I'm now dating a good friend of mine. We have both been attracted to eachother since we met, we just never really moved on it and it finally happened a few months ago.

Now, here's the problem; I like this guy a lot, however, I know he cares for me a lot more. It's strange because he claims that I've helped him open his mind to things and he now claims that he's fallen in love with me.

I was once in his posistion, to a best friend of mine, and I can relate to how he feels. I just don't know whether or not I'll ever really care for him that much. Part of me is saying to not worry about it, because we are so young and to just wait. I definitely don't want to break up with him. I mean, I am extremely attracted to him. I just don't want to end up hurting him and him not understanding why, because the same thing happened to me.

I'm not really sure if I'm looking for advice, just a bit of input from anbody else's experience.

Thanks for your time,
sylph

A you havin' the wild monkey sex?

Some say that it helps & others say that it warps the mind to get into that too soon?

With the modern tradition of girls using 'It' like a bribe 'cause, "If he don't get it here he'll get it 'somewhere' else"? Things may be a bit warped....

It is a puzzle, innit?

He feels more attraction than you do. This is going to happen a lot throughout your life (as in, hundreds of times) and its something you'll get used to. Its hard to let people down when they like you more, kind of leaves a sick feeling in my stomach every time it happens to me. Pretty much every relationship breaks down because of this - one person is drastically more attracted than the other, they drift apart, and things collapse.

Hopefully you'll either feel more attracted or he'll loose some interest before then.