Well, Im pretty sure I like my best friend(Dont worry shes a chick).
And I dont wanna tell her because I dont wanna Fuck everything up.
What the hell do I do Totse?

if she likes you you're welcome to do what ever you want. either way you'll lose a good friend, not all BF/GF relationships lasts.

someone posted what happened to him because of this here in SA. I think its called 'how I lost a friend". its a few threads down. just read that, just to see how it went wrong, and I mean wrong.

so yeah...if I were you I wouldn't do it, and I have been through your situation, and kind of still are. but I rather keep her as a friends although I am 100% sure she liked/likes me.

Just read that... He didnt really seem confident. Im sure ill get over her eventually I guess.
Its just when Im around her, I get this feeling and I never want it to stop.

If this is your best friend, then im assuming you have known each other for quite some time. Do you think its wise to risk your friendship? Would things be akward between you guys if you were together - I sure as hell know that if I was to 'be with' my best guy mate then it would be very weird for me - he's like a brother!

Well ive known her since 2nd grade (Im a freshman)
But we didnt really get close till last year.

Well ive known her since 2nd grade (Im a freshman)
But we didnt really get close till last year.

I'm not american, but that sounds like a long time :p

Do you think she feels the same at all?

Pretty much describes my feelings for her.



What's the deal with my brain?
Why am I so obviously insane?
In a perfect situation
I let love down the drain.
There's the pitch, slow and straight.
All I have to do is swing
and I'm a hero, but I'm a zero.

Hungry nights, once again
Now it's getting unbelievable.
'Cause I could not have it better,
But I just can't get no play
From the girls, all around
As they search the night for someone to hold onto.
And I just pass through...



Get your hands off the girl,
Can't you see that she belongs to me?
And I don't appreciate this excess company.
Though I can't satisfy all the needs she has
And so she starts to wander...
Can you blame her?


Tell me there's a logic out there.
Leading me to better prepare
For the day that something really special might come.
Tell me there's some hope for me.
I don't wanna be lonely
For the rest of my days on the earth.

I'm not american, but that sounds like a long time :p

Do you think she feels the same at all?

Its hard to tell. At peoples houses and crap were always all over each other.

its pretty hard for us to decide for you in such a risky situation the way I see it, because your long friendship is at jeopardy here if you decide to do it.

I think in this case you must decide if you want to pull this off, keeping in mind the high price that you would pay if things go wrong. I really don't know what to tell you because real love is not something that you can go get advice of and forget about it.

if you really feel that way, then try to go slowly on her and the whole situation. but I THINK that she looks as you as a great/best friend or brother than a lover, but who am I to say this since I don't know here or seen her. so this is pretty much for you to decide.

Aww fuck I hate this whole "Love" thing.
Oh and by the way pics
Me: http://preview.tinyurl.com/2ofaj6
Her:http://preview.tinyurl.com/2pbgf7
Shes in the i <3 DC shirt
Thats my house BTW well my backyard.

Aww fuck I hate this whole "Love" thing.
well isn't that the way you feel about her? or instead of love you feel lust?

I know a lot of people confuse lust and love and ruin a good relationship.

Im pretty sure its not lust.... I mean I dont want to just get into her pants.
Shes one of the nicest girls i know

Anyone?

sorry man, but I think in this case you are gonna have to decide on your own. don't get me wrong I don't mean to sound harsh? you got advice and you are informed of the possible outcomes if you decide to go all the way. I think this is one of the things that only you understand since you are the one who's going through all of these.

just know that if you tell her and try to have a relationship other than friendship your will lose her as a friend, even if it works out or not.

Good call dude,
I guess ill get over her.
Itll just take a while.
Mods feel free to close this

Can you 2 step? That makes all the difference in the world.

Leave it alone man, it's hard to come by best friends for a long time that aren't flodgy.

You just made me realize something, thanks.