So, I single handedly destroyed her life. All but one of her friends (most of them were guys that were faking friendship to try and get close) quit talking to her when I let them all know she had HPV. The guy she was trying to go out with said he wanted nothing to do with her anymore. I cleaned out her photobucket page...deleted over 15 years worth of photographs she no longer had on her computer. Ruined her reputation. And overnight, 800 viewers saw more than 20 pictures of her getting undressed and bleeding.

Sure, she did me wrong...but totse, I went overboard. My conscience kicked in when I talked to her on the phone a few minutes ago; she was crying, saying I had ruined her life, and how none of her friends wanted to talk to her anymore. I had just wanted to hurt her...not trap her in a fucking corner where suicide becomes a viable option.

She was talking crazy as hell, talking about just driving 'somewhere'...which in her lingo, means going out of State to off herself away from her family. I went WAY past revenge...she broke my heart...I fucked her entire future up with a fucking 'submit' button.

I guess I owned her, severely...much more so than I wanted to. What the fuck could I possibly say to her to apologize for something like this? What the fuck could I possibly do to make amends in this situation? Should I bullshit and lie to her friends, saying those were 'private' photos and that I made all the shit up? I seriously feel bad about this...she's fucking suicidal right now.

All those people saw those pics, so there really isn't much that you can do about that. All I think that you can do is apologize, and that you took it overboard. You were justing trying to get back at her for cheating on you.

I don't think you can do anything more than that.

You're a bad bad man... a bad, bad, bad, bad man.

I cannot suggest anything. You are right, there is nothing you can do. You better damn tell her friends you were being a dick and lying.. and you should definitely buy her something.

Man you're a bad. You sound like you would be an ex boyfriend who would murder her ex girlfriend.

Stop the whole if I cant have her no one will. Even though you might not consciously be thinking that... is that not what you did to her?

So you're the proof you know that. You know how boys have irrational fears that a girl is going to cry rape... you are the proof for irrational fears that an ex if just going to kill his former girlfriend.

I don't mean to be so mean. You're probably a good guy. I contemplate not posting this. It's just you've made yourself so low.

May I ask what she did to you to deserve this? Maybe it's possible you are somewhat justified

Heh, I bet she's 90% trying to get some attention with suicide....without killing herself, of course.

Other 10% is the chance of her being dumb bitch and accidently slipped the razor too deep.

Wow, totally fucking owned. That's the problem with revenge -- it's always either not enough or too much.

Anyhow, I don't see any possible way for you to take back what you did, except talk to her and try to convince her to not kill herself.

That's what I tried to do. I convinced her to call up the friend that didn't abandon her, and go over there to talk to her. Jesus Christ...I didn't know that many of her 'friends' were just in it to try and get some pussy. Apparently, neither did she.

I abused vengeance and destroyed her life in less than 12 hours...if there is a hell, I'm going there.

We were together for half a year, she was cheating. And no, cheating on someone does not justify this level of devastation. I went far beyond what I intended, and have pushed her into suicide mode. At the worst, I was expecting one or two friends to drop her, and her to be really hurt for a few weeks...I didn't think her entire social circle was going to let her go over this.

I don't really care.

You feel bad at the moment because you fear for her safety to an extent. That will pass.

If you insist on contacting her, then simply tell her that your state of mind made you take things too far which you partially regret now but she still shouldn't have cheated.

Sure, you were in the wrong... but you havent killed anybody. You havent raped anybody. You havent attempted genocide and no kittens were hurt in the whole ordeal.

You don't understand...she's a bit fucked in the head. Normal shit doesn't work. I like crazy women for the extra excitement...and damn was there plenty...but right now, I don't know how to fucking manage a fucking borderline that just had her entire social circle and most of her life's memories ripped away from her overnight.

Life's a bitch. And its bitch you're free of.

If she was to top herself, obviously you would feel responsible... but it's not like you killed her dog and force fed her family the entrails while she was tied up in the corner being fingered by a midget with lepracy.

DO NOT GET TRAPPED IN HER TRAP. SHE IS A WOMAN, THEREFORE SHE IS MANIPULATIVE AND EVIL.



Now we've got that sorted, Dont feel guilty for any of her actions, okay?!?

You got reasonable revenge against a disgusting whore who cheated on you and selfishly almost risked infecting you.


It's not like you're forcing her to do anything. You're not holding a gun to her head.

