So ive been dating this girl for about a month. Things are going really well except something happened today. We were at our friends house when a old roomate of our friends came to the house to collect things.

Apparently my girlfriend used to sleep with this guy as fuck buddies. From my understanding (And this is comming from another person). Is that the person told my girlfriend "Ill fuck you but i dont wanna hear your shit (Problems/issues)".

Anyway he showed up today. She seemed happy to see him but after he stayed and watched some TV she started acting weird. She wasnt active all Flirty or anything (Not that i really expected it), However when i leaned in to kiss her, about half way she didnt respond.

So basically what im saying is that she put our relationship (On stand by) While this guy was in the room. When i usally leave the house she gets extreamly upseat and sometimes even cries if shes deppressed. When i left this time however she wispered "Please come back".

How do i handle or view this totse? Any ideas or thoughts on the subject. I caint explain what im trying to ask you for but please shed some light on the issue.

Hm, this is a tough one. You know something's up in her head, but you don't want to bring it up for fear of sounding like a jealous overprotective prick.
Is he someone who is going to be in your life frequently? If so then I would wait until she shows the same repeated behavior and then confront her about it. If not, just don't think about it unless she continues acting weird. Then I would just casually ask her about it, you know, be like "So ever since [name] came over you've been acting a bit distant.. what's up?" If she plays dumb that's a red flag. I don't know, I don't have much experience with this sort of thing, but that's what I'd do.

mang, fuck that bitch she isn't worth your muhfuckin time

Talk to her about it.

Holy shit dude, YOU TRIED TO KISS HER AND SHE BRUSHED YOU OFF??


What more do you need? Personally, I would break it off right that instant. There is NO reason why she shouldnt kiss you infront of the bitch. Alas, you most likely will ask her about it and she will say sorry and you will still be with her while she is fucking he friend behind your back.

She wouldn't let you do it because she is fucking the other guy too. I would seriously dumb that slut, dont forget to spit in her face to so she knows she is dirt.

I dunno, it sounds like she got burned a bit with that other guy. I can't see someone who's depressed being able to take "I'll fuck you but you can't talk to me" very well. Its possible (especially if he was picking up his shit... How did their thing end?) that she didn't want him to see her vulnerable (explaining the end) and was too tense to kiss you....

Has this been a long-term thing that has happend every time, even when he isn't there? Or does she just not want to get lovey-dovey in front of a painful memory?