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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-04-17, 01:58
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Default Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

I mean, obviously, I don't want middle school kids banging each other in the middle of social studies class and getting preggers but the way that some people carry on about preserving virginity kind of pisses me off.

If sex wasn't made out to be such a big damn deal, it wouldn't be such a big goddamn deal, you know? Like for the French, for example. Sex is just sex. It's not like "OMFG, we had sex!! I'm a slut, oh no!!" It's : "Alright, that was enjoyable. Cool. See ya."

...Although, they do say those who have more sex partners don't live as long as those who only screw around with a few. That rhymed.

What do you think?
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Old 2007-04-17, 02:10
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Well, if I could get a vysectomy (spelling?) at age 15 and was immune to STD's, then I would be having sex every day. But... that is not going to come true so I am putting virginity back on my pedestal.
 #3 
Old 2007-04-17, 02:10
plehem12 plehem12 is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

it is overhyped. but if it was just "another thing" like you said how the french think of it, then i think that would take all the fun out of it. but it would save a lot of trouble, and prevent a lot of drama and other misc. bullshit.

i guess like most other things, its either overhyped or underhyped. a happy medium is just a fantasy. that being said, with sex id rather it stay overhyped like it is, its more fun (for those who can get it anyway)

edit: also, that last thing you said "you know what they say.." is that true? whats the reason?
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Old 2007-04-17, 02:43
FreakerSoup FreakerSoup is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

I think it should have a nice big pedestal. 'Cause without that, people do some very stupid things with very stupid people.
 #5 
Old 2007-04-17, 03:13
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Sex is usually a big deal for those who havn't done it. Usually......
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Old 2007-04-17, 03:53
CatharticWeek CatharticWeek is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

It depends on the person. Some people just don't care about sex, and good for them. It's a bit of a hastle.
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Old 2007-04-17, 07:09
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

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Originally Posted by romaniw
I mean, obviously, I don't want middle school kids banging each other in the middle of social studies class and getting preggers but the way that some people carry on about preserving virginity kind of pisses me off.

If sex wasn't made out to be such a big damn deal, it wouldn't be such a big goddamn deal, you know? Like for the French, for example. Sex is just sex. It's not like "OMFG, we had sex!! I'm a slut, oh no!!" It's : "Alright, that was enjoyable. Cool. See ya."

...Although, they do say those who have more sex partners don't live as long as those who only screw around with a few. That rhymed.

What do you think?


Virgin, much?

:P

Just kidding, actually personally I think virginity is far more important than is commonly held in these Fem-Nazi days.
 #8 
Old 2007-04-17, 08:50
B-Phaze B-Phaze is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Nah, I don't mind making a big deal out of sex, it's fine by me.

And I wanna know these French chicks of which you speak.
 #9 
Old 2007-04-17, 10:56
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

We don't come out of the womb already experienced in that department just as we don't come out of the womb experienced in any department. It's not a big deal in the sense people generally make it out to be: "zomg, you'll lose your pureness", but I do think it's obvious that if early sexual experiences aren't good, they can have psychological repercussions.
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Old 2007-04-17, 11:05
Balroken Balroken is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Its not the sex itself its the mental damage you do to yourself, or more likly to someone else because you listened to your dick not your head. Virginity is heald up on a pedastill because if your going to marry someone you would like to think that they haven't fucked a 100 people before "Bonding" with you, but in these days its pretty rare.
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Old 2007-04-17, 11:13
pisstest420 pisstest420 is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

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Originally Posted by Balroken
Its not the sex itself its the mental damage you do to yourself, or more likly to someone else because you listened to your dick not your head. Virginity is heald up on a pedastill because if your going to marry someone you would like to think that they haven't fucked a 100 people before "Bonding" with you, but in these days its pretty rare.


I think you hit the nail on the head.
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Old 2007-04-17, 17:55
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

I refuse to believe that humans are in any way superior to other animals. And other animals don't worry about losing their virginity. In my opinion, sex is completely natural, and therefore it shouldn't be something we're afraid of. I never put my virginity on a pedestal. In fact, I was desperate to lose it as soon as I was old enough to understand what sex was. I was a horny kid, lol.
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Old 2007-04-17, 17:57
StealthyRacoons StealthyRacoons is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

We just need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Its not that big of a deal, its just pussy.
 #14 
Old 2007-04-18, 01:30
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Atlanta GA
Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Virgin, much?

:P

Just kidding, actually personally I think virginity is far more important than is commonly held in these Fem-Nazi days.

No, I mean, I was just thinking about how disillusioned I felt after I lost my virginity. Girls shouldn't have to go through that, just because people tell them that have to be "pure". If I hadn't been constantly told that a woman should be pure until marriage, or a woman should be modest and NOT a "slut", or all those things, I might have felt a little less guilt overall. Guilt is a horrible thing. But therapy is super.
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Old 2007-04-18, 02:31
Ballin Ballin is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

you are not an african american comedian, therefore you should not be using the word "pedestal" in reference to anything sexual. gtfo towsi
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Old 2007-04-18, 03:15
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

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Originally Posted by Lt_Flippy
Well, if I could get a vysectomy (spelling?) at age 15 and was immune to STD's, then I would be having sex every day. But... that is not going to come true so I am putting virginity back on my pedestal.


STFU/GTFO
 #17 
Old 2007-04-18, 03:50
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

STFU/GTFO
Go fuck yourself
 #18 
Old 2007-04-18, 04:00
BOMBS OVER BEIRUT BOMBS OVER BEIRUT is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

I don't think it's overhyped, solely because we live in a world where STDs and ignorance reign supreme.
 #19 
Old 2007-04-18, 04:10
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

I blame the Christofascists.
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Old 2007-04-18, 06:03
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

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Originally Posted by BOMBS OVER BEIRUT
I don't think it's overhyped, solely because we live in a world where STDs and ignorance reign supreme.

^Yeah^
 #21 
Old 2007-04-18, 07:29
StealthyRacoons StealthyRacoons is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

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Originally Posted by Ballin
you are not an african american comedian, therefore you should not be using the word "pedestal" in reference to anything sexual. gtfo towsi


And your sub consciously racist. According to Al sharpton you shouldn't have freedom of speech
 #22 
Old 2007-04-18, 13:17
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Quote:
Originally Posted by Balroken
Its not the sex itself its the mental damage you do to yourself, or more likly to someone else because you listened to your dick not your head. Virginity is heald up on a pedastill because if your going to marry someone you would like to think that they haven't fucked a 100 people before "Bonding" with you, but in these days its pretty rare.


Technically they did use their head...

</Tacky Joke>

<=(
 #23 
Old 2007-04-18, 14:07
Balroken Balroken is offline
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Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Technically they did use their head...

</Tacky Joke>

<=(

:o i see how it is >.>
 #24 
Old 2007-04-19, 17:05
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The fine line between genius and madness
Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Like for the French, for example. Sex is just sex. It's not like "OMFG, we had sex!! I'm a slut, oh no!!" It's : "Alright, that was enjoyable. Cool. See ya."

I've got to get my ass to France, and the hairy armpits be damned.
 #25 
Old 2007-04-19, 20:16
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MI
Default Re: Do you think virginity should stopped being held up on pedestal?

Go fuck yourself

Ohhhh good one. Just by your first pussy comment I can tell you've never had any type of contact with the opposite sex. But then again 15 year olds are smarter than everyone else so what do I know.
 
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