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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-04-15, 08:14
i11uminati i11uminati is offline
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Default Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

Ok, so this is something that is confusing the shit out of me. There's a girl; I've known her for a little over a year. We used to work together, and after I quit that job, we ended up dating for a couple months. Things didn't really work out, so we broke up but remained friends.

We have a strange relationship. It's almost like we're dating, but we aren't. We can pretty much talk to each other about anything, and if we both aren't with other people at the time, we'll hook up. However, the sex part has pretty been nonexistant in the past few months.

Tonight she came over, and for whatever reason we ended up having sex. It was fine, until for whatever reason she started crying. I tried to ask her what was wrong without prying too much, but she just told me she didn't know. I ended up taking her home right away.

Does anyone have any idea what might make someone act this way?
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Old 2007-04-15, 08:25
Ax Demon Ax Demon is offline
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Default Re: Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

I'm pretty sure that she's suddenly realized there's a void in her life, and she now longs for a meaningful relationship, not just sex. Though whether she wants a meaningful relationship with you is uncertain, and probably up to you.
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Old 2007-04-15, 11:50
dark-easterbunny dark-easterbunny is offline
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Default Re: Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

in my experience, if a girl start to cry durin sex, you ask what's wrong ONCE. If they say they don't know........and believe me this is 90% of the time the answer, just be understandin, that it happens to everyone, and don't worry. You think when it happens, ohw shit, but it DOES happen quite often to females. If you don't ask to annoyin questions and be understandin, 10 min later you can be havin sex again, and i know a few ladies gonna say this is bull. But experience tells me otherwise
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Old 2007-04-15, 12:51
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Default Re: Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

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Originally Posted by Ax Demon
I'm pretty sure that she's suddenly realized there's a void in her life, and she now longs for a meaningful relationship, not just sex. Though whether she wants a meaningful relationship with you is uncertain, and probably up to you.


Wise words.

Do you want a relationship with this girl?
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Old 2007-04-15, 16:24
i11uminati i11uminati is offline
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Default Re: Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

I took her home because she asked me to. As for a relationship with her, I would definately try that whole thing again with her if she was ready for it.
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Old 2007-04-15, 16:42
Eye_Of_The_Watcher Eye_Of_The_Watcher is offline
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Default Re: Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

Life is overwhelming her. She doesn't know what to do and is just doing what see feels is comforting. In other words, you're a comfort to her.
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Old 2007-04-15, 21:18
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Default Re: Can someone help me figure out what she's thinking?

Snuggle her, feed her icecream. Make her feel good. All that shit.
 
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