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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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  #1   Add Pansy to your ignore list  
Old 2007-04-18, 12:02
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Ok, I'll tell you the story.

I had this girlfriend named Sammie, and i went out with her for a week. We kissed and shit. But she was a real slut.. like, she'd had sex ALOT before we went out. So i suppose she was expecting to have sex. During the one week we went out (tuesday, to tuesday the following week), we only saw each other at school (cause she was busy over the weekend.) Anyway, long story short, i didnt get to have sex with her. But on the day she dumped me, i was told by several people.. that she was sending emails to some guy asking him if he would have sex with her.
I asked her about it (after we broke up), and she said it was nothing.. she didnt know him.. it was a joke on a random etc.
But the next day, she wagged school to go to the movies with him, and apparently fucked him.
After a week or 2, i had heard she had fucked this guy 3 times overall.
Anyway, lately shes been calling me, sending me notes in class, asking me if i still like her.. wanting to come over, wanting me to go to the movies with her etc.. Maybe she just wants me for sex? Or maybe she wants to get back together?? i dont know...

Anyway, onto the next problem. I met my best friends cousin.. she was really nice, and hot. And i talked to her alot.. and i began to like her. But i dont know how she feels... which sucks, considering the way Sammie's been acting.. i'd go out with Allira over Sammie any day, but if i go back out with Sammie.. i dont want to miss a chance with Allira if she DOES like me but i dont know about it...

And onto the next problem, i had another girl asking me out that i had previously liked prior to Sammie. And i didnt want to miss the chance with her either.. if Sammie asked me back out.. and Allira didnt like me. But i would go out with Allira over this one aswell.

All in all, not knowing how Allira felt, and not knowing what Sammie was up to, i chose Amelia, and we just started going out.

My question to you, was this the right decision? Should I have approached it differently? Should i have got what i wanted out of sammie while she wanted to fuck me FIRST.. before going out with Amelia??

You tell me..
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Old 2007-04-18, 12:11
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Old 2007-04-18, 12:17
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But she was a real slut.. like, she'd had sex ALOT before we went out. .................Should i have got what i wanted out of sammie while she wanted to fuck me FIRST.. before going out with Amelia??

You tell me..
You see my problem with you?
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Old 2007-04-18, 12:22
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Dude, jesus. You're like a fat kid in a sweet shop.

Make your choice and fucking stick with it. And dont stick your fat little hands in other jars after you've made your choice.
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Old 2007-04-18, 14:10
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Well if all you wanted from Sammie is sex, then I guess you could probably have got that, and a selection of STIs (gotta catch 'em all...).

If you actually wanted a relationship then abandoning her was a good call... what reason would she have to not cheat on you or abandon you to go fuck someone else again?


As for Allira, if you liked her and your only concern was that she might not like you, and you're now dating, then clearly that isn't a problem. If things work out well with Allira and you date for a while it was probably best you didn't fuck Sammie, else it might look more like you're just after sex.

At worst things won't work out with you and Allira, and Sammie will most likely still be a slut and willing to fuck you so overall I think you win.
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Old 2007-04-18, 14:19
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I wouldn't touch "sammie" sounds like a STD supermarket, either of the other chicks sounds like a good choice but yer DON"T DATE THE SLUT.
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Old 2007-04-18, 14:23
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I keep picturing "Sammie" to look like one of them chicks that looks like a Skinny 15 year old boy. Figure and all.
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Old 2007-04-18, 14:42
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Despite your idiot fucking logic, you made the right choice. Isn't that a stroke of luck.
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Old 2007-04-18, 16:39
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Going out with a slut is a problem full stop...they tend to be class A at headfucking you when they get bored of you...and also as mentioned above - STD supermarket!
Make a choice for yourself, you have freewill, fucking use it!
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Old 2007-04-19, 17:11
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I'm shocked Sammie didn't give you something just from being in the same room.

That's not even normal slutty, that's the type of super slutty that guarantees her a career in porn.

Keep away from that psycho bitch.
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Old 2007-04-23, 22:58
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Foursome?
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Old 2007-04-23, 23:20
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Sex the slut, then go on to date one of the 2 girls suitable for a relationship. The one you like best, of course. And that can't be solved by Totse, only you can know which one you like best.

Spoilt for choice.
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Old 2007-04-24, 00:00
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Go for the girl you like the most. If I were you I wouldn't touch Sammy. Your not going to die if you don't have a girl or anything so take your time and make a move with the one you really like.
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Old 2007-04-24, 00:07
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Okay. Referring to Girl A as the slut, Girl B as your cousin, and Girl C as the random girl from left field that you just flank-attacked all of Totse with...

You wanted sex from girl A, had full attraction to Girl B, and just kinda went with Girl C. I don't know if C has any qualities above A or B, but from what I've read, it looks like you want to be with B. Being with C could do this; I've gotten with girls by being friends with them while dating someone else (who then dumps me, and then they're there for me, and after a while they're just there... etc) and it works relatively well. I would advise against just going with A for the sex, since if B and C may view that as man-skanky.
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