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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-04-17, 19:56
BlasphemousExistentialist BlasphemousExistentialist is offline
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Default Need some advice on this situation...

This may sound petty, but my boyfriend has been so blatantly flirting with another girl I know. I told him that it's bothering me and asked him to stop. Because of it, he called me a jerk, and keeps avoiding what I have to say or trying to joke about it. Each joke he makes hurts more and more and every day that passes makes me unsure of my feelings about him.

We've been going out for 1 and a half years now.

I would like to know if it was too unreasonable for me to ask him to stop.

What should I do in this situation...any advice?
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Old 2007-04-17, 20:31
Ojise Ojise is offline
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Default Re: Need some advice on this situation...

You don't deserve to feel that way. You should say something.

In my experience, if you hold it in eventually you kinda explode out of nowhere which makes you seem irrational and kind of crazy.

You should tell him, but definitely calmly and when it is appropriate
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Old 2007-04-17, 20:35
theif theif is offline
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Default Re: Need some advice on this situation...

Just keep telling him a few times and if he calls you a jerk, give him and ultimatum.
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Old 2007-04-17, 20:40
benneh benneh is offline
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Default Re: Need some advice on this situation...

yeah, i what he said. definutly talk to him about it, and is hes an ass about it, then tell him to fuck off. theres no way he should treat you like that. dont not talk about it, cos my ex broke up with me last night (2 and a half year relationship, i fucking adored her) because we didnt talk at all.
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Old 2007-04-17, 21:06
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Default Re: Need some advice on this situation...

Tell him straight. Don't beat around the bush and he should get the message. If you have been going out for a year and a half he could be getting bored of you, you should try new things with him.

And no, it was reasonable to ask him to stop. After all hes supposed to be yours. He might not think your reasonable though, tell him it's out of order and it makes you upset.

Men, ae?
 
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