Okay me and this girl have been doing stuff for a while now just playing around, hanging out and whatnot and have become pretty close.
Last night she came to mine after a party and we were making out for a while and things started to progress. Cloths started to come off and i started rubbing her but for somereason i didnt try to finger her.. I havent before so it might be some nervous thing.

So totse guys or girls help me out, what the easiest way to "enter" any certain things to feel for, we usualy lie down when we make out so it might make it easier i dont know :P

serious replies only.. thanks

When you are lying down making out, slowly slide your hand down to her "magic box" just casually rub around her thighs etc. give her time to say no if you are unsure if shes ready for that.

If there is no protest slowly move your hand closer and closer until you get to the lips. stroke them a bit and get her excited. If you still aren't getting any complaints I would slip the finger in. Remember once you find the hole to rub the top wall of her vagina. Do a "come here" motion with your hand. Just listen to her body language and you'll be sweet.

I think once you get in there its all second nature..

K thanks for that info, so it should be pretty easy then, she wasnt detesting or anything yesterday so it should be all good to make the next step. Anything else?


any girls/women care to comment

thanks

Just go for it, do a bit of research with google, menshealth, maybe download some videos or something on techniques then have a bit to drink just enough to loosen yourself up and do it.