much

I know how you feel. Ive felt this way a few times in my short 16 year life. When you find that one girl who is absolutly gorgoeus and her personality is amazing too. You just have to have her, however you just end up being friends.

If you are just friends with her now and this has been going on for about 2 years than you have no chance. Sorry but thats the way it is you need to forget about her. Your only hope is to give her a while of absence like a year or 2 and change your apperance and personality and mabye you'll have a chance.

Girls dont like to be smothered, you need to give her space. Trust me find an intersting hobby to get your mind off of her, go somewhere, travel, something so that if you do meet with her again in the future she'll find you more intersting. And even if she doesnt there is always someone out there for you to go "gaga" over.

Sorry if my advice seems a little harsh but its for the best, dont let her run your life.

Well why not? It's worth a try in my opinion. The OP obviously seems to feel strongly for this girl and that's reason enough to go for it.

I dunno, does she smoke? It's 4/20 tomorrow, so maybe you could make a day out of it.

I told her about it and hopefully she will see me as date able. If not i get shot down and my remaining dignity goes out to the girl of my dreams. I become more emo than ever and skate myself to death.