Im a bit stuck and decided to do the dumbass thing and ask &T for advice!


Ive been jerked around over and over again by girls over the years and to be honest Im fed up of it. Im a bisexual, but there dont seem to be any decent guys in my area. To be honest, I dont want to go near a female for a long time after my most recent breakup, it cause a lot of crap and has really messed my head up recently, so in short - what do you think I should do?
The annoying thing is that at the moment the only guy who would be excepting enough to take me on (im a furry lifestyler, go on, flame away) is one of my best mates and taken!!

The options at the moment are pretty much the following:
-Stay single
-Find a Bf
-Find a Gf

Either of the last two will have to be short term anyway as I am leaving for university at the end of summer.

Note: I will just ignore troll replies, yes Im a fag, yes Im a furfag, yes I take it up the ass, yes I am a pussy...I dont really care what you have to say if you are a childish little 16 year old who has nothing better to do than spam a serious post to pass their day!!

I dont really care what you have to say!!


Why'd you ask for our advice then?

That was aimed at the trolls who usually spam any posts like this! I care about serious opinions, just not wankers who are going to reply with "Die fgt" or something lame and juvenile like that!

It seems you've answered your own question really, you're just unwilling to accept what you know is the most logical decision, likely due to hormones.

What I'm trying to say is this; stay single! By starting this thread, you've only further validated this choice.
Think about it, you've been jerked around over and over again and are fed up with it; there aren't any decent people in your area at this time; the last relationship you had ended sourly and has probably compromised your ability to truly hold a healthy relationship for awhile; you're going to be going to university and face it, school gets stressful, if you want to do well, you're going to need to invest the concentration in your studies.

Stay single, have fun. Go out and be young, just don't go looking for a commitment right now, you need to be able to depend on yourself to have a healthy emotional balance before you can provide that in a relationship.
You've got your whole life ahead of you, don't shorten it any because of impatience.

I guess in a way Im afraid of being single. I always seem to find someone fairly quickly after a relationship ends because I worry that because of all my problems I wont find anyone else. I know it sounds a bit stupid really, but who would date someone with tourette's, ocd, adhd and a bag of other assorted crap who cant even hold down a job most of the time?

I guess you are right though in a way, maybe I should just stay single for the time being, look for fun and stuff but nothing else - I dont want to get into a committed relationship for quite some time now anyway.

stay single.
if you don't know/can't find what you want, then just go without until you do know/find.

Sleep around needlessly with lots of females.

Or needlessly fuck other men. Whatever.

Or needlessly fuck other men. Whatever.


+1rep for that comment ^^ I like!

Attention whore..

Ive been jerked around over and over again by girls over the years and to be honest Im fed up of it. Im a bisexual, but there dont seem to be any decent guys in my area. To be honest, I dont want to go near a female for a long time after my most recent breakup, it cause a lot of crap and has really messed my head up recently, so in short - what do you think I should do?


Have you considered necrophilia? Dead people don't play headgames.

Have you considered necrophilia? Dead people don't play headgames.


I bet you thought that comment was dead funny didnt you...

I think this is right on. Don't go out looking for someone if you don't know what you want in them. Another good thing that seems to work out is when you're not looking they normally find you, although I've been single for what feels like forever and I haven't gotten any action in a while. I guess I have the drugs to thank for that one (But I mean come on, when you can accomplish a feeling better than orgasm from a substance what's the point in trying to get laid right?).

Stay safe,
Bos

I bet you thought that comment was dead funny didnt you...

Lol... good one. I like it! :)

...but seriously... never write off your options. ;)

Don't feel like you need to be in a relationship all the time. Stay single, clear your mind.

Goto a gay bar!