She chose to do all the shit she did, now she must live with the consequences.


Forget about the fucking skank, She's out of your life.

For good.

You don't understand...she's a bit fucked in the head. Normal shit doesn't work. I like crazy women for the extra excitement...and damn was there plenty...but right now, I don't know how to fucking manage a fucking borderline that just had her entire social circle and most of her life's memories ripped away from her overnight.



From the sound of it her 'social circle' were a bunch of guys who wanted to fuck her, and as for her 'lifes memories' if she was so fucking stupid she hadnt saved them on her computer yet thought that a sight as unreliable as photobucket was fine, then she cant care that much about them anyway.


She's doing this to try and fuck with you. Trying to one up the revenge you got on her.
Dont let it work.

Even if she tops herself, it's not your fault, not your problem. Dont dwell on it.

Even if she tops herself, it's not your fault, not your problem. Dont dwell on it.
Sound advise which is pointless even thinking... how couldnt you dwell on it, being in the same situation, bek?

Do what Yoyo said, she's right.

She cheated, which in my eyes is a complete betrayal of trust. What you did was a little extensive, a bit to far, but, fuck it. Not much you can do now eh? And she wont kill herself btw, thats just an attention ploy.

I have to disagree with most of you.

Men don't take revenge on women they have slept with....well not beyond sending her a beautiful bouquet of flowers and a handwritten note thanking her for all the good times.

All you've done is cheapen yourself and lowered yourself to her level.

Dude...I tried to get her 'friends' to call her. She's not exaggerating any of this shit. She is a manipulative cunt and everything, but she turned to me in a desperate attempt for help. She didn't even question what I told her to do (I probably could have gotten laid, but I think I've done well more than enough damage). She's on the way over to the friend's house (her only female friend, btw).

And no worries for her 'getting me back'. And short of cutting off my penis or my hands, nothing matches up to what I did to her.

This is a serious situation...she's almost always stuck on internal dialog, and she is externalizing EVERYTHING. If I offered to do something for her, she couldn't make up her mind. If I told her to do something though, she did it without the slightest question...I don't know if it's because she's afraid of me, or what...but she has NEVER been like that.

Alright...I'm not gonna lie, I'm still thinking about calling her up and telling her to come over and fuck me (with how she's acting, she would). That'd be the Abaddon Cherry to top the Devil's Food cake, though...not conducive to the situation.

Yeah, I understand that. I already did the damage though, so there is no fixing that. What's fucking crazy, was up until I posted those pictures and let the internet (read: world) know she had VD, she was going to try and get back together with me...well, she's still going to try, as is her behavior, but she's saying she can't even be friends with me now. LMFAO...god, now I see why I love this girl...she's the craziest bitch I've ever met (with a home, that is).

Jack, bestow upon me your wisdom. I will her safety, foremost...and her obsessive want for my dick, second. Where there is a will, there is a way...what path am I to travel?

Yeah, I understand that. I already did the damage though, so there is no fixing that. What's fucking crazy, was up until I posted those pictures and let the internet (read: world) know she had VD, she was going to try and get back together with me...well, she's still going to try, as is her behavior, but she's saying she can't even be friends with me now. LMFAO...god, now I see why I love this girl...she's the craziest bitch I've ever met (with a home, that is).

Jack, bestow upon me your wisdom. I will her safety, foremost...and her obsessive want for my dick, second. Where there is a will, there is a way...what path am I to travel?

Your first and only duty right this minute is to ensure she does herself no harm.

What that might entail i can't say from this distance but ensuring she stays with people who will watch over her is probably the best way.

Which , if I have read your post right, is what you've done.

More you can't and shouldn't do.

And also remember that while you have a duty, especially in this case, to try and prevent her topping herself , that in the final instant you are not your sister's keeper.

Ok...thats the advice you should follow and the advice I am supposed to give you.

Personally, If I loved her and I stress this is just my way, i'd drive over there, put her sorry mixed up arse over my knee and then make love to her.

Your first and only duty right this minute is to ensure she does herself no harm.

What that might entail i can't say from this distance but ensuring she stays with people who will watch over her is probably the best way.

Which , if I have read your post right, is what you've done.

More you can't and shouldn't do.

And also remember that while you have a duty, especially in this case, to try and prevent her topping herself , that in the final instant you are not your sister's keeper.

Ok...thats the advice you should follow and the advice I am supposed to give you.

