why is it that when i jerk off or watch porn my dick gets harder and stiff.
while when im with my girlfriend, my dick doesn't get that hard at all. it gets erect but not as strong.
thus, making me worried about my size and how shes taking it.
and im perfectly calm, not nervouse or worried during sex.

ive tried "maxSize" pills before sex but they dont do shit.

whats up with that?
anyone have the same problem?

making me worried about my size and how shes taking it.
and im perfectly calm, not nervouse or worried during sex.

Contradiction. You are worried about it. You are not perfectly calm if you are worried about it

Solution: Get a better looking gf, or teach this one some tricks.

Or watch porn with her?

ahh this girl is pretty hot. shes got a real nice fit body. and a pussy that tastes like ice cream all the time. lol

so do you really think shes not hot enough?
haha, thanks ;)

but do you think she knows that shes not good enough for me to get hard?

ummm only advise i can think of is think of your favorite scene from a porn movie but instead of the actors imagine you and her doing it. that sometimes works.

Maybe she is thats up to you, but if she doesn't turn you on then I dunno. Try jacking off less, and get her to suck it to warm it up before you try to stick it anywhere lol

Solution: Get a better looking gf, or teach this one some tricks.

The problem will be with him, not his girlfriend. Sounds like an anxiety thing.

Yea ok, but try the other things in my posts you should be sweet. Your sex drive reaches a peak after an average of 7 days without jacking off. Then when you're with her take your time playing around before and you should be sweet

More foreplay. Lots of light touching and feeling...


If my girlfriend and I go into sex quite fast, I tend to end up in the position you describe.

this thread is useless without pics.....

Maybe the problem is that your more excited and aroused when you scared or paranoid. When most guys jack off, there usually paranoid about someone walking in on them, always checking behind their shoulder, and maybe that thrill gets you more aroused.
So, want to get more hard? Have sex in public. Better yet, volunteer with your girlfriend to get community service at a elementary school, then when all the kids are working, duck in the closet and see how far you can go without making her scream :).

Sounds fucked, but it works.

It's because porn builds up this fantasy in us, that no "regular" girl can compare to. I mean it's gonna be really hard as Hell to bust a nut in your girl's ass and then have another girl eat it out in real life. (or whatever turns you on) So when your with her that level of arousal isn't as high no matter what she says, does, wears, etc.

My advice it to lay off the porn for a little while. It worked for me.

ahh we'd have to try that.
this girl's up for almost anything.
and
your probably right,
i should stop the porn for a while and see how that does for me.

she does say im a little anxious to do shit.
but i never take it seriously.

thanks for all the the replies :D

Yeah - there was actually some great advice above.

It'll all come down to your anxiety levels. You need to enjoy yourself, and forget about the size or shape or abilities or anything else...

Don't forget too, your dick will look bigger in your hand than it will when in action.

I think this thread is full of bullshit, I don't think it's anxiety, I think it's speed & angle. the only time I can get FULLY hard, as in rip roarin' ima chargin' mah motha fuckn' laser hard is when she rides my cock and rides it hard.

if you've ever noticed, the speed you jerk off at isn't the speed you fuck at.

in conclusion, stop worrying, and if the bitch gives you any guff punch her in the fucking cunt.

OP: congratulations!
your body has now become mature enough to not focus on looks 100% of the time
do you really like this girl? or just her sweet ass?

Punch her in the fucking cunt, but stop jerking off so much, it'll help.

yeah man maybe relax ? Take it slower aswell

Try watching porn with her.

Maybe your under alot of pressure.
Just try and relax.

Maybe she's just lame and not very good in bed.

I have that problem too, but for me I think it's something to do with the wetness and pressure- like a dry death grip is way different than a wet vagina I dunno why it happends but it happends. I dunno.

Once, i tried to Not whack off for a few days before i went out with my girlfriend. Only four days, but it was sooo much better. Held it longer, and a lot harder. Oh, and more foreplay helps too.

I whack 7 to 10 times a week, so I'm not used to being pent up. After the first three days, my temper was quite a bit shorter, and people just pissed me off in general. >8 I dunno

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ahhh YES!
it helps. didnt jerk off for 5 days straight and no porn.
it went full well, smooth and hard as expected.

btw.
my girl loves to ride. shes a country babe :P
i just wish i could show you what shes like in bed.
shes pretty boring, but once she gets going, she gets going!

nice. thanks totse :D

ahhh YES!
shes pretty boring, but once she gets going, she gets going!


I know what you mean dude - your chicks a demon once she climbs aboard.....

Heh... Real sex