Okay, I'm 16, in high school yadda yadda, and of course everyone knows with high school comes high school parties, where guys and girls just get absolutely smashed(sometimes throw up), and hit it off with each other. Now, I don't drink... I haven't for almost 3 years, and I smoke weed maybe once every couple of months... all my friends have accepted that, it's not big deal, I'll go to parties, chill out, talk to people and it will be good. I won't be drunk or high though.

Now when it comes to getting with these girls, it happens every once and a while when I'm not drunk/high. But last night, I decided to get a little baked, and I guess when I walked in all my chick friends new I was stoned. And right away they were all friendly towards me, and I was sitting on the computer about to change the song, and one of the girls comes and sits on my lap, then another does. I end up hooking up with this hot chick later that night with no problem at all. Basically what i"m trying to say is that girls approached me when I was intoxicated, rather then the other way around when I'm sober.


Is it a turn on or what when a guy who usually doesn't smoke weed, gets baked?

Can someone explain the psycology behind this?

Ps, sorry if some of it doesn't make sense, I'm a little tired from last night.

Alot of highschool chicas are attracted to guys who do drugs, because they like "bad boys". Either that or they just want you to hook them up with some weed...

no no, first I never have bought my own weed. I have plenty of friends that are potheads, and will always share. All my friends know that... and they know I smoke every once in a while, but when I actually did, they were all over me.

Man, all I can is go for it. Get stoned more often and get off with hot chicks, it's hella fun.

Maybe your a cooler person high than you are normally.
Like your funnier, better personality.
Thats always how I am.
Everybody loves me when I'm high

Would you ever hook up with a sober girl when you are drunk? Like approach them and everything? No, probably not, they are doing it beacuse you are both in the same boat.

All the anwsers so far are dead on wrong. I know a couple guys like this, dont smoke that much or drink, and are fairly shy, so girls think its 'cute' when they get fucked up. Do it to much, and they wont react as strongly.

Happened again! I got baked last night, and ended up hooking up with these two hot girls!

So what have you learned from this?
Smoke more pot, of course!

Would you ever hook up with a sober girl when you are drunk? Like approach them and everything? No, probably not

You sure about that one?

Drunk girls is EASY. 'Nough said.

Youre probably more easy going/chilled/approachable when drunk or high. Use to your advantage but don't do it too much or it'll lose its effect. Cool, though. I'm just a lot more confident when a bit drunk, so it helps me, but in a different way. :\

Thats the correct answer from my own experience, now I smoke daily and nobody thinks its that cool anymore. They all accepted I get high everyday and do drugsa ll the time and it nolonger helps me score....unless I get some coke or something...

Holy shit when I smoke weed I become this reclusive social outcast. That's why I drink. I never EVER smoke weed.

Last time I got stoned, I lost out on a chance to fuck because I couldn't even fucking talk. The chick kept trying to talk to me,.. but I was all like "omg can';t talk 2 fukt sry".

Damn that sounds like me. Except for the not ever smoking weed part.

and 9 times out of 10 its for the latter of the two, unfortuanately

Nah, I'm quite unattractive to a lot of girls around me for the reasons that I get way too drunk, way too stoned all the time. I'm a proper student.

When I went off drinking, they found me much more open and approachable. Eventually drinking won out though.

alcohol and/or weed > women