everything about virginity as been talked the fuck out of in this forum, but my opiate induced musing left me with a question-

did losing your virginity change you at all?

did you chill out, become a sex crazed maniac, just (to quote that other virginity thread) say "Alright, that was enjoyable. Cool. See ya." or maybe catch a life altering STD (that would be a bitch..)?

EDIT: or just have sex that somehow changed you/your life?

discuss.

You'll never lose it, so don't worry about it.

Made me feel like a big hairy man.

feels good but it doesnt change you. You just have the title [not a fucking loser]

just kidding but yeah its something american 13 year old virgins worry about.

hehehe *nods*

Its a big thing till after you lose it then its like umm why did i really care so much.

Even though it wasn't particularly special, I was still buzzing for a while thing "Oh yeah.. I just got laid"

In certain respects I now have more confidence with women and ever since I've been getting laid fairly regularly. First had sex in September, have had three girls I've slept with since then.

The more you have it, the more you want it though.

My first time was awkward, drunk and disappointing, but this was good in a way because it took away a lot of my illusions about sex. I'd built it up in my mind to be this huge mythical secret of life or some shit, and afterward I realized how absurd this was and that sex was just this natural, human thing. And I remember getting a huge surge of self-esteem afterward and being way less nervous around girls...I felt like more of a man.

My first time I was nervous and kind of avoided the bang, after that I was banging like chuck norris fights.

On a softer note one of my highschool buddies and his girlfriend were both virgins their senior year. (not to mention her dad was his chemistry teacher) They tried the bang... needless to say he knocked her up. Haha

That's got to suck. With that one bang that left him with a 100% chance of impregnation during sex..... That's gottah be a real ball buster

QFT You are still just you. And its not a big deal after, well not for me it wasn't. I kept expecting it to hit me, but it never has; however, now I can answer no I'm not a virgin.

Im still a virgin. at 19!

I lost it at 16 with a girl i loved so went pretty good.. n it definetly destroyed all these preconceptions about sex being some esoteric concept. though the main thing was I had sex about 2 years before the rest of my mates which definetly made me feel like hot shit:P

I'm 18 and I haven't had sex. I don't think it will change me too much. At risk of sounding like a pussy, I'd really rather it be with someone I cared for. It just seems like something that would be a lot more enjoyable with somebody you were emotionally comfortable with. I've passed up more than one opportunity for this reason and I don't regret it.

I'm still a virgin no guy has fucked me in the ass :) If your talking about if I fucked some girls its just well doesn't really change your life. A few of my friends are sex addicts though and its hurting there lifes.

qft.

My first time was awkward, drunk and disappointing, but this was good in a way because it took away a lot of my illusions about sex. I'd built it up in my mind to be this huge mythical secret of life or some shit, and afterward I realized how absurd this was and that sex was just this natural, human thing.

also qft.

Even though it wasn't particularly special, I was still buzzing for a while thing "Oh yeah.. I just got laid"

qft again.

QFT You are still just you. And its not a big deal after, well not for me it wasn't. I kept expecting it to hit me, but it never has; however, now I can answer no I'm not a virgin

yup.

you know how the lack thereof has changed me?

i'm currently afraid that she got pregnant.

past that, i'm about the same.

It changed me.

I had built it up to some great and powerful idealistic fantasy. And I got it pretty much the way i wanted it, but I realized it was overrated. I look at sex a lot more casually now. And I dont look down on girls that I would have passed off as whores before.