Ok. In my last thread I explained how my girlfriend is pregnant but I still sleep with my ex everyday, to put it shortly. I suddenly realized, like a kick in the balls, my ex Jen is no good. She is a liar, a selfish brat, a goddamn vampire. I simply told her yesterday "It's over, no, don't interrupt, this is it, I'm done" She rebuttles with a planned, calculated and manipulative reach of my arms and says "Will you still come up and have sex with me?"

"No, Jen. Our relationship IS sex. I'm leaving now" I closed the door behind me, hopped into my car and through my "secret" cell phone out the window along the highway. Take into account Jen hasn't been to my new home, and that cell number is her only means of reaching me. I am by no means a hard ass when it comes to relationships, and can act like a downright pussy when it comes to women I have feelings for.

This sneaking around has been going on for 6 months!! and if I see Jen again or she happens to find out about Aneta (current gf) and threaten her in any way I'll be tempted to gouge her eyes out.

I'm putting my two seater in the garage and investing in an SUV for my new family, and have taken into account the thought of marrying my pregnant girlfriend.

"The best thing you can do is the right thing, the second best thing you can do is the wrong thing, but the worst thing you can do....is nothing"

And you have the nerve to call her a brat, liar and no good.

You are pathetic.

You're still a horrible human being.

Ok. In my last thread I explained how my girlfriend is pregnant but I still sleep with my ex everyday, to put it shortly. I suddenly realized, like a kick in the balls, mbla bla bla..



God help mankind when pieces of shit like you start to breed.


Allthough, perhaps the kid isnt yours. That would be nice.

Give the guy a break. He's finally doing the right thing. Kudos, keep it up.

Sorry but I'm not giving this dude a break where no break is deserved. It's guys like you that make the rest of us look bad and where women get warranted for the stereotypes they use. QUIT FUCKING AROUND, as if you needed me to say that.

Stay safe,
Bos

Well... I was going for positive re-enforcement, but I guess I can be the good cop. I figured he's stopped doing the thing he should not be doing (Seriously man, that's a fucking scumbag thing to do) so we should encourage him to stay on the straight and narrow.

THE LORD OH MIGHTY SHALL NOT FORGIVE THIS SIN AND YOU SHALL BURN FOR 1 MILLION YEARS IN ENLESS FIRE AND SUFFER PAIN UNKNOWN TO MAN.

















But Seriously, your a fgt I hope your ex finds out about your current gf and tells her and your son/daughter finds out how big of a piece of shit their dad is.

Agreed.

I suddenly realized, like a kick in the balls, my ex Jen is no good. She is a liar, a selfish brat, a goddamn vampire.

I wish your girlfriend realised that about you before she became pregnant.

Why would you cheat on your pregnant girlfriend with your ex?

If I were your girlfriend, you'd be gone. Or dead.

Wow, there are a lot of really judgmental people here for some reason.

Do you know his life? His past? His motivation? Everyone flaming him for doing what he did has no basis at all. You have no IDEA what went on for him. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt and focus on what he's focusing on; the fact that he's realized what he was doing is wrong, and how he's found whats right.

Great job, man. I wish you luck in that, I really do. Congratulations on you becoming a father and gratz on realizing what it is you want. Good luck.

Unlike a lot of people in this thread - Im not going to be judgemental of you. What you did is wrong, but situations like this are very rarely, if ever, black and white.

It is good that you have stopped and are doing the right thing - but dont just propose to your pregnant girlfriend for the sake of it - its better to break it off and have you both live happily, than stay together purely because she is pregnant and end up living a permanent married hell!

Just out of inquisitiveness - do you feel remorse - or do you feel like you have done nothing wrong?
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Good move IMO, just dont fuck it up by voluntarily admitting it to your babys momma.

Good for you, I read your last post and didn't expect any follow-up like this. But it's great to hear. :) I'm glad you're finally doing the right thing.

But, what I said in response to the last post still goes - I think it would be wise to tell Aneta, now that things are over with Jen. She deserves to know, and to be able to make the choice whether to stay with you. You've done all you can to correct the problem, you're clearly remorseful, the rest should be up to her.

Even if you don't tell her though, good job for coming to your senses. And good luck with the baby! :)

I sincerely hope the same thing never happens to me, or that I ever find myself in that situation where I'm caught between two women (for whatever reason), hence why I will not criticize your actions.. I am not here to be judgemental.

I will applaud you for your move to do something right though and I hope that you do stay on the straight and narrow.

Thanks for all of your imput. Yes, it was a dumb fuck thing to do. Sadly for her, Aneta is an absolute angel who would forgive and forget if she had known. She and the baby are a gift from God. I used to fight daily with Jen, got arrested 3 times becuase of her mom, and I thought this is how love is. To all those who think I don't deserve Aneta and the baby, you are right.

Good things do happen to bad people like me, and bad things happen to good people like my girlfriend. My main concern is keeping Jen from hurting Aneta (she is fucking psycho-obsessed about me being with another girl) if she were to find out.
My other concern is hoping this whole thing is a past life, something that's over and done with for good.

FUCK are you people fucking STUPID or some fucking thing?

God damn, let's think this through

1) Humans are ignorant beings and make mistakes
2) Human X makes a mistake and tries to right his wrong
3) Other humans curse him out for ever making a mistake in the first place

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^ Yes. Forgiveness is good. Routing someone out for past mistakes is like bitching at someone for doing something they would have done if they could have.

The ex sounds like she needs to get her head fixed.

Fair enough to be upset if you've just been finished with, but if it's like you say it is, she needs to be shot because she's just fucking weird, especially if she'd hurt (physically or otherwise) your current girlfriend just because of that.

Get a restraining order if she gets really fucked up.