Ok, so I was with a girl last night(hotter then any i have ever been with) we were drinking and she was in my bed. Then things got hot and she got naked and I couldnt get it up. What the hell is wrong with me? She has a boyfriend so maybe I just think its wrong so nothing is happening. She even went down on me and nothing happened. I even got it in and just couldnt get it going. I feel like shit. I think i may have been nervous.

After that i took her home and went back and it took me 35 min to get it up and wank. I feel like I have no sexual drive.. How do I get it back? is there any herbs or supplements i can take to help/

I've heard that alcohol can cause it. I don't like to drink much with girls.

If I flirt too much and get hard then have it go away sometimes it won't come back up.

Stay calm and keep it down till you need it.

seriously, i would advise that you only drink enough to barely feel it, maybe 1-2 drinks (or 3-4 over whole night), also try drink a couple of red bulls or v's before, and drink water as well, plenty.

and no you dont have ed, the same thing happened to me when i was 14, and you dont get ed at 14, in the end i got it up though, here in australia we call it the fosters flap , fosters being a beer company.
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If you're worried then go see a doctor.