Personally, If I loved her and I stress this is just my way, i'd drive over there, put her sorry mixed up arse over my knee and then make love to her.

You know...that actually sounds like a valid action.

To me cheating is one of the worst things you can do. She had all this stuff coming to her the moment she cheated on you. If my gf did that to me I would probably do all that and them some. Don't feel bad about what you did, what goes around comes around and she got exactly what was coming to her.

You know...that actually sounds like a valid action.

Very very likely, it usually is.

However I must advise AGAINST doing it.

Firstly it can go horribly wrong (she calls the cops, stabs you or tops herself as a result).

Or maybe even worse it could go right, and leaves her even more emotionally bound to you than before. If you aren't totally sure you love her then that is soul destroying for you both.

The minute you put her over your knee and she has accepted your 'right' to do it (assuming she's not a kink) then you've basically made her your 'wife'...in terms of the bond then between you.

Its very deep dark 'magic' on the hard wired side of her limbic.

Very very likely, it usually is.

However I must advise AGAINST doing it.

Firstly it can go horribly wrong (she calls the cops, stabs you or tops herself as a result).

Or maybe even worse it could go right, and leaves her even more emotionally bound to you than before. If you aren't totally sure you love her then that is soul destroying for you both.

The minute you put her over your knee and she has accepted your 'right' to do it (assuming she's not a kink) then you've basically made her your 'wife'...in terms of the bond then between you.

Its very deep dark 'magic' on the hard wired side of her limbic.

Yeah...she's a lying whore, almost as manipulative as I can be, and totally fucking insane...so yes, I love her and would want her as my wife. And this isn't sarcastic.

Edit: I am 100% sure I love her. Nobody has EVER gotten close enough to me before to hurt me to the point I want revenge, and then go ten extra miles into destroying their life.

Yeah...she's a lying whore, almost as manipulative as I can be, and totally fucking insane...so yes, I love her and would want her as my wife. And this isn't sarcastic.

Edit: I am 100% sure I love her. Nobody has EVER gotten close enough to me before to hurt me to the point I want revenge, and then go ten extra miles into destroying their life.

That sure makes sense..............

That sure makes sense..............

It makes as much sense as I care to make.

jack, a development. I told the friend she's with that I was coming over. She told me not to. What the fuck now? Am I to listen to this? Or am I to throw caution, reason, rationale, logic, and all forms of good sense to the wind and risk getting shanked for this shit?

Goddamn, just leave well enough alone and move on.


And if you want a lying, cheating whore as your wife, then..



Nothing else to say, really.

It'll keep the fights exciting. Bigger fights = bigger make up sex.

I completely agree with yoyo. stop talking to her. stop being so weak. If anything you should have hurt her more for cheating on you. DONT GO BACK TO HER.

She got ahold of your nuts already! It's creeping into your mind....resist it now, motherfucker. Don't ever get near that bitch, buit if you do see her...


RUN for your life, just fucking run.

Where's the pics?

I have to agree with Jack. Coming from someone who is an extremely vengeful person, you need to learn to control yourself (for the future, too late now lol). Revenge might feel good at the time, but hurting someone that you have and possibly still love tends to come back and hurt you just as much.

I didn't read your first thread, but from what you said here, she broke your heart - and ya, that hurts pretty bad, espeically if it was broken with malice.

There's nothing you can do for her now, your've done it, and now you have to deal with the karma (if of course, you believe in that). Don't go back to her, and don't bother contacting her - just let her be. You obviously wanted her out of your life, so keep it that way.

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Dude, you did her a fucking favor. You exposed all her fake friends. You extracted yourself from her life. And furthermore, you forced her to stop lying to herself.

Leave her alone. Tell her that it's best if you never see/speak to her again. And that she needs to do something decent with her life, although if she's anything but a complete halfwit she'll have figured that out by now.

Don't try to fix what you did. You did it, it's done, the damage is done, blah blah blah, soon enough everyone will be clam-happy again.

Once more, you did her a favor. Who the fuck wants a bunch of friends that only want pussy anyway?

Holy shit, man. I'm not trying and making you feel bad, but thats a bit harsh. And by a bit, I mean I just slept with your mother, sister, cousin, aunt, and comatose grandmother, and filmed it and put it on sale for 12.99 plus shipping and handling harsh All you can do is apologize, try and make up for it, and hope that you avoid a bit of the negative energy thats headed your way.

