Ok guys well I am 21 and at university studying a law degree. Sadly on a site called Bebo some of my classmates wrote some very cruel and offensive things in particular making a fool of my disability.

Thing is there are 3 people invovled. 2 of them, who are guys and younger than me I have never spoke to in my life, though they have a reputation for being malicious.

The other person is a girl and the very sad thing is i talked to this girl and her friend for some time. The troublemaker is called Laura, and she has always acted nice towards me for gods sake she asked me how my foot was and stuff!

I have had a schoolboy crush on her friend Sarah for some time, and I admit, that was part of why I got to know them better to be with Sarah. And even more sadly, that has been mocked and made fun of.

Ive been realy hurt and feel betrayed. I asked Sarah if she was aware of the comment, as the comments made were about me and her. I did not accuse her, merely asked if she knew about it.

Her exact response was:

"Tony, thats not fair, thats really harsh, Ive been nothing but nice to you, why are you accusing me? etc"

Wanting to deal with this matter in a mature fashion i filed a police report, and they noted the comments etc, though they couldnt act due to a lack of firm evidence they told me I was justified in my actions and if things got worse then they would take immediate action.

today I tried to apolgise to Sarah, who was very rude and curt, still going on about:

"I am really hurt, Ive been nice to you, ive made an effort to talk to you, and I feel really hurt because you have thrown that back in my face."

I told her that the police thought it was a serious matter and she then retorted:

"thats really pathetic getting the police involved, just realy nasty. Why you making a big fuss out of this, I dont want to play games."

And then stormed off.

I told her about the police to drive and drive home the message that an objective, neutral person thought it severe enough to merit filing a report with the firm promise that if even my second name or address was mentioned on the site, they would take action.

I dont know what to think, personally I feel that I have been the vicitm here, and by vritue of me pointing out their faults I am labelled a total bastard. Now I dont like making enemies, but at the same time I am not going to roll over and just be abused.

What should i do totse in general, and in regards to Sarah? And I am justified in the way I feel?

sounds like a guilty conscience. If you don't think the same then just talk to her and ask her why shes pissed off at you. If you know why shes so shitty with you then you can fix that. If she blows you off again then ditch her completely and cease all contact with her. Eventually she'll start talking to you again (works every time i promise)

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whats this disability you have?

you have no foot?

copy+paste what comments they posted

sounds like sarah feels bad about it or had something to do with it

I have arthitis in my foot, so I limp sometimes and my walking is a little awkward.

Some of the comments are as follows:

Join the club. Wee Isa is so loveable I can't convey her loveability in words or gestures. As for Tone, Sarah must've been shaking with rage at the in-her-face flirting between Izzy and the T-bone. We saw him walking out of uni today and his limp was outrageous; outrageously sexual to Sarah, obvza.

Comm law, with a young lady loitering near him with the intent to swoon. She had to rush off to sit astride some less sexually electric individuals.

Tony, Tony, Tony, Tony, Tony etc
That's all that's been going through my mind for weeks; I feel like Sarah.


It really is so brilliant not having to think about commercial law etc. The questions on everyone's lips are: do we still have Bri "tight-buns" Pillans; and is Tone "sex-'tache" Dog still in our class? Please let the answers be in the affirmative.


You should've collared this Tone impostor, although understand that you would've had to make passionate love to him due to his resemblance to "Señor sweet cheeks" (your name for him, not mine)

The top dog in CSI is called Gil, so it couldn't be him. Fat Gill perhaps? Tone's lips would purse with glee at my mural to him. Or would he attempt suicide (again) due to our secret bullying of him? Let's show him and find out.

Guys I had a mustache and given that I have a crush on a girl called Sarah and i limp and there is no other Anthony or Tonys in the class I can only assume they are about me/

There are other comments, but please, spare me.

Sarah told me she doesnt have a Bebo account actually she does. She has been nice to me, but given the evidence I cant trust for cetain. I personally thinbk she was nice to me because she felt sorry for me, and now that the gimp has saw fit to question her charity, shes feeling indignant.

I dont know what the fuck to do. Please advise totse.

Don't let it get to you mate. ;)

Are those quotes sarcastic? If so, than am I the only one getting that sarah was really into you?

That doesn't seem like the thing that I would file a police report for. If they're pissing you off, then DoS them. this is the internet we're talking here.

I would apologise to sarah, say that you weren't accusing her and that you are sure she'd never do anything like that to you. Keep in mind that are already rejected, however.

Of course the comments were sarcastic. Sarah did take the time to talk to me, and get to know me, but she has a 5 year old son and lives with the father. Go figure.

Actually yes, the comments were the reason i filed the report or at least partially. I wanted to cover my back in case anything more serious occured. After all, if they can be as cruel as to mock someone with a disability behidn their back, who can say what else they might do?

I only filed the police report asa a deterrent mechanism, hoping that faced with the stark reality of the situation they would back down.

Ive tried to apologise to Sarah, but she just isnt listening.

I never wanted a relationship with her, I knew i couldnt make her happy.

jesus christ bitch more

oh boo fucking hoo someone said something mean about me

GROW THE FUCK UP

Existence: been fucking assholes hard and long since the Big Bang.

Of course the comments were sarcastic. Sarah did take the time to talk to me, and get to know me, but she has a 5 year old son and lives with the father. Go figure.

Move along.

People are morons. You've got to just write them off when they do nasty shit like that. There's hardly a shortage of people in this world for you to meet.