Not mine, though she is a good friend of mine, who cheated on another good friend of mine. They've been together almost a year now, and they're young and all that (highschool), but it seemed they really had something. Basically I normally wouldn't get involved, but these two are very close to me and this shit is bound to cause problems.
Basically she'd been hanging out with this big nosed jew fucker (pardon) for the last couple weeks, who had been giving her rides around and shit. Though she insisted they were just friends it was obvious that he had a thing for her (no dude gives girls 2 years younger than him rides around for fun, and doesnt make them pay gas money unless he wants something), and my friend her exboyfriend and I both warned her not to chill with him.
Last night it came out that she recently gotten drunk at a party and got with him (I have no idea how far they went) and when my friend found out he flipped, broke up with her, and now hes fuming mad, and shes in tears.
So &T what is your opinion on this? They've had a fairly rocky relationship lately, and I'm wondering if this is the last straw. I really don't want to see two close friends bicker like this. Your thoughts/advice?

well.. they did have something good going!... sure she was "" under the influence "" of booze.. but she still has to take care of her own actions!..

Alcohol isin't an excuse. It's her own fault and she shouldn't be crying about it.

Sad as it seems, I think it's probably best for both of them that it's over.

Okay, maybe only best for the guy.

But he did the right thing, he deserves more respect than that. And if the relationship's been rocky lately anyways, maybe it was just time for it to end.

Doesn't seem like there's a problem, they're not together, and thats probably how it should be.

Any girl who goes around slutting it up with other guys, regaurdless of alcohol, should know whats coming. Likewise, if your dating a whore, you should prepare yourself for a letdown with the whole fidelity thing.

Anyways, and this is gonna sound bad, I'm glad that chick had her heart broken. Alcohol isn't an excuse, and if the girl knew she was a slutty drunk then she should have been in a relationship and gone partying.

Sucks for your guy friend though, having known cold hard bitches in the past I must say that nothing is worse than having your girl cheat on you. Honestly, I think women tend to do it more than guys anymore. That, or at least nobody mentions the guys who cheat. I think I've heard of 6 or 7 situations in the past month involving cheating girls, and none involving men, food for thought...

if she had a boyfriend, she had no reason to be riding around with that other guy all the damn time. what is she stupid or something? it's common sense stuff that she should have known. what guy does that with a girl without the interest of whats in her panties? and then she goes and gets drunk with him, what did she think would happen? that dirty slut knew in the back of her mind what was going on. however, if the boyfriend was naive enough to just let her slip away like that then he learned a valuable lesson on how girls work.

First of all, i give girls rides around, but that's 'cuz they're my connects... anyways, yeah, fuck her she got what she deserved... not even enough, if you ask me.

I agree with the guy above.. there are reasons for driving a girl around but yeah I suspect he did like her.

Anyway, try and be there for them both.. let them know you don't want to take sides.

Stupid bitch knew what was coming, she knew what she wanted, and im sure she knew that she'd fuck around with him before she got drunk with him. Your friend has every right to be mad, and if i were him id never want to see the fucking bitch again. That kind of shit is unacceptable.

AND if it was me, the "big nosed jew fucker" would be the recipient of a severe beating, and possibly broken knee caps.

Accidents happen. Sometimes too much alcohol is consumed after a fight, someone nice comes along, and shit happens. Everyone feels terrible the next day, the cheating partner confesses amid tears, and life goes on from there.

After riding round in someones car, then getting drunk and making out 2 weeks later, it can no longer be called an accident. She knew what was going on.

But come on dude - they're both in hichschool! This is both of their prime fuck years. It's not like they are married with kids or anything.....

It's all well and good to blame the girl for her actions...And rightly so of course. It's her responsibility to guard her actions, especially when drunk.

But what about the Jew boy? I'm sure he knew she was seeing someone yet he kept making advances on her. Giving rides, going to a party and getting hold of her, etc, etc...Unacceptable to do with a girl who is with someone.

I say let the storm go its course. If they really did have something together then they'll find it again no matter what.

As for our story's son of Abraham, I say he gets some sweet justice.
A good kicking would suffice...Something Old Testament style...Fitting for the Judeo/Christian thing! ;)

To say they "really had something going" is stupid.

They are way to young to have a relationship.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. They should NOT be together, and that guy should not be surprised that happend.

Listen to Kim by Eminem.

Then decide what you wanna do.

I mentioned they are in highschool just to show that they're still young and all that, so its clear that it's nothing too serious, but they have been together a while and have become pretty close. Also I should probably mention this was his first real girlfriend, which is what makes it more seriosu than just any break-up. I personally think that this relationship just might need to die at this point.

As far as the dude she cheated on him with, I'm all for beating the shit out of him, but right now my friends obviously all preocupied with his fight with her. Once this shit clears up though I would be very dissapointed if he didn't at least confront this little bitch about what he did. Yeah she did wrong, but this asshole KNEW she had a boyfriend and still tried to get with her. He needs something to happen to him, and I have the exboyfriends back in any fight he gets in with this kid. My main concern here is not the break up itself, but what that means for my future relationship with both of them seeing as they are both my good friends and this break-up has been anything but smooth. I really don't want have to get into taking sides and all that shit.

TAKING SIDES?!?! There is no 2 sides to this. If they start being idiots and wanting you to choose, YOU CHOOSE THE GUY. If you decide to stay friends with your best friend's cheating slut of a whore ex-girlfriend, even if you were friends before the relationship, you're just as much as douche as the big-nosed jew.

The bitch deserves to be kicked to the curb like the worthless garbage she is.

Don't blame the big nosed jew... maybe it's love! :D

They're still in high school, still learning from their mistakes. Mark it down to experience and move on.

Nah I was just saying I'd hate to be put in a situation where they'd want me to pick,awkward shit. But if it did come down to it, bros before hoes.

Talk to the girl and see how she feels about this. I mean it's because of her that all this happened, so see if she's truly sorry. Then get to your other friend and tell him if she's really broken up about it. You say that it's his first girlfriend so maybe he'll put up with it.

Otherwise, don't get involved. And if one detracts you (taking sides and shit), don't do it back because they're both going through some tough shit.

Hope that helps.