I'll try to make this as short as possible. Ok so my Ex-girlfriend has always been my friend, we've always talked even when we were in other relationships. I got another girl pregnant 3 months ago. Since my ex and me broke it off I've inherited quite a bit of money and bought a house where my current girlfriend and I stay.

When Aneta(my pregnant girlfriend) thinks I'm at work I go to Jen's(My Ex) and when Jen thinks I'm working I'm at home with Aneta. They both think I make $40 an hour as a construction worker. I wake up at 6 usually, get high, screw Jen and get stoned again. Around three or so I start drinking on my way back to Aneta. It is childish, cruel, and selfish. I guess my way of coping is getting fucked up all day and lieing to myself.

I'm really trying to break it off with Jen but she always finds a way to sucker me back into bed with her. I don't want to lose Aneta or our baby. I always tell myself this is the last time I talk to Jen, I swear to myself I can't take another day. Then the next morning I hop in my car and were sleeping together moments later.

I am scum, an imbecile, a liar, but it tears me apart like it should. I do have feelings and this is killing me. What shall I do ?

You're human. It's fine, we're all horrible people. You do need to break it off with Jen though. I know how hard it is to try getting rid of somebody that's been in an intimate relationship with you for a long part of your life but it all just has to do with state of mind. Break it off with her, convince yourself you'll be happy and won't need her soon and just ask yourself why you can't be like that now and skip recovery.

You've basically solved your own problem. There's nothing we can say, you just have to stop seeing her and grow up. You have a child, that means A LOT of responsibility.

I'm really trying to break it off with Jen but she always finds a way to sucker me back into bed with her.

Oh yeah, I'm sure it's her fault.

Christ, be a man! You're about to become a dad for god's sake. This is what teens do when they're 14, not when they have a kid on the way.

Suck it up and break it off with Jen, and while you're at it go get a job to buy your pregnant girlfriend an engagement ring so your kid doesn't end up a bastard.

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I am scum, an imbecile, a liar, but it tears me apart like it should. I do have feelings and this is killing me. What shall I do ?

Yeah you're right !! All of the above plus a WORTHLESS BITCH !!!

Stop seeing Jen! That's your first huge problem. Second, you need to stop lying to Aneta. If you have feelings, be decent enough to tell her the truth at least about your job. She deserves to know about the ex-girlfriend as well, but that's kind of up to you to decide.

Pull yourself together, learn to be a dad. And quick.

Dude, isn't she starting to wonder just where the money from your made up job is?
Don't tell her about Jen. It will fuck things up. As long as you are truly sorry that's good enough.
Also make sure Jen doesn't tell your girl friend what happened once you brake it
off. Then ask your girl friend to marry you.
Then it's smooth sailing from there.

Be sure to arrange things so you don't lose your money should Aneta find out

Oh and.. dump Aneta instead. For the lulz factor