It just goes to show how easily peoples attitudes toward someone can change just like that over the correct amount of believability and a few incriminating pictures. Granted, they were true in her case. But don't we all hide something in our lives, to some extent? Granted again, hers was a bit extreme. /rant

Care to fill me in on the whole shebang? If not, I fully understand, whats private is private

AIM: Ninjacoffin.

Oh, and send your girlfriends AIM my way, if she has one, after we've talked for a bit and/if you trust me enough. I have a way of making people feel a bit better, and have stopped a good friend of mine from committing suicide (indirectly, but still). If shes way over the breaking point, I'm no professional and I'd probably just make things worse. Seek help from a therapist or psychiatrist, and hope man.

Also, When the fuck did Yoyobek become a mod?

Well was all the stuff you said about her true or were you just lying to hurt her?

I think you should leave her alone...Someone as vindictive as you shouldn't have a girlfriend.

Also, When the fuck did Yoyobek become a mod?

About a week a go when sambob and NC petitioned Root to make her one.

I'm sorry if Jeff forgot to consult you beforehand :P

She is a manipulative cunt...she's a lying whore....

Shes extremely manipulative.....shes making you feel sorry for her and making you give her attention. SHES FUCKING MANIPULATING YOU. Sorry to type so loud but she obviously is. By the way, it'd be a good idea not to take any of my advice because I'm quite an ass hole. But my advice that you shouldn't take) is to cut all communication with her for at least 3 days. Maybe even more, it'll let her think about whatever she wants and if she decides to off herself then that is her decision and you didn't force her to do that, you exposed her friends and took your revenge (and damn you're good at it, 24 hours and shes fucked, thats good :) well done) and it was a bit extreme but i bet she wont cheat on anyone again. And also the 3 days will give you all space to think and obviously a lot of thinking will happen. You have no power over her will to kill herself, she can kill herself on the phone to you or she can do it miles away from civilization. The end result is the same. But anyway i suggest you give it a few days break and see what shes thinking then, if I'm right and she is manipulating you she will have pissed off by then and if she is actually going ape shit then it will give her time to calm down, talking to people when they are extremely emotional is not productive

Ditch that slutty ass whore, nothing but trouble. SHE fucked you over my friend and she deserves all of that if not more!

Revenge really makes you feel better, huh?

Hopefully you'll learn a lesson out of this.

That is fucked.

Don't get back with her for HER sake. Jesus, what happens when you break up again? Are you going to burn all her clothes and kill her parents?

About a week a go when sambob and NC petitioned Root to make her one.

I'm sorry if Jeff forgot to consult you beforehand :P

Meh, I'll get on him for that later. Its not as bad as the time he forgot to mention the Vbulletin convert the night before it happened. Sorry for the public nudity, governor, I'll be sure to fix the parking meters in the morning.

Wait, this means the public knows about me moonlighting as a backup Admin. Dammit.

Edit: And Mojo, how is burning her clothes even in the same ballpark as killing her parents? :p

Mojo...if the two of us can forgive each other for this fucking mayhem...I highly doubt seeing anything in the future that'd fuck it up short of her fucking an entire sports team in one night, hahaha.

We were together for half a year, she was cheating. And no, cheating on someone does not justify this level of devastation. I went far beyond what I intended, and have pushed her into suicide mode. At the worst, I was expecting one or two friends to drop her, and her to be really hurt for a few weeks...I didn't think her entire social circle was going to let her go over this.

Yes it does, you did good work my friend now sit back as another slut crys herself to sleep at night. Bitch shouldn't of messed around she brang it upon herself. Hopefully she kills herself this world doesn't need anymore sluts we already have enough.

Think about this, She was NAKED with another man who was lying ontop of her. Then she sucked on his penis while he is moaning and then she is bent over the bed while he procedes to fuck her like a dog, all this time she is moaning. Finally he blows all over her face. The next day she comes over to your place
and hugs/kisses you like she is a angel.

The world can never have enough sluts.

Yep, God bless Sluts and Single Mom's...someone has to keep the pension funds solid!

Edit: And Mojo, how is burning her clothes even in the same ballpark as killing her parents? :p

It's not. I just tried to think of more shittier things that can happen other than being displayed on the internet and having my photos deleted (THAT'S pretty harsh).

And Hex... dude. I'm pretty surprised that you flipped out like that. Not claiming I know you, but my impression of you on totse has been that of someone who's pretty level thinking. Which makes it even more frightening if you predominantly ARE that way and you did all that.

