i proposed to my girl frined yesterday, she said yes
i then said lets go fuck, then she said '' well ive always wanted to not have sex after being proposed to until after we get married''

is she trying to trap and use me?

wtf do i do?

danmega im not trolling

Give her the belt.

Hey mate, at least she has guaranteed you sex while you are married.

but i think she is thinking well now i have him i dont have to give sex, her "thing" might all be a ploy.

Dump that bitch.

That being said, this should probably go in S&A.

Yes you are in a bind.


Perhaps if you really were ready to get married you would have known that. It is a very odd thing to say in fact i dont think i can remember hearing anyone do that.

She sounds like a user and now that she knows she has this power over you
(ie: you being in love with her... well i am assuming you are. Either that or you have a dislike for condoms), And now that she has this power over you she is using you as she sees fit. Sex was what she used to use to control you and now she no longer has to .


Or maybe she is one of these closet Christians that secretly feels that they have to compromise their life a little as they havent followed much of the good book this far

It won't last...

You could say that you want to wait a year or so... see what she says...