Well I met an amazing girl a few months ago, she was so much like me and yet my polar opposite at the same time it was absolutely redicilous and i have now way of explaining it to you if you havent been there. So, we had been talking for about a week or so and we just opened up to each other like we had been friends forever. Unfortunately, we live 85 miles apart so we were planning to hook up this summer when I got my license. Well, about a month or so ago my dad was bitchin to me about my texting charges and told me I couldnt text anymore. Well that night she texted me right infront of my dad and he went off on me and I texted her back sayin somethin like "i cant text anymore unless i want my cell taken away and for my dad to beat my ass". Well I think I ended up callin her up a few days later and then maybe once more after that, I didnt get in contact with her untill two days ago.

Well, since then she got a boyfriend who apperentally makes her happy and I guess thats all that matters. But a few minutes ago I pretty much asked her if we were still on for this summer and I was pretty much told its done with all that fluff that girls add in. The part that sucks more than everything is that with girls its more than difficult to get a second chance in gettin them to like you. So long story short, no matter what happens in a relationship, always, always, always call her up and tell her how much she mean to you because she just might be the one you spend the rest of your life with. I think I lost mine. So dont be a dumbass like me, this isnt the first time I fucked up like this by losing contact. Leave me a story or some support.

here is some advice, alot of girls are ho who will mess around on you so quit whining!

How could you really expect her to wait around for you if you live 85 miles apart? Of course someone else would come along who is much more convenient for her to date! Sorry man, try someone closer to you.

Don't you have the Internet? i assume you because you post on totse, so why not MSN?

Anyway, passively stalk her for a few years, and when she has matured (because she is a fucking snake right now) re introduce yourself to her.

ugh. So many times has that happened to me. Something great will be building, and just when shit's about to start happening, something else will, and shunt everything around, and then things will never get back to the way they were. I even think the whole "loss of communication" thing is happening to me right now and I can just feel it dying in front of me without any chance to fix it on my part.

But, whenever shit like this happens, its important to just cut your losses and move on. At least you didn't actually get dumped or anything, the seed just never got planted. Its not the end of the world.

We had been talkin over AIM since we met each other. A lot of people want me to move into that town next year for school and i dont know, Ill probably still do it but tough shit if its awkward for her. I think Im over her, like eventually if things dont work out with them and she does come back Ill probably think about it for a while but then take advantage of the situation and see what I can get out of it. But I think Im good now.

your dad pays your cell phone bill? your dad is in charge of it?! ehhhh?! are you like, 12?
until you're actually responsible enough to own and pay for a mobile, you shouldn't even be thinking about girls!

Im gonna be 17 in like 3 weeks or so and my parents are redicilously overprotective. Thats one of the biggest reasons why I want to end up moving over there. My dad wont even let me get a job because he believes it will impact my school work too much so I take what I can get.

FUCK YOU!

Who are you to judge the young man?

If she gave half as much of a fuck about you as she said she did, she'd have understood and waited for you. The fact that she found someone else tells me she was playing you for attention.

But that's just me.