I'm a pretty vindictive bitch, but I could and would never do that under the circumstances. Maybe I'd do that if he got me arrested or something... I dunno, we're both crazy enough that we'd both be scared of what the other would do in retaliation.

See, the thing is, I am very level headed...the problem is this whole love thing. I'm only 20 years old, so all I had up until this relationship was complete and utter bullshit that amounted to little more than blowjobs and drinking. I got hurt like never before...and I went from an upright and reasonable person into summoning wretched fucking demons into my thought processes. I'm not even normally vengeful...I let most anything go without a problem. This was a huge, huge, revelation of what I can do when I'm hurt...I think I might be better off never having a relationship again.

Yes it does, you did good work my friend now sit back as another slut crys herself to sleep at night. Bitch shouldn't of messed around she brang it upon herself. Hopefully she kills herself this world doesn't need anymore sluts we already have enough.

Think about this, She was NAKED with another man who was lying ontop of her. Then she sucked on his penis while he is moaning and then she is bent over the bed while he procedes to fuck her like a dog, all this time she is moaning. Finally he blows all over her face. The next day she comes over to your place
and hugs/kisses you like she is a angel.QFT


Serioiusly, if she see you. Just run for your fucking life!

After that, she most likely wont bother you ever again. If not, she probably wants something else off you. Such like money.....house.....or even try to get have baby with you so she can fuck your life over. Think about it.....next time she fuck you. She probably would try to poke a hole your condom with needle.

Just please don't play this kind of russian routtle.

Anybody who knows me is well aware that I like to play chances...I'm going to chance it.

No, no, no.

This means you can USE this knowledge for your NEXT relationship. I've been a very good girlfriend, but in some sense I've been horrible.

Mt first serious relationship was from 15-17. It was too intense, I was too young. I was a raging bitch. So now in my current relationship, I've used my past experience to change my behavior. I've relaxed. When I lost my ex, I was devastated. He was perfect, I fucked up. But I won't do that again.

Just learn for the mistakes. You're not going to make it perfect on your first try. You learn something unique from every person you date that you couldn't with anyone else.

I used to think cheating was a definite deal-breaker. Until I was found on the guilty side. I will never do it again and our relationship has proven to be successful. Couples CAN heal from cheating. So as far as her actions goes, amends can be made. Now it's on her to not feel eternal resentment for what you did. I don't know how capable anyone is to take a step like that So one THAT basis, I'd say move on. There's a lot of bad blood between you two and I think it's too overwhelming for either of you to deal with.

Unless you want to lock yourselves up in a therapy room for the next 2 years and talk non-stop. Because that's really what it'll take. And I suppose I REALLY open-mind, but hey, nothing's impossible.

Gah.

You're as sick and fucked up as her if you're really thinking of getting back together.

It's not like she..dared to have a male friend and hung out with him too much, it's not like she slapped you around a bit, she fucking cheated on you.


And you're dumb enough to feel guilty about the things you did to punish her. Worse, you're stupid enough to think about fucking her again, and even getting back together.



Please, for the sake of humanity, if you two do ever get back together and get married, please consider sterilisation. Or castration.

Or a cork, on her part.

Hey, if I want to bring the anti-christ into the world, I'm going to. :P

Hey, if I want to bring the anti-christ into the world, I'm going to. :P
Dude she's using you. You took all her friends except one, you're like the only other person who still has anything too do with her.

Isn't HPV the one that like all women will contract eventually? Like 75% of women over 50 have it?

Just say what you said in the first post.

Approximately 20 million people are currently infected with HPV. At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have acquired genital HPV infection. About 6.2 million Americans get a new genital HPV infection each year.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm#common

I did some bad things to my ex when I broke up with her. I kinda regret it but at the same time I dont because I know she talks shit about me to her friends and my friends (our friends kinda got mixed up during the relationship)

Still that was going a bit too far. What did she do to deserve it?

Approximately 20 million people are currently infected with HPV. At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have acquired genital HPV infection. About 6.2 million Americans get a new genital HPV infection each year.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm#common

Yeah, that's what I thought...Why would her friends ditch her over that? They weren't her real friends anyway, you were probably doing her a favour in the long run...

*SLAP*

Do you hear that? That's the sound of a thousand people at a thousand computers slapping their foreheads because you're so foolish.