I'm a guy and I can't cum. Even when we had sex for about an hour I still couldn't cum. I have cum a few times after handjobs but during sex I can't cum. WHATS THE DEAL!?!?

I'm sorry sir. Its the aids.

You should have stayed out of the pool .

Dude, same thing. I don't know what the fuck is wrong. I fucked for at least thirty minutes and my girlfriend is moaning, saying how good I am, whatever. Meanwhile I'm thinking "God, if I could just cum!"

That must suck.

Glad I don't have that problem:)

That happened to me a couple days ago. My ex was over, and we we're fucking and I didn't wanna cum. I'm pretty sure it had to do with the fact that I had already jacked off twice that day, anddd that I had to piss really bad while we were fucking.


Just don't jack off for a couple days, make sure you don't have to piss, and most of all.... STOP FUCKING THINKING ABOUT IT! It's not happening because you are thinking about it, infact, try to think about not cuming.

i had the same problam when i first started having sex. you need to not jack off for a few days and when your fucking,dont let your mind get cluttered,just think how good it feels and how good it sounds to hear her moan and shit.thats the key yo.

I think you guys are seeing this as a one time thing. I've had sex about ten times and I still can't cum. Sometimes I can't get hard. I'm fifteen and my hormones are raging...I think that might be the problem. Otherwise, do you think I should see a doctor about this?

Also, could this mean I'm gay? If not gay could it mean I'm just not attracted to this particular girl? I'm very sure I'm straight but I'm willing to consider all possibilities and if I were gay I wouldn't keep it from myself or be ashamed because I don't discriminate on sexual preference.

Ask her to give you head, if you come it's not a health thing.
Try different condoms, extra thin ones maybe (be careful though).

I think you guys are seeing this as a one time thing. I've had sex about ten times and I still can't cum. Sometimes I can't get hard. I'm fifteen and my hormones are raging...

Performance anxiety.

fake it.

I'm just getting through this problem, don't worry, for the most part it's not physical.
You probably have, though, conditioned yourself to cum under very specific peramiters.
You need to train your brain to be comfortable with ejaculating near a woman after years of sex education, SPERM NEAR WOMEN = END-OF-YOUR-LIFE!

Break it down into stages for each sex session. Take it slow.
First off masturbate in eachother's company.
Masturbate eachother.
Masturbate then finish off inside her.
Masturbate then enter her earlier e.t.c.
Keep on going until you don't need to masturbate at all. Brillo!

It's slow starting, but worth it. I suggest you do some of your own reading too, you aren't alone.

maybe you just need a hotter bitch to fuck

Ownt.

just don't jerk off for a few days before you fuck and like before you do fuck take viagra and like get stoned off weed to make you horneyer and like then you cum in her pssy so good lool ps. don't use a condome it feels better without one dog lol

Heres a tip. If you are used to masterbating to porno then play a porno while having sex with her. If shes open minded she won't care of course you guys are only 15 so she might be freaked out by this. But this helps.

I think this is kind of irrelevant but I always found it funny in Latin class when my teacher would use forms of the verb venio (to come) in class. For example, he might say "Venit - he came" or even better "veni - I came." I suppose that's rather puerile but when you're reviewing Latin verb conjugations, you take whatever you can get.

venio is a word?

venio, venire, veni, ventum - to come

It's Latin. That's why we discuss it in Latin class.

I don't thank anyone has suggested this but, maybe you have ED (erectile dysfunction). So see a doctor about it and if you do he will give you a prescription and you'll be fine again.

rofl the key yo is fucking absorbing the experience. enjoying all its natural beauty and fucking velvet appeal. that's what it's all about.

fuck, i WANT that problem

would make a change from the ol'

"get ready...GO!" sprint

It is because you are to used to your hand...

Once you have sex more you will be more comfortable with sex instead of wanking.

^That's exactly why ^^right there

when i was 15 i think i would have cum pretty much instantly, maybe you are gay.

Most likely there's no physical defects going on here.

And the thing about you being too used to your hand is true in many cases. Although you're a bit young to be getting that desensitized from masturbating. Many peopel whack it with what's known as the "death fist/death grip". They get too accustomed to this (and it is very desensitizing over time) so they can't get off from penetrative sex because they aren't used to it and/or they can;t feel it much due to desensitization from hand friction on their penis.

Jacking off is one of the worst things you can do to destroy your sexual pleasure. I'd highly recommend getting a Fleshlight (http://www.fleshlight.com) and using it as a substitution for when you have the urge to get off but don't have access to a vagina at that moment since it simulates penetrative sex and won't desensitize your cock.

Also, could this mean I'm gay? If not gay could it mean I'm just not attracted to this particular girl? I'm very sure I'm straight but I'm willing to consider all possibilities and if I were gay I wouldn't keep it from myself or be ashamed because I don't discriminate on sexual preference.

k, im gonna go out on a limb here and say this is the dumbest thing ive read all day. Just cause you cant cum doesnt mean your gay. If you prefer naked men over naked women then you are gay. But nonetheless just try and enjoy yourself.

i agree maybe you just caught the ghey...

......the only logical solution is murder/